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How to do the custom of doing three years for the second anniversary of the death of the elderly in Quanzhou city

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There is a saying in the world that "the year is relative to the sun, and the deceased has no leap moon", which means that the first anniversary after death is called "the year is relative" and the sacrifice is called "the year is relative", also known as "Xiaoxiang".

The deceased is only a leap year. If there is a "leap month" in the New Year, it needs to be carried out one month in advance. (Push forward the year date by 30 days) (mainly calculated by 30 days per month).

Children and grandchildren can go to the cemetery in person or hold a memorial service in front of the gods at home, which is called "sacrificial ceremony" (also known as Xiaoxiang). The married women of the deceased all come back to worship, and some also invite Taoist priests and monks to recite scriptures, which is called "anti-year"; Grandchildren have been in mourning for a year. After this day, they will take off their mourning clothes and put on a red wool belt for three days.

If "New Year's Eve" is held before God, wine, food, fruit and worship should be prepared, and brothers, sisters, relatives and friends should be invited to attend.

Can the memorial tablet of God be cremated in the following year?

Yes, there are two ways.

Method 1: The ashes are placed in a fragrant bag by the stove. ※.

Method 2: Temporary memorial tablets can also be placed next to the ancestral memorial tablets (put a little lower) and merged together for three years. ※.

How should we spend the three quarters of the previous year?

According to the custom, people who have funerals at home will only celebrate the holidays, do not make rice cakes during the New Year, do not rub glutinous rice balls during the Lantern Festival, do not make zongzi during the Dragon Boat Festival and do not make rice cakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival.

I made it in 2008. What should we do next?

Do it for three years after one year, and then do it another day.

Do you still need to burn incense after the Chinese New Year?

The way to worship after the New Year is to follow the general folk worship day, and then burn incense to the dead.

Can I worship my ancestors on the first and fifteenth day of the week, after I have eaten the worship, but before I turn off the stove?

After the funeral, ancestor worship and festival worship returned to normal.

1, a six-dish or twelve-dish bowl, a bowl of rice and a pair of chopsticks.

When paying homage to the deceased, according to the traditional custom, there are dried bean curd (being a high official), green vegetables, leeks (everlasting), cabbage heads (good color heads), fish balls, meatballs (being the top scholar and an official), Flammulina velutipes, steamed cakes, rice cakes, sliced meat, small fish, potatoes, peanuts, celery (industrious), taro, rice noodles and so on.

Description: The dish bowl is used to worship the dead, so you can prepare other foods you like to eat before you die. If you don't stick to traditional dishes, you can also cook by yourself or buy food in a buffet, which can be vegetarian; Some people simply worship with fruit.

2, two copies of four fruits: that is, prepare four kinds of fruits to worship Buddha and Bodhisattva, please prepare an odd number for each, such as a cantaloupe.

3, three sacrifices and one reward (pork belly, fish, whole chicken). Vegetarian can be changed into vegetarian three animals. Worship Wang Guan

4, red circle, three cakes (symbolizing the reunion and prosperity of children and grandchildren).

5. Miantou Mountain (also called Tongshan or Daughter Mountain)

6. A pair of flowers.

7. A bottle of rice wine or green tea: rice wine is used to worship Wang Guan or the deceased, and tea is suitable for worshipping Buddha and Bodhisattva.

8. Paper money: one incense stick, two pairs of Buddha's cup candles (red to worship the gods, red to worship the dead, yellow to worship the dead), one birthday gold, one gold, and several pieces of silver paper.

Three years of work

There are three-year filial piety norms in ancient rituals. In case of parents' death, the children will serve a three-year mourning period (actually 25 months), and they will not be an official, marry, eat or take exams for three years. But now most of them are changed into fakes three years after the death of the deceased.

After three years, the worship will be the same for seven days or a hundred days.

During the three-year ceremony, you can ask Master to recite the scriptures and prepare worship supplies. The articles prepared vary from place to place, but they have been simplified now. Because of the different customs or religious beliefs in different places, there are actually many ways to do it, but it is also more meaningful to prepare the food that the deceased loved to eat before his death.

Worship Buddha: Vegetarian food, tea and fruit (please prepare an odd number for each, as big as cantaloupe).

Hades or land lords: three animals (pork, rooster, fish), tea and wine, longevity gold, harvest gold.

Worship the dead:

1, six dishes or twelve dishes (according to local customs).

Description: According to the traditional custom, there are six or twelve bowls for offering sacrifices to the dead, such as dried spring (symbolizing more than enough), leek (lasting forever), dried bean curd (being a big official), celery (industrious), fish balls, meatballs (being the best in the middle), vegetable heads (being the first color), pig intestines (being a boy) and chicken wings (being the forearms).

You can prepare other foods you like to eat for worship before you die. If you don't stick to traditional dishes, you can also cook by yourself or buy food in a buffet, which can be vegetarian; Some people simply worship with fruit.

2, three sacrifices and one reward (pork belly, fish, whole chicken). Vegetarian can be changed into vegetarian three animals.

3. A bowl of rice and a pair of chopsticks.

4.a bottle of rice wine or green tea.

5. Two red turtles, two red circles and three cakes (symbolizing the reunion and prosperity of future generations).

6. A pair of flowers.

7. Paper money: one incense stick, two pairs of Buddha cup candles (red, red, yellow and white), one gold, eight gold, and several pieces of silver paper.

A whole hundred days.

One hundred days after death, crying; One year old is called Xiaoxiang; Three years is called Daxiang; Therefore, it is auspicious and auspicious, and Bao Hua is called a perfect Buddha.

The current customs and habits are based on the100th day from the date of ancestor's death. When the deceased arrives for a hundred days, it is customary to offer another sacrifice or invite Taoist priests and monks to recite scriptures. It is called "making a hundred days" to hold a grand sacrifice ceremony, or just to make sacrifices by family members themselves. In some areas, it is customary to advance or postpone for 100 days.

According to local customs, one hundred days can be roughly divided into the following three types:

1. In some areas, the 100-day algorithm will determine the number of 100 days by increasing or decreasing the number of sons and grandchildren in the family.

For example, if there are two sons and 1 grandson, then 100+3 = 103 days is one hundred days; Or 100-3= one hundred days on the 97th day.

In some areas, such as Hakka families, the number of men and grandchildren will increase to 100 days.

For example, if you have two sons and 1 grandson, then 100+3 = 103 days is one hundred days.

2. Some people spend a hundred days on the day before the age of the deceased. For example, the deceased is 90 years old, and the 89th day is 100 days.

3. In some areas, the custom is called one hundred days, which cannot exceed the age of the deceased. For example, if the deceased is 93 years old, the 93rd day will be regarded as a hundred days. However, if the deceased is young, the algorithm of 100 day should not exceed his age, so the correct date of 100 day still depends on different customs in different places.

Where should I go for the Hundred Days Worship?

Where incense sticks or temporary memorial tablets are offered, flowers can be offered for a hundred days, and incense and silver paper can be burned before sunset.

Preparation 100 day product reference

Three sacrifices and two rewards. (One worships the Buddha, the other worships the ancestor first, and after the ancestor worships, he can move to the memorial tablet of the deceased. )

Twelve bowls, a pot of rice, seven pairs of chopsticks, seven wine glasses, seven bowls, four kinds of fruits, a pair of flowers, drinks or tea, wine and a little gold and silver paper.

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