Why do Chinese people need bride price and dowry to get married, but foreigners don't have these instructions?

About the wedding is everyone must go through the big event of life, but in China, to marry a daughter is to have a wedding before the deposit as well as the real price of that a gift is a large sum of money, and the man asked for the woman dowry thing is also a courtesy. According to my understanding, the most common family in the countryside, if you want to get married, the least they can do is about 300,000 yuan, a car and a house are necessities, if you want to get married these points can not be reached, then do not whimsical, it is simply a toad wanting to eat swan meat.

In fact, the reason is very simple, we all feel that it is not easy to raise a daughter, so they hope that her daughter has a good family, but at the same time do not want to be able to accompany him with the bitter, between love and bread to choose, most people are still rational, who will not be able to fight the world for you with bare hands

These are the reasons why the world is not so easy to raise a daughter. strong>. Even in China's rural families, they even dumped their families and parents aged more than 50 years old but also go out to fight for their sons, although this is a seemingly unsmiling approach, but then have to say a young man 30 years old he really has nothing.

However, regarding foreigners, if a Chinese woman or man is fortunate enough to meet a foreigner, they feel like nagging a large sum of money from a country as developed as theirs, so they won't ask for anything more. Besides, they think highly of others, and others won't begrudge them some of these gifts. So the more humble, but both sides reciprocate more foreigners that kind of temperament, with our Chinese two countries combined, there will be different sparks produced. Even in the remote rural areas, there is a gringo in or on ah, door-to-door son-in-law will make people feel that this woman is particularly capable.

But in our ancient China has been continued down the etiquette of the marriage is to both sides to come up with some sincerity. If you take out some sincerity as if this marriage is more greedy, so it has been passed down since ancient times, these rituals once was missing, the wedding will lose its meaning.