In the north of the funeral has the custom of wearing mourning, there is also a funeral firecrackers scattered paper money custom, this belongs to bad habits?

Firecrackers are a traditional Chinese custom. The original meaning of the firecrackers is "to avoid evil spirits, to suppress the evil spirits and to bring down the blessings", which is the most common custom of the New Year in ancient times. According to legend, in ancient times there was a monster that looked like a human being, which hid in the mountains and was very brutal. At the end of every year, it would come out to hurt people and animals. But it has a fear of light and sound weakness, as long as the sound of firecrackers will be scared to run for their lives. Therefore, at the end of each year, that is, the beginning of the year, that is, the monster activity period, people will fight for firecrackers to pray for peace. Ancient people due to scientific underdevelopment, understanding of objective things have limitations, we can understand, and the ancient people firecrackers are sometimes zhuzu, only at the end of the year. But living in today's scientifically and technologically advanced countrymen, but regardless of the year or not, the festival or not want to put on the holiday, and the law expressly provides that in addition to the New Year's Day when the discharge of artillery is permitted, usually prohibit the discharge of artillery. The author believes that this is not in line with the traditional customs, but also not in line with the legal provisions of the behavior is a kind of bad customs, is a kind of damage and not self-interest of the bad customs. Maybe the person who set off the cannon thinks that the louder the cannon is set off at the wedding, funeral or opening, the more blessings and warm atmosphere it will bring to himself. But in reality, this is not the case.

First of all, the wedding cannon may not only will not bring blessings and joy, and may attract the right and left neighbor's abuse and curses, and will even attract bad luck. Marriage marriage is generally in the morning 5-6 o'clock, when people are sleeping, and the marriage of the violation of public morality, first in the woman's home to put a burst, the people woke up, and attracted abuse and curses; after the man's home there is a burst of release, and attracted a burst of abuse and curses; the marriage of the person would have liked to get the blessing of the people, but because of the release of artillery in violation of the public morality of the curse and curses, which is a very different marriage of the original intention. In addition, in case of two kicks after the first ring, the second ring but fell on the bride or groom's head, that can be very bad, light blow a bloody hole, made a bed before the red head first see red; heavy loss of life in the Yellow Springs, happy to do into the funeral, that is really called the crossroads. This also fulfills an old Chinese saying "happiness begets sadness", married people may say that this phenomenon will never happen to us, but, anything that happens are possible, contingency contains inevitability, not afraid of 10,000, afraid of the unlikely.

Secondly, the undertaker in the funeral to the deceased parents, the cannon to the sky, may want to give the public tree a filial son of the image of the virtuous grandson, want to give the left and right neighbors to see how great we are, we give parents to do funeral to be lively, that is, to show that, we are greatly filial son. Yes, filial piety has been talking about the old man to go, is a major Chinese folk "good deeds", but firecrackers can show your filial piety? I don't think so. You have to realize that living in the city is very different from living in the countryside. If you live in a modern city, you should accept modern civilization and have a sense of rules. Even if you are overly saddened by the death of your parents, you should be careful about whether what you do causes inconvenience or harm to others. Even if you are extremely sad and you want to show your filial piety, you must do things that show that you are a "filial son" without affecting others. Moreover, when your parents died in the funeral, you set off firecrackers, you want to achieve the purpose is what, is to tell people that your parents died, but this and most people who do not know you have any relationship, it can be said that the relationship is not at all, because your parents are not "affect the course of history" of the figure, even if it is the death of the influential figure has not seen a large number of people. Even the death of an influential person is not seen as a big firecracker, making noise, because his or her death is a very normal thing in nature. Do you want to achieve the purpose of "avoiding evil spirits and driving away ghosts, suppressing demons and subduing blessings" by setting off firecrackers, then it only shows that you are an unfilial person, how can you regard your parents, who have given birth to you and raised you, as "evils" and "ghosts"? "I'm not sure if I can do that, but I'm sure I can.

So are you thinking that because your parents have been in bed for years, they have dragged you down, and now that they are dead, you can be relieved and celebrate with firecrackers and kicks? If the above items are not, then what is the use of this firecracker? Have you ever thought about why you don't let your parents, who have worked so hard all their lives, leave quietly, but still use firecrackers and kicks to disturb their peaceful souls? Have you ever thought that your firecrackers may affect other people's normal rest or normal traffic because you set off firecrackers on the road, which will attract curses and make the souls of your deceased parents less peaceful? Have you ever thought that your firecrackers on the road will affect the pedestrians, in case there are heart patients among the pedestrians, due to your firecrackers, make the heart patients suffer from heart disease, hospitalization or even death, you have to bear all the responsibility. Your parents died a lot of money, and now you have to break the bank, I'm afraid that for a long time you can not be quiet, you see the funeral firecrackers have what use? The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in your life and what is going on in yours.

Once again, some businesses are also opening firecrackers, probably want to red-hot, bustling, hoping that the money rolls in. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that. Not also. The development of an enterprise relies on business management, relying on a good public **** image, if you think that more firecrackers at the opening, more than two kicks, the enterprise will thrive, will be able to attract wealth into the treasure, it is simply a pipe dream. The world's richest man in the United States Bill Gates, China's Li Ka-shing. Gates, China's Li Jiacheng, they create wealth by no means with the help of tens of thousands of firecrackers, hundreds of kicks to create wealth. In particular, there is an overnight creation of wealth said Baidu Network Technologies CEO Robin Li, his company's stock in the New York market from the issue price of $ 27 soared to $ 151.21, relying on the focus on the work, the use of technology to influence the lives of ordinary people to change the world, rather than through the release of firecrackers, two kicks, to influence the lives of ordinary people and create wealth.

Because the opening of the firecrackers can only be a nuisance, can only attract a lot of complaints, think about it, people are walking, suddenly firecrackers, two kicks, people are afraid that the first reaction is to be frightened, and then produce grievances, and then worry about the two kicks fell on their heads. Can these reactions make people feel good about the enterprise? Will people congratulate this enterprise for getting rich? Moreover, you are running a business, not "exorcism", if your business before the opening of the "evil" gas, haunted by "ghosts", want to open the ceremony through the discharge of artillery! "Exorcise the evil spirits", so that your business is prosperous and developed, it is possible? Ghosts believe, unless your brain into the water. In the history of the world's economic development, there has not been a business is through the firecrackers and two kicks to get rich and famous.

Some people may say that setting off firecrackers for weddings, funerals, and opening ceremonies is a Chinese tradition that should be carried forward. According to this argument, is it possible to inherit and carry forward the traditions of the Chinese people regardless of the dregs and the essence? No one inherits and carries forward; in the past, after the death of parents, the filial son should serve three years of mourning, in return, now I am afraid that there is no more mourning for three years of filial son. Because, now is not an agricultural society, but the information age, people's pace of life accelerated, busy work, and then three years of mourning, I am afraid that filial son will be removed from the unit, the job is gone. From this we can see that the traditional customs with the development of the times that must be eliminated to be eliminated. Marriages, funerals, opening firecrackers, has now become a bad custom affecting people's daily lives, we should also be resolutely eliminated. The person who set off firecrackers should be educated on social morality, so that they realize that in the wedding, funeral, opening firecrackers, not only violates the provisions of the law, but also violates the social morality, is an uncivilized manifestation of their behavior and cultivation are manifested in some of the traditional habits of society. Living in the modern society of the country, should take social morality as in the public **** life should abide by the basic code of conduct. I remember a philosopher said, "A nation without social morality is a dangerous nation, while a nation with good social morality is certainly a promising nation."