What are the dregs of traditional Chinese culture that still confine people's minds?

As we all know, China is a great country with a very long history, in its development in the past few years, there are very many excellent culture in our sight, which is mainly represented by Confucianism and Taoism, in fact, the traditional culture, sometimes are not all the essence, or some traditional culture it is based on the era of the time to produce for the current has developed to this point of the advanced era is not practical. To this point in the advanced era is not practical, so the attitude towards traditional culture, we must take the essence, remove the dross, at the same time, you can choose to inherit some of the best traditional culture, the ancient for the present, some feudal, backward culture, the elimination of the elimination of the boycott of the boycott, we must have a correct attitude towards those traditional culture.

So far, there are still some cultural dregs affecting people's thinking, first of all, the idea that men are more important than women, in ancient times, we all know that there is a male superiority, in the minds of some people, the girls are useless, and finally married to someone else's family to become a family of others, only the male child can pass on the family name, and the male child is the only one who is able to pass on the family name. Male children can only pass on the generations, and at present this thought is still y rooted in the minds of many people, especially in some backward areas, for some people who have not received knowledge education of the parents of that generation, they are very obvious to this thought, and for the two different genders of the child will be treated differently.

There is also the saying that filial piety comes out from under the stick, which is accepted by many parents, which causes many parents to use some violent behaviors when educating their children, in fact, these violent behaviors will not make the child become more filial, but will make the child appear some rebellious psychology, under this kind of education. Sometimes it will cause some psychological problems of the child, making some children become distorted and perverted. On the other hand, it is very easy to cause the relationship between the child and the parents to become less close, resulting in a sense of alienation, sometimes under the stick can not come out of filial piety, but let the stick under the family split.

There is also the argument that the words of the parents and the orders of the matchmaker are a cultural dross, which is now in a more open society, and we all advocate for the freedom of love and marriage, but in some places, there is still the case of arranged marriages. Many people in the marriage is not at all and their favorite people, but with the parents require people, most of the parents they do not believe that their sons and daughters talk about male and female friends, but through the method of blind date, through the method of introduction of other people to introduce their own children object. There are even a lot of children simply do not like the blind date object, by the parents forced to marry together, parents also feel that they should have the right to the child's lifelong decision, and always play for the good of the child such a slogan.