Marriage is the cornerstone of happiness in life.

Wechat saw an article about the tragic life of a doctor studying in the United States, a university professor, a doctoral tutor, a chief agricultural expert and a vice governor of a province, Lu Mou, who hired and murdered his wife. This is a very sad story.

The vice governor was born in the countryside, with a poor teenager, a disabled father and a sick mother. But he studied hard and was recommended to go to college. He became a graduate student because of his excellent academic performance, and then went to the United States to study and returned home with a doctorate. He became a teacher at his alma mater, and was later appointed as a professor, vice president and vice governor. Being regarded as a "rising star of turtle politics", it can be said that the future is bright.

This beautiful-looking scholar-type vice governor has a very unfortunate family life.

Lu's first wife was a female teacher in his school, and he got married after he graduated with a master's degree. At the beginning of marriage, the relationship was not bad. After life became stable, there were great differences on the issue of supporting parents.

Lu is a dutiful son. He feels that his life is very good, and his suffering parents should live a good life like themselves, and often take his father home to take care of him. He is strict with his wife in taking care of his parents. "Put the bowl in front of the old man when you eat, and wait for the urine to finish in front of the old man when you are sick." My wife is a university teacher. She has a heavy task of teaching and scientific research, but also needs to take care of her daughter. She loves cleanliness. Naturally, she can't take care of her in-laws as her husband asks. On the whole, she did well.

Lu is very dissatisfied with this. He often complains about his dissatisfaction with his wife in front of leaders and colleagues, saying that his wife is not good to his family and so on. This let the whole school know.

Publicizing one's dirty laundry further deepened the contradiction between them. The cold war between the two sides continued, coupled with Lu's paranoia and male chauvinism, his wife lived with him for many years and could not live in harmony. In the end, they had to break up. After Lu's mother died, the two divorced, and Lu's first marriage ended.

After the divorce, Lu felt that he had no time to take care of his father and had to find another wife.

Summarizing the "lessons" of his last marriage failure, Lu felt that the daughter-in-law in the city read too much, was beautiful and had her own career. She can't take care of the elderly, nor can she be a good wife and mother. If she wants to serve her old father well, she must find a rural woman.

Therefore, the requirement of doctors studying in the United States for remarried wives is that "the lower the education, the better, the uglier the person, the better, and they must be willing to take care of their old father." In this way, Lu met his second wife.

The second wife is from Lu's hometown, plain-looking, with only a primary school education, and has been farming at home before. This condition is in line with Lu's requirements.

After the engagement, the second wife moved to the county to take care of her paralyzed father Lu. She works hard and takes good care of the elderly. Every time I came home, my old father praised the lesbian and said that she was as filial and considerate as her own daughter. Lu is very satisfied with this and thinks this is the daughter-in-law he wants.

After Lu's father died of serious illness, Lu and his wife began to live together in Zhengzhou and gave birth to a fat boy. It can be said that the family is stable and happy, and the career is thriving. Lu is very happy.

After Lu was promoted to vice governor, a family of three moved into the big house where provincial leaders lived, and their lives were taken care of by nannies. The reef buried by this marriage, the huge cultural gap between him and his second wife began to emerge slowly.

As a doctor studying in the United States, Lu's social status is rising, and the requirements for treating people are naturally getting higher and higher. His second wife is only an uneducated rural woman, so it is naturally difficult to meet Lu's requirements.

After Lu became the vice governor, there were many guests and friends at home. Whenever a guest comes, no matter what he talks about, his wife sits beside him and doesn't know how to avoid it.

Sometimes guests bring some gifts, and before the guests leave, the wife can't wait to open them.

On another occasion, a student from Lu visited the house, and his wife not only ignored the guests, but also publicly breast-fed the children in front of everyone, making the guests very embarrassed.

What makes Vice Governor Lu unbearable is that his wife not only does not pay attention to the influence at home, but even brings this bad influence outside.

Family conflicts escalated, and finally the vice governor cheated, had an affair, and his wife caught him in bed. Later, she often beat and cursed the vice governor at home, and once stabbed the vice governor in the waist with a sharp knife. In addition to making trouble at home, he ran to the provincial government office building and cried, threatening to jump off the provincial government building and commit suicide, forcing the vice governor to kneel down in the office to admit his mistake.

The vice governor wants a divorce, but his wife strongly disagrees. On the contrary, she threatened him that divorce would be a bigger enemy. She reported him taking bribes and put him in prison, scaring the deputy governor into never mentioning the divorce again.

Finally, the vice governor took risks and hired a murderer.

Kill for life.

In the end, I killed my wife, killed myself, and killed the murderers who helped me kill my wife.

Although the killer deserved it. But I still think the whole story (true story) is quite tragic.

This tragedy seems to stem from the unfortunate marriage of the vice governor, but it does not stem from the vice governor's personality defect.

After reading this story, I believe more people can deepen their understanding of the importance of marriage.

A happy marriage may not make life smooth and work smooth, but an unfortunate marriage will definitely make your life muddy and muddy.

Regarding marriage, first, choose carefully and enter cautiously; second, manage well and maintain carefully; third, the sea of suffering is boundless and return to the shore in time.

For most people, the focus is still on operation and maintenance.