My mother-in-law always hates me and always says I can't do anything. What should I do? I'm in too much pain.

Although I am a man, I can understand how difficult it is for you to meet such a mother-in-law. Old people who are still thinking like this in the old society think that women must be housewives and take care of their husbands and children, which is really unfair to you.

I think you should still have a job, otherwise it will be too bad for you. You can't ask your husband to support you for life. You should live with dignity. I'm afraid your mother-in-law can't change this idea, but neither can you have that idea. You are not a nanny and have your own ideals, but it is right to take care of your family.

What your husband did must be influenced by his mother. Try to talk to your husband and tell him what you think. After all, in today's society, women also have their own careers and want to turn themselves into traditional housewives.

Your husband still loves you. Slowly change their ideas. I believe you will succeed.