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The traditional slap in the face of the family

As the saying goes, "it takes three generations to cultivate a noble." "Noble" and "gentleman" not only represent a certain economic status, but also reflect a kind of demeanor and self-cultivation. Family discipline plays an important role in the long-term development of a family. Let's look at the hidden values, ways of thinking and behaviors of the nine families through their family training. Adults and children should study hard, which will come in handy one day.

The best family in the world

Ten admonitions of China Confucius family to educate their children.

1, although living in poverty, but never complain about their living environment;

2. Even though life is difficult, mothers still devote all their enthusiasm to educating their children;

3. The greater the person, the more self-learning and self-awareness;

4. Never be discouraged when you fail, and arm yourself with tenacious challenge spirit;

5. Test and exercise yourself through long-distance travel;

6, three people must have my teacher;

7. Make friends with like-minded people;

8. Don't teach children personally, just supervise and check their learning;

9. The weakness of human nature sometimes makes a generation of great men;

10, cultivate the study habit of being diligent and inquisitive.

Political family

Ten instructions for children's education by Kennedy family in the United States

1. Make the child's parenting diary and reading record by hand, and then check it thoroughly;

2. Help children develop the good habit of observing time;

3. Parents should always tell their children stories that happened in their career;

4. Form a natural and harmonious discussion atmosphere when eating;

5. Teach children the world law that "the person who wins the first place will not be ignored";

6. When the child encounters difficulties, parents should help the child solve the problem from the perspective of the child;

7. Let children study in famous universities and get the best connections;

8. Let the children understand that the initial clumsiness and inadaptability will become the truth of practice and perfection after repeated efforts;

9. Tell children to set lofty goals, but don't be impatient, and be sure to succeed step by step;

10, a good family atmosphere of harmony and mutual assistance should be formed between parents and siblings.

Sweden's richest man

Ten Guidelines for Family Education of Children in Vallenborg

1, serving in the navy to cultivate perseverance;

2. Broaden your horizons by studying in world-renowned universities and working in multinational companies;

3. Establish an international network;

4. Observe and attach importance to the principle of transmission from generation to generation;

5. Take it from society and apply it to society;

6. Take a walk with the children every Sunday morning;

7. The younger brother wears the clothes worn by his brother again, thus developing a simple lifestyle;

8. Don't act rashly and avoid sharp-edged behavior;

9. Grandpa, as his grandson's life mentor, teaches wisdom and experience (intergenerational education);

10, if you want to be an heir, you must first have a patriotism.

A famous bank family in Seattle

Ten instructions for the Gates family to educate their children

1, if you leave a child with huge assets, it will inevitably hinder him from becoming a creative talent;

2. Parents help their children to establish a contact network;

3. Keep your own shortcomings and make like-minded friends;

4. Read more science fiction (movies) when you are young;

5. The mother's gift may change the child's fate;

6. Broaden your horizons by reading newspapers;

7. Rich children should not be spoiled;

8. When the opportunity comes, don't hesitate to meet the challenge;

9. The accumulated experience in these years will be the basis for starting a business in the future;

10, an example for children to learn from their parents.

The highest family of Jews

The Rothschild Family's Ten Commandments for Children's Education

1, attaching importance to the tradition of brotherhood and family unity;

2. Do not pursue money, pursue good interpersonal relationships;

3. Educate children to have a correct view of money;

Information equals money, so we should pay attention to the importance of information from an early age.

5. The tradition of collecting intelligence information from generation to generation;

6. Be alert to the ideological tendency of excessively pursuing material interests;

7. Adhere to the principle of "don't participate in business unless you are a son";

8. Don't forget the lessons of the "Five Bows and Arrows" that prompted the five brothers to reconcile;

9. Maintain the charitable tradition of donation from generation to generation;

10, Jews help each other and develop their careers together.

Nobel aristocratic family

Ten instructions of French Curie family on children's education

1, even if you don't study at school, you may become an excellent talent;

2. Practice the principle of equality between husband and wife, which is also an excellent education for children;

3. Cultivate children's truth-seeking heart in nature;

4. The father is both a mentor and a leader;

5. Educate granddaughters through grandfathers to realize "intergenerational education";

6. Even if both husband and wife are office workers, they should pay attention to establishing an interdependent relationship with their children;

7. Mother's "enlightenment education" is very important;

8. Never force a child to become a scientist in order to inherit and carry forward family honor;

9. Let children consciously cultivate a sense of self-reliance;

10, looking for a spouse who has a tacit understanding with each other in seeking knowledge.

Scientific aristocratic family

Ten instructions for the British Darwin family to educate their children

1. Parents, as their children's life instructors, must play a leading role;

2. Always create a cheerful family atmosphere full of music;

3. Create a turning point in life through travel;

4. In any case, if it is not suitable for the child's personality, don't force it;

5. Once the child is found to have academic potential, he should fully support it;

6. If the opponents are in the majority, adopt the method of long-term persuasion;

7. Hold parties and establish precious interpersonal relationships;

8. Create a family business or family study that can be passed down from generation to generation;

9. Make a daily schedule and work hard to complete it;

10, make friends who can create a new life for children.

India education gentlefolk

Ten commandments of Tagore family in India to educate their children

1, creating a family atmosphere with rich books;

2. Make up for what you can't learn in school by reading;

3. When children can't adapt to school life, look for positive countermeasures;

4. Cultivate children's multiple talents by hiring tutors;

5. Give your wallet to your child and give him economic education;

6. Eliminate prejudice against other religions;

7. Actively support culture and art after becoming a rich man;

8. Roam nature with children and cultivate their imagination;

9. Make a careful plan so that children can learn more from travel;

10, guide children to contact music and art from an early age.

Literary family

Ten Instructions of Russian Tolstoy's Family Education for Children

1, by writing a diary every day, let the children reflect on the behavior of the day;

2. Draw up a detailed timetable and put it into action;

3. Let the whole family develop the good habit of keeping a diary;