What is the reason why it is difficult for modern young people to get married?

With the continuous development of reform and opening-up, people's thoughts are becoming more and more open, which has had a great impact on China's traditional concept of marriage and love. Nowadays, young people no longer stick to the rules and follow the traditional concept of marriage. The divorce rate in China is as high as 35%, even higher than the marriage rate. Nowadays, young people spend a short time together, and women pay special attention to each other's material money, ignoring their inner character and moral thoughts, so their emotional foundation is poor, and they are easy to lose their passion after marriage, get along disharmony and produce emotional contradictions.

Nowadays, most people get married on blind date instead of free love, and they don't know each other well. I met several times before I got married. The emotional foundation is particularly poor, and with the birth of children after marriage, many family conflicts arise and they are not tolerant of each other. If they don't give in to each other, it's easy to get divorced. The marital disharmony between husband and wife can often show many symptoms. A thousand couples can have 10,000 excuses for marital disharmony, such as: he doesn't love me enough, his personality is not harmonious, she likes nagging, and he is irresponsible in looking for women outside.

In fact, these are just some concrete manifestations, and most of the actual contradictions in marriage are other objective facts. I'm afraid the sky will always be blue. I've always wanted to know what proportion of discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law accounts for in marriage. I believe this figure is quite amazing. Think about today's society. Daughters-in-law are all brought up in pampering. There is no three obedience and four virtues, and the mother-in-law is better than one. In her eyes, her son is everything, so it is really difficult for two women to get along.

If the mother-in-law is not satisfied, there will be some problems. On the one hand, the husband and wife are the artistic heart of "carving gems" love, while the mother-in-law is in pain, so the two sides launched a tug-of-war for this man; On the other hand, both the wronged and bitter mother-in-law and daughter-in-law go to the middle man, so no matter how small the problem is, it may become a big problem. After a long time, the man will lose his immunity and patience, and eventually there will be an outbreak.