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What are the criteria for choosing a woman?

1. The most important quality of a woman should be goodness and filial piety. I don't know how many bitter men in the world suffer from their own daughter-in-law and their own mother between the sandwich gas? If I were a man, and the girl who is going to be my daughter-in-law dared to ask me, "If your mom and I fall into the river, who will you save first?" I would have passed on her, that's not even human!

2. Virtuous, this is the unchanging female virtues.

3. Knowledgeable and courteous, this is the new era of women's requirements with the times. A woman's temperament and upbringing is a rich inner flow, but also with others to really open the distance.

4. Thoughtfulness and good taste. Thoughtfulness makes her disdain to intervene in the gossip between others, she has never been an "insulator". Taste, so that she can artfully express their own style. I can't tolerate my wife to see anything can't walk the road, not I am poor, can't spoil her this problem!

5. Understanding. The most important thing for a man is dignity, she can bash me at home, but not in public sarcastic, ridicule me. A woman who doesn't know how to maintain her husband's dignity, don't want it.

6. Full trust and relative freedom. It is human instinct to hate the old and the new, and no one can guarantee a lifetime of goodwill to only one person. I advise all women to get married in the world to learn "medical psychology" by heart, fully understand their husbands like in the newspaper, web page gazing at the beauty of the hobby, do not because of these subconscious behavior and fault-finding. To do otherwise is to drive the marriage to death. He wants to be alone for a while, don't be crummy and ask what the hell, just bring a cup of tea and gently close the door behind you.

7. Have a stable income. Not dependent on the man to survive the woman can do independent, self-esteem.

8. No excessive material desires. This is very important! Since ancient times, the success of the thrift defeat by luxury. Not to mention the status quo and optimistic nature so that she can continue the youth. Excessive vanity tends to make non-"rich and powerful" men produce mental tension, and even overwhelmed by it. My daughter-in-law should be BMW car ride, bicycle can also ride; five-star hotels to live, camping tents do not mind, eat the pain in the bitter, the first person.

9. Refuse to be a good friend, not too enthusiastic about the opposite sex. She has good habits, smoking, drinking, all-night drinking party will not happen to her, she will not go to the bar, nightclubs and such places to spend time. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she will not take the initiative to talk to other men, the high and the low is the Yangchunbaixue.

10. naive and a little childish. If a man really like a woman, should maximize her innocence. The woman who has not lost the childlike interest, can make the long and boring four eyes to each other with endless joy.

11. Like reading and music. Like reading is not to see what colorful fashion magazines, like music is not something to listen to and forget the popular songs. Classic books and music can make the years and the triviality of life can not be branded in her mind.

12. Strong work ability, have a skill. A working woman obviously doesn't have a lot of time to be paranoid. Having a skill will make her enjoy herself and control her emotions well.

13. Of course, she should never be ugly or too pretty, but the more you look at her, the better she looks.

14. Healthy, and know how to maintain health and basic medical knowledge.

15. Another important point is that married life is a colorful, lively, dynamic world, it is difficult to imagine a woman who does not have a romantic, not have the interest of the woman is a good wife.