At what point does a mom feel helpless?

Probably when there is no way to balance her family and career.

Whether it's a full-time mom, a working mom or a rural mom, there's unspeakable suffering when it comes to children.

Mothers who have been in the workplace are reluctant to become full-time mothers as a last resort. The fundamental reason is that they have been through the KPI assessment, and they know too well that being a full-time mother means working as a cleaner, childcare worker, receptionist (to receive relatives), administrator (to purchase essentials for the renovation), human resources (to recruit hourly helpers, to find the right training institution for the children), teacher (to accompany the mother), cook, caregiver, project management, marketing and promotion, and so on. Nursing, project management, marketing and publicity, and so on, but there is not a KPI indicator that reflects their ability.

Full-time working mothers, encountered many women's worst fear, is that their husbands cheated on them, divorced them, left them, and even deprived them of their children's custody because of financial reasons and social disconnection. A while ago, once known as "Shanghai's most beautiful netizen" Shen Lijun, married to give up the flourishing show business at ease as a full-time mother, but can not withstand her husband's domestic violence, derailment and third party aggressiveness, in the body suffered a change of heart and chose to commit suicide.

Doing full-time, definitely not the ultimate belonging of working women, then working women?

It is said that the most desirable professions for a wife in a man's mind are teacher, nurse and accountant.

The teacher has summer and winter vacations and can take care of the children's schooling; the nurse can take care of the family's health even though she works three shifts; the accountant has an easy job, a stable commute and the ability to manage money.

When a woman has the courage to stop being a coy little daughter-in-law at home, it will subvert the positioning of women in a patriarchal society for thousands of years, and the harmony of the family is far less than that of a strong man and a weak woman, and the traditional view of the man outside the woman inside the home, in today's world is still the standard for a happy family, and are not willing to obey the rules of this kind of people have to pay the price of those around them, including the mother's family, the family of the in-laws, husbands, children and even The accusation of outsiders: can not cook, can not sew, can not take care of children, can not clean, even if the career is successful, is not a qualified woman.