A brief answer to child psychology 02. What's the difference between father and son and mother and son?

Fathers tend to play with children while mothers tend to take care of them. Therefore, the father's role is more likely to show the children two qualities of "competitiveness" and "independence", while the mother's role is more inclined to give the children two qualities of "fairness" and "security".

When playing with children, fathers pay more attention to setting rules, while mothers pay more attention to creating a safe environment for their children.

If only the father's upbringing plays a role, children may avoid risks and reduce many personal experiences, which will make them unable to make progress in life.

In a family with too strong father protection, children are generally weak, content with the status quo and unwilling to take risks; If only the mother's upbringing plays a role, the child may take part in adventure activities without considering the consequences, because he has enough sense of security, but there is no "restriction". In a family where the mother is too protective, children will pay less attention to social norms, despise or even trample on the interests of others.

Only by combining the parenting styles of father and mother can children grow in a balanced state.

Extended data:

Parents get along with their children and play parent-child games.

1, ants move beans

Let the children dress up as ants in groups of three. The first child stood with his hands as tentacles; The second child was separated from the third child, and his arms crossed around the waist of the previous child.

Please "ants" walk in groups, pay attention to mutual cooperation, and don't wrestle or trample others.

Step 2 stick out your nose

How to play: Blindfold the parents' eyes, turn three times, and let the children use words to instruct the parents to stick their noses on the exact position of the animals, and it will be successful.

Rule: Parents should cover their eyes and don't peek. Children can only command with words.

3. Where is my baby?

Preparation: Get some cloth.

How to play: Every family has a parent and a child. Ask the children to join hands in a circle, and the corresponding parents stand in the circle blindfolded. Children will hold hands and sing songs around their parents, and then let them find their babies.

Requirements: children can't make a sound, go to their parents, and parents can find their baby through contact.