Foreign wives meet traditional old people in China.

There is a thousand miles to meet, and a thousand miles of marriage is a thread. Buddha said that looking back 500 times in the past life, I only passed by once in this life. Fate is such a thing, sometimes it's really amazing. It is not easy for two people to get to know each other, know each other and get married, which is why there is such a saying as "crossing the boat for a hundred years and sleeping with each other for a thousand years".

The couple mentioned today have a special situation, not only crossing the distance barrier, but also crossing the country. The couple come from different countries. They are Xie Xiaowei from Henan and his wife from Uganda, Africa. Age difference 18 years old.

What is the tortuous course and result of this transnational love? Let's take a look.

I moved to Africa for work and met foreign beauties.

In the period of rapid development of global economy and trade, economic and trade exchanges between countries have become more frequent, which has also spawned many multinational enterprises. Xie Xiaowei, a young man from Mengjin County, Henan Province, has worked in the company for more than ten years and is regarded as an old man in the company. Because the company's trade has expanded to Africa and needs to send some experienced old employees to support it, Xie Xiaowei was selected.

He was transferred to Uganda in eastern Africa, which is more than 9,000 kilometers away from China and takes more than ten hours by plane. Xie Xiaowei was actually uncomfortable at the thought of leaving home to work in a strange place, but he accepted the fact for the sake of living. An old pioneer lost his horse-a blessing in disguise. Who knew there would be surprises?

In this way, Xie Xiaowei went to Uganda with a heavy heart. Although the weather and water there were difficult to adapt to, he gradually got used to it. There is not much difference between daily work and domestic work. The only difference is that you will meet many local people.

Because of his work, he met a beautiful woman from Uganda, his later wife Nablia. Although they come from different countries, they get along well with each other. They talk about almost everything, and over time, the seeds of love grow quietly between them.

Zhang Ailing said: "Meeting the person you want to meet among thousands of people happened to catch up with you, neither earlier nor later. This happened in the boundless wilderness of thousands of years." It is a true portrayal of this cross-border love. Everything comes just right, just like the drizzle in the spring breeze. Xie Xiaowei, who is in her thirties, has never found true love. Maybe she's just waiting for nabil.

Break through the obstacles and decide to move forward hand in hand.

"Men chasing women, interlayer mountain; Women chasing men, laminated yarn. " Finally, Nablia took the lead to express her love for Xie Xiaowei. Xie Xiaowei was very moved after hearing this. Because after such a long time, he has long liked this girl in his heart, but because of his introverted personality and poor expression, he has never spoken. This may be a common problem for many people. Love a person, always embarrassed to speak, afraid of the east and the west.

After deciding to be together, the two formally established a relationship between men and women in Uganda. Xie Xiaowei works locally, and nabil will accompany him and take care of his daily life when he is free. He is very satisfied with this foreign girlfriend. It is really not easy for two people to cross regions and tolerate each other's habits. So they cherish this relationship and are willing to give it a result. In 20 14, the year after they met, a simple wedding was held in the local church.

what is love ? Love is when you peel off all the sugar-coated shells wrapped around love, and you are still willing to spend your life with that person.

There is a "foreign daughter-in-law" in the village.

After one year of marriage, Xie Xiaowei took nabil back to his hometown in Henan on 20 15. Although two people got married in Uganda, they haven't met their parents yet, which is not a tradition. The day Xie Xiaowei brought Nablia back to her hometown, it caused a sensation in the village. The whole village came to see this "foreign daughter-in-law". Nablia looked at so many strange foreign faces around her, and she was very nervous for fear that people would not like her.

But her worry is obviously unnecessary. The villagers are just curious and have never seen foreigners, so they want to come out and have a look. But no one commented on her and spoke ill of her. However, besides worrying about the reaction of others in the village, Nablia is more concerned about the attitude of Xie Xiaowei's family towards her. After all, she is married in China and wants to get along with her husband's family.

So, after living in China for five years, how is Nablia's life now? Is her husband's family good to her?

The Life of "Foreign Daughter-in-law" in China

Actually, Nablia doesn't have to worry about her life in China. Although she has just come to China, she may have a language barrier. But she has been studying Chinese hard and learned the local dialect. It is a piece of cake for her to understand dialects now. She gets along well with her mother-in-law, who is an honest, kind and simple housewife. Mother-in-law thought that Navi Leah was married to China, and she was helpless. She takes good care of her, just like her own daughter.

Nablia learns housework from her mother-in-law at home every day and also learns a lot of Chinese food. I also made many good friends in the village and got along well with the people in the village. Everyone praised her as a clever and capable wife.

Love each other and be happy.

This year is their sixth year of marriage. Nablia has been in China for five years. From being unaccustomed at first, to being familiar with shopping at the door and street now, she has gradually adapted to the life in Henan. Now, their son is two years old, but they still love each other as before.

After several years of marriage, we may have quarreled, but we can continue to be together. Rely on mutual tolerance and trust, which should be their advantage, because since they can cross geographical restrictions, what obstacles can't be overcome?

Their love stories were also rated as "Top Ten Love Stories in China" in 20 18. When interviewing them, when asked some questions, Nablus would shyly lean on her husband Xie Xiaowei's shoulder. The simplest and most direct way to judge whether a marriage is happy or not is to see the smile on their faces when they first fell in love after many years of marriage.

"Hold your hand and grow old with your son." It is the most unadorned yearning of the ancients for love. The only future they can foresee is themselves and the right people. Complex love can make people exhausted. In fact, simple love is enough. I hope everyone can overcome all kinds of difficulties and find the right person; Accompany him to watch the long flowing water until it is white.

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