The Second Opening Ceremony of Oriental Yueer Education Consultant

Yesterday, at 7 pm on July 25th, I finally looked forward to the second opening ceremony.

The opening ceremony was presided over by teacher Tao Zi, the head teacher. Teacher Tao Zi's voice is very gentle and soft, and her speech speed is very slow.

? Listening makes me realize, do children like us adults to communicate with them so gently and slowly The fast pace of adults, we unconsciously treat children as adults, and talk to them quickly and not gently. Speak too fast for the child to understand.

So I should always be aware of myself and remind myself that I should be able to communicate with my children gently, half a beat slower than usual!

? At first, Teacher Tao Zi told us a story: In India, the child of a very poor family was abducted by a passing businessman and then abandoned, so the child became the lowest shovel begging. The shovel walked a lot and suffered a lot. The father of the dung shovel wants to be a very rich businessman because his son was cheated by a rich businessman. After years of hard work, the father of dung shovel finally became the richest man in the country. After so many years, the shovel man has grown up and can't remember his family. When one day, in order to make a living, I went to my father's door and wanted to be his dung shovel. After all these years, the father recognized his son at a glance. My son can't remember when he was a child. He only knows that this family is the richest businessman in this country. In order to keep his son, Shovel Man, the father immediately agreed, which made Shovel Man have a lot of doubts, wondering if the businessman was difficult to serve and would kill him, so he ran away without looking back. Father was in a hurry, so he immediately asked Ding to chase him out, which made the dung shovel more afraid and ran hard. Finally, Ding caught up with him and fainted after struggling against him. The father looked at the poor son and threw cold water on his face. When his son woke up, he was very scared. Seeing this, my father reluctantly gave up what he wanted and made a big decision to let the servant take him away. The dung shovel knows that he can live. He is so happy. After his son left, the father made his family wear clothes and tools to shovel dung, let them get close to his son and lured him home to work. After getting familiar with their sons, servants often tell their sons how good business owners are. After a long time, their son finally went home and became a dung shovel. Because of riff-raff's long time and the education level at the bottom, when I arrived at the merchant's house, the merchant could no longer talk to his son. One day, however, the businessman took off his clothes, hat and valuables inlaid with precious stones and gold, put on clothes with a dung shovel, and came to his son with tools with a dung shovel. He said that he often observed these days and found that you are a very honest and hardworking person with high quality, and I admire you very much. So my son and I shoveled dung together. Talking while shoveling dung, eating and sleeping together, the relationship between the two is getting better and better. For more than ten years, every day, the father told his son everything that happened in his life and career. Through the efforts of his father for more than ten years, his son's management methods and high-level literacy have improved a lot. Everything goes through life and death, and my father's health is getting worse every day. When I called the dung shovel to my side before I died, I treated you as my son. I entrusted my career leaders to you and took my son into the warehouse, which was filled with boxes of gold and silver treasures. Under the influence of his father for more than ten years, my son was very moved to see so many properties. My father never told me to death that you were a son lost many years ago. He left this world with this secret. After his father left, the shovel man lost his father's entrustment. He is honest with others and his business is getting bigger and bigger.

? This story happened in India more than two thousand years ago and was recorded in an ancient book.

? Hearing this story, the great father was very moved and introspected. A father with such a high status can put down all his identity and status and integrate his children into his son's life and work equally.

? Reflection on our parents, children's world and adults' world are completely different. Our children are like this shovel, and we are business owners. Many parents feel that they should be above their children and will not put down their bodies and apologize to their children if there is a contradiction with them. I don't know the world of children, I don't know the inner thoughts, psychological state and development law of children, and I have no empathy. There are many such parents around, and their children are like their accessories. Including myself, when I am taken away by emotions, I will temporarily forget myself. If I don't realize myself in time, then we will calm down and reflect on ourselves, go over what happened just now in our minds, see what we did at that time, what kind of state my child and I are in, and think about why the child is like this, and whether there are other unmet needs behind it. What should I do and reflect on whether there is a better way to guide.

? Therefore, under the circumstances that my family is not so supportive, I still insist on signing up Miss Li as an education consultant. I hope my children will not be influenced by my family background, and I hope I can learn more about my children and myself through learning.

? Really can be kind-hearted, professional and helpful!

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