What position do you use in bed?

Don't get me wrong, posture here refers to sleeping position. Married for more than 2 years, almost 100% sleep back to back.

Did you get caught?

0 1

Everyone spends almost one-third of his life sleeping, so in a sense, sleeping posture may be more important than posture (you know).

Although the relationship between modern couples is becoming more and more relaxed, many couples can still live in harmony even if they sleep in separate beds. However, a survey by the National Sleep Foundation shows that for most couples, even though they are told that sleeping in separate beds has many advantages, more than 60% people still insist on sharing the bed with their lover.

It sounds a little touched, and it really answers an old saying of China.

02

The sleeping position of couples is not a small problem, and even sociologists have done special research on it.

Paul, two people share a bed. A scholar, he has a special book called "Two people in the same bed: a sociological analysis of husband and wife in the same bed".

The book records the sleeping state of 42 couples and analyzes the emotions reflected by different sleeping positions.

The first type: face to face, one hand or one foot touch.

Couples who sleep in this way can not only have the same breath, but also be surrounded by their bodies, which shows that both sides are satisfied, relaxed, emotionally stable and spend more time with each other with high quality.

The second type: one party holds the other party in his arms and snuggles up tightly.

Please note that according to American behaviorist yvonne Thomas, the author of The Secret Language of Sleeping Position, this is a sleeping position that can increase the number of clicks (highlight! )。 Because of the infinite intimacy of the body, it shows emotional intimacy.

People who sleep in the back often play the role of protector in marriage; The person who sleeps in front is taken care of, sensitive and homesick. Another advantage of this intimate sleeping position is that it can increase the number of sexual lives.

The third type: back to back.

This sleeping position shows that two people are independent, have different preferences, do not need physical intimacy to express their feelings, and respect each other's differences.

However, if it only appears recently, it implies that there are contradictions in the relationship between husband and wife and communication needs to be strengthened.

The fourth type: the posture is uncertain, and the hands and feet are either on each other or in contact with each other's hands and feet.

Sleeping posture shows that although you are independent, you can agree on most issues. People who take the initiative to extend their hands and feet are more dependent and need to make sure that the people next to them are always there.

03

In addition, researchers from the University of Hertfordshire in the United Kingdom also surveyed more than 1000 people's sleeping positions and their satisfaction with their partners.

The results show that:

94% of people who keep in touch while sleeping think they are satisfied, while only 68% of those who don't contact are satisfied.

Sleep distance has the same correlation.

86% couples sleep less than an inch away, and they think they are satisfied.

However, psychologists also remind everyone that if one of them suddenly changes his sleep habits, the relationship between husband and wife may change, which deserves attention.

Finally, how are you all now? Go to sleep. Really?