Reflections on Zhu Zi's Family Instructions

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Reflections on Zhu Zi's Family Instructions 1 I read a book "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" in recent days. There are many words on it that I think make sense. For example, there is a passage, the content is like this: a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. This sentence means: when eating a bowl of porridge and a grain of rice, think of them as hard-won; When using half silk and half thread; We must take into account the difficulties in spinning. This sentence is very reasonable. Thrift is a good habit. We should not only save food materials, but also save energy such as water and electricity.

There is another sentence that makes sense. This sentence says that although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice must be sincere; Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics. Sacrifice is to prepare sacrifices to pay homage to Buddha or ancestors. The classics are the Four Books, Analects of Confucius, Mencius, University, the Doctrine of the Mean, and the Five Classics, Book of Songs, Shangshu, Yijing, Book of Rites, Spring and Autumn, all of which are Confucian classics. This means: ancestors have been dead for a long time, but they can't sacrifice to disrespect God; Although our children and grandchildren are stupid, we still can't help reading those classics that stress etiquette and culture, because the Four Books and Five Classics are the condensation of China's excellent traditional culture. Although some are not suitable, it is still worth learning.

There is a saying that is the foundation of being a man: doing good and wanting others to see it is not really good, but doing evil and others are afraid is a great evil. Although there are only sixteen words, the truth is not small. Good is good, and desire is hope; Evil is doing bad things, and fear is of course fear. The whole meaning of it is this: if you do something good, you want others to know that it is not really a good thing; It is really evil to do something bad or wrong without knowing how to correct or remedy it, but afraid that others will know that this behavior is more serious than doing something wrong. Therefore, we often say that we are not afraid of doing wrong, and we are afraid that we will not admit our mistakes and not repent. This is reasonable, which seems a bit abstruse.

I don't agree with any of them. This sentence is: keep your life safe, listen to the weather forecast in time, and you are so close. Don't understand? Let me explain something to you. The meaning is similar. The translated meaning is this: keep your duty, be content with your destiny, and listen to the sky if you are peaceful. It's almost perfect like this However, the ancients were different from us. For them, it is actually very frustrating to say that they are content and obedient to their fate. In real life, we should be more aggressive on the basis of observing the laws of natural history and let our destiny be in our own hands.

There is a sentence that makes me see the author's philanthropic character: trade with shoulders, don't take advantage; When you see poor relatives and neighbors, you must help them more. Don't know how to carry it? Shoulder-shoulders are small traders and poor people. It means: those small vendors who walk the streets and carry the burden to sell things are very hard. Don't take advantage of others when dealing with them. For those relatives and neighbors who are frustrated in stages, be kind and gentle. And take the initiative to care for and help them. It can be seen that the author is indeed a philanthropic gentleman. It can be seen from the author's concern about the life of small traders that the social atmosphere there must have been very good at that time.

In a word, Zhu Xi's family instructions told me many things, such as saving food, offering sacrifices sincerely, and learning from reading four books and five classics. Be a good person, but good people don't ask for anything in return; You can't be a villain, but it's a big mistake for a villain to hide it again, adding evil to evil; You have to rely on yourself every day, and you can't leave it to fate. When you meet a poor peddler on the road, you must try your best to help him and make a deal with him. You can't be greedy for petty gain. In addition to these, Zhu Zi's Family Instructions also said a lot, so I won't list them here. These are the truths summed up by our ancestors in life, which contain infinite wisdom and have important guiding significance for our present study and life.

Reflections on Zhu Zi's Family Instructions 2 "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" tells the reason why the hundred words have become Confucian classics and are important to the world for hundreds of years. Only in this way can we understand the good intentions of school teachers asking us to study.

Not to mention the richness and profundity of Zhu Xi's family instructions, we can see that the whole article is connected by antithetical sentences, which has a sense of rhythm and is catchy to read.

For example, "get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, and be neat inside and outside." When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will check it yourself. "

From the beginning, it gives people a carefree mood. Many people yearn for a quiet life. It's actually quite simple. As the author said, get up early every morning, clean yourself up and greet the new day neatly. When the last ray of sunshine is taken away, they will fall asleep in the moonlight. A closed door will shut out troubles and precipitate yourself and other thoughts ... keep a calm mind and take every day seriously!

It teaches us to be frugal. "It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; Half a silk and half a wisp, it is difficult to save material resources. " This sentence has been widely circulated. Diligence is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is a treasure that cannot be discarded in today's greatly improved material life. Any unremarkable object is a gift from nature and the crystallization of human labor, which has its unique value and cannot be wasted; Productive labor is different from animals and is necessary for human survival. Therefore, thrift and hard work are the most basic virtues of human beings.

It teaches us to think. "It is wise to prepare for a rainy day and dig a well when you are thirsty." Just like "being prepared for danger in times of peace", life is not always smooth. Learning to think and have foresight is a necessary condition for success.

It teaches us to make friends. "Intimacy is wicked, long and tireless; Qu Zhi is old and anxious, and can rely on each other. " If you associate with those bad boys and girls, you will get tired of them for a long time. If you associate with Mr. Chen Youde, you can rely on them in times of crisis. This is also what Confucius said about making friends. It can be seen that making friends carefully is very important to yourself and others.

It teaches us to listen. "Listen to the words lightly, understand their unreasonable grievances, be patient, and think twice before you leap; If we argue about something, we must think calmly, "Yes, we should be good at listening, especially to leaders, but listening doesn't mean trusting it, and it doesn't mean teaching us tolerance. "Leave room for everything and be proud of it." Learn to be tolerant and give others a chance. A tolerant person must have a broad mind like the sea. Such a person is a peaceful person, and her heart is always peaceful. People should not be jealous. People who are better than themselves will always live in the torment of jealousy, not only hurting others, but also hurting themselves. Therefore, "people's happiness should not be jealous; People should not be lucky if they have disasters. "

"Family Instructions of Zhu Zi" is not only a family instruction at this time, but also a motto to spur personal behavior, so as to restrain and regulate oneself.

Reflection on Zhu Zi's Family Instructions 3 Before learning this book, I only knew it was a family instruction, and even thought it was strange. Through study, the whole article is concise and rich in content, which not only tells us how to run a family, but also teaches us a lot about being a man.

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At the beginning of the article, I wrote: "Get up at dawn, sweep the court, and be neat inside and outside, that is, pass out and close the door." Let me feel a kind and practical feeling, and then I seem to see an idyllic leisurely life, peaceful and calm. Every morning, taking advantage of the coolness of the dew, I use a broom to clean the courtyard and keep it clean inside and outside. At night, I will fall asleep in the moonlight, close the doors and windows, and shut out all the troubles of the day. Face life with an optimistic and positive attitude. "It is not easy to think of porridge and rice, but it is difficult to think of it." This is a kind of respect for labor. Diligence and thrift have always been the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Advocate that we should be honest and set an example. Don't covet unexpected wealth, and don't drink too much. Don't throw stones at the poor, but give them timely help. Being mean to others will always be countered by others. If you don't follow the moral standards, you will be easily abandoned. When it comes to the rich and the poor, you should pay attention to the integrity of "wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved" and treat them equally. It is a moral behavior not to gossip. Of course, now is the internet age, which will inevitably produce some gossip news, but each of us has such spiritual consciousness, and the whole social atmosphere will get better and better.

Back to our real life, this awareness is mainly reflected in efforts. Do everything yourself, don't always look at others, but also consciously care about your family, others and colleagues, and consciously assume the responsibility of doing things.

Look at yourself.

The article says "don't kill raw birds without thinking about your stomach", which means that you can't kill raw birds at will because of your greed, and you should hold environmental awareness. "Being close to the villain is bound to be tired after a long time, but you can rely on it when you are anxious." This sentence is about making friends. If you associate with those bad guys, you will be tired after a long time, and you can rely on them when you are old and virtuous. This is also what Confucius said about making friends. That is, we often say that "those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black." Generally speaking, to understand and evaluate a person, we only need to see who the people around him are. In fact, this book has given me more inspiration in dealing with people. "Listen to the speech quietly, but also realize that others are wrong, but be patient and think twice." This is to teach people not to believe rumors, to think that others may have framed them, and to know how to think twice. As the saying goes, "If you listen to everything, you will know one thing, but you don't know the other", which means that people should learn to reflect on themselves and not blindly blame others. In dealing with people and things, "don't forget wealth and poetry, don't forget gratitude". It's really good to be kind to people without asking for anything in return. But don't forget to owe others. The so-called "the grace of dripping water, when the spring is reported" is what the gentleman does. "Leave room for everything and be proud of yourself." Be tolerant of others and learn to give others opportunities. "Tolerance" has always been the highest realm of moral cultivation. A tolerant person must have a broad mind like the sea. Such a person is a peaceful person, and his heart will always be peaceful. People should not be jealous. People who can't hide that others are better than themselves will always live in the arrow of jealousy, which will not only hurt others, but also hurt themselves. So "everyone is happy, don't be jealous; People have disasters and can't help but be happy. " In work and life, the professional qualities that each of us actively follows are due diligence, unity and cooperation and selfless dedication in the team.

We should constantly check ourselves, don't be jealous of others, make fun of others, don't love money like life, don't calculate others ... start from ourselves, be a sensible person, keep a low profile, have your own beliefs and have manners.

Since the Enlightenment

In the pursuit of fame and fortune, Zhu advocated: reading aims at sages, not disciples; Being an official and having a sovereign country is not a family background. Reading is for learning and asking questions, not for fame and fortune. Being an official is for the country and the world, not for your own personal interests. Such a pursuit is difficult to achieve now. Reality always changes people's original intention mercilessly. The original pure and noble original intention has changed beyond recognition after hitting a wall countless times in front of reality. Therefore, it is very difficult to stick to your original intention, and this difficulty must be overcome by firm belief. The truth is true thousands of times, but it is not easy to implement. It is a very effective method to always remember your original intention and protect your inner position, so perseverance is more important.

We should constantly sum up and understand in our study and work, be far-sighted, don't do things because of doing things, don't learn because of learning, and constantly improve ourselves.

After reading Zhu Xi's family instructions, what I think is far from the above, and there are still many epiphanies, sentiments and inspirations. But still around the consciousness, introspection and since the enlightenment these three aspects to elaborate. It is not only a family training, but also a motto to spur personal behavior, so as to discipline yourself in work and life.

Thoughts on Zhu Zi's family instructions 4 Although Zhu Zi's family instructions are only a few hundred words, they express profound ways of managing the family in an easy-to-understand style. It is a classic of Confucianism and has been valued by the world for hundreds of years.

Today, Family Instructions of Zhu Zi is a family education book, which cultivates children's perfect personality and accepts traditional culture. In the book, you can taste the etiquette and faithfulness of "being a teacher is more important than politeness, and making friends is more important than keeping promises". The wisdom of "prepare for a rainy day, dig a well and not be thirsty" and the broad mind of "leave room for everything, be complacent and never look back" ...

"Don't run a beautiful house, don't seek fertile land" and "Don't be complacent". There is no denying that desire gives us the motivation to move forward. People's desires are endless. It is like a grass full of vitality. As long as there are suitable conditions, it will grow wantonly. The world is so complicated and wonderful. So we hurried through the bustling streets, chasing fame and fortune, exhausted physically and mentally. Perhaps no one wants to stop, and not many people can understand what they are looking for. They just walked and got what they thought they wanted or deserved.

However, no one can really have everything.

Montague once said, "If we pursue happiness, so be it. In fact, what we are pursuing is to be happier than others. " Yes, a small word "ratio" makes countless scales unbalanced and makes countless hearts tired. You should learn to be content. Set aside some time in the hustle and bustle, spend time with parents who have worked hard for themselves for half a lifetime, be considerate and caring for relatives, and greet friends ... Sometimes, happiness is like this.

China has many excellent cultures and traditions. If a nation lacks its own culture, reading foreign culture is very terrible. The long-standing culture of the East has been misinterpreted and forgotten by us too much, but it has been well preserved in our neighboring countries. If China wants to have a place in the world, it must carry forward our local culture and let foreigners learn from us.

An American educator heard that 250 million students in China are learning English with sarcastic expressions. Why? Because the changes in English are too complicated, everyone is trying to keep the national things in their own language from being assimilated and influenced by others. Not to mention our primary school students, even our graduate students and doctoral students are spending a lot of time learning something that does not belong to our own culture.

I remember reading an article about chanting by Mr. Hu Shi, saying that when he was studying in a private school, he also recited four books and five classics every day, which was quite a headache for him at that time. Fortunately, when you are young, you only need to recite, and you don't need to understand, only to find that those boring things have become a beacon to guide life in the long journey of life!

Of course, times are changing, and some contents in ancient classics may not be suitable for this era, but most of them are reasonable. There are trade-offs in life, and so can the contents in the book. Avoid the hustle and bustle of the market, let's read Zhu Zi's Family Instructions to examine the bottom space of the soul!

The world is like a pool of water. At first, we didn't know how deep it was. When I grow up, I find it unfathomable. Gradually, people learned to swim in this pool with wisdom and strength, but we lost more.

Family Instructions of Zhu Zi is not only a family instruction, but also a family instruction that China people and the world should learn. It is the continuation of China culture, which has stood the test of time and the precipitation of history. When more and more people stop being honest with each other, stop thinking that openness is the foundation and stop trusting each other. A book "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" is guiding us how to walk the road of human character.

"People are happy, not jealous. People are in trouble, not happy." Envy is the poison of the soul. Jealousy will blind people's eyes of wisdom and never see the real meaning. I remember there was a child in "Education of Love", because he was too jealous, which aroused everyone's disgust. In the end, no one could surpass the jealous person. It is important to have a broad mind, which can accommodate not only hundreds of rivers, but also the world. This is the real strong. Misfortune never rains but it pours, just as "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" has been circulated among generations of Chinese descendants. Those who gloat over others' loss of a horse, and those who sigh because a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise, finally understand misfortune, the reliance of blessings, and happiness and misfortune. How can happy people see the final outcome? Things always change and develop. In addition, when others are suffering, you should help yourself more. This is a person's conscience.

Don't forget to have manners. In reality, there are always many people who hold their aloof hearts and often show off themselves in front of their benefactors. I don't know. It just makes people feel like they have no tolerance. What's more, because of my kindness, I always feel that others are sorry for myself and let others repay me. As a result, the reward far exceeded his kindness. Of course, I can't forget the kindness of others. Because of the poor family conditions, I got a lot of social assistance for school. One day, when I am developed, I will definitely repay them twice. After all, I got not only money, but also hope and motivation at this time. I don't have Han Xin's million-dollar ability to repay the old lady, but at least I will try my best.

"Reading is for sages, not for disciples" is basically useless in this society that only recognizes diplomas. But in my opinion, "book" is not learning. This book refers to a simple book that can be expanded into knowledge. "The book has its own golden house, the book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own thousand bells." Reading can increase people's self-restraint, expand their knowledge and even change their lives. In fact, the role of the first division should also be to select some people who are cultured and love reading, and who can realize many truths and methods from books. But later they all became utilitarian, and they all became studying for the first teacher and studying for the future. When can they study for the sake of studying?

Some real sages in ancient times studied for Cody. They all learned some truth from books and had their own ideals. Hundreds of scholars are great scholars, and so are the famous ministers of past dynasties. Most ancient gifted scholars were frustrated in officialdom. When immersed in their articles, they will experience different tastes.

At this time, "Zhu Zi Family Instructions" is not only a family instruction, but also a motto to spur personal behavior, so as to self-discipline and standardize themselves and shape more rigorous medical people.