Some people say that the reason for China's high divorce rate is actually due to the equal relationship between men and women, is this true?

The reason for China's high divorce rate is not because of the relationship between men and women. First of all, the emotional problems of both parties. Everyone in the heat of love will be affected by the emotional impact of a moment of impulse will be the edge of the life, maybe we are not mature enough, maybe we think differently, different lifestyles, in the married life after the feelings of slowly in the happy into boredom, from boredom in the into the torment, and later it will become the current state of divorce.

Second, the problem of money. In married life, money is needed everywhere, and it is difficult to move without it. We have to consider a lot of issues that we don't have to think about before we get married, and after that we will realize the importance of money, and a lot of reasons between couples in their life is because of the conflict of money and get divorced. Thirdly, the issue of children. Married with children, with the pressure and responsibility to have a different life with the past, these are a lot of people can not accept, the immaturity of the mind, the mind is not prepared, can not be responsible for their own family to children, all of a sudden will feel their life has changed radically.

And this change may be terrible, unacceptable, and begin to escape from reality, slowly, the conflict between husband and wife about the child will appear, and then slowly there will be quarrels, and then slowly into a divorce. Fourth, life is too stressful. Once you get married, it means the loss of freedom and the arrival of pressure. Almost all young couples who get married are burdened with mountains of debt. The house can easily be a million, the car at least more than 100,000 yuan. Within two or three years of marriage, there are children to be born and the elderly to be supported. Such pressure, in this young family, has exceeded love, more than can be borne.

When you should be enjoying the sweetness of your new marriage, you have to consider these pressures. If it's in a small town, most couples go out on their own to earn money and relieve the pressure of debt, while the other takes care of the family. And sooner or later, such a separation will lead to estrangement of the couple's relationship. Most young people are pampered, where they have been under pressure. It's like looking for a job and quitting at the first sign of stress. Once the marriage encountered ups and downs, the couple's relationship difficulties, do not think about the solution, but instead of a beat, many couples are so broken up.