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The story about smiling in the face of difficulties, tolerance or unity?

First, the Prime Minister can kick him in the stomach.

Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".

Second, offer a humble apology.

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

Third, Renyi Hutong

Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.

Fourth, Liszt accepts students.

There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) Legend of Liuchi Lane

During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried after reading the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm if it makes people three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "So, Mrs. Zhang told the family to stand back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends.

Sixth, the story of Qi Huangong's tolerance of Guan Zhong.

Xiao Bai (later Qi Huangong), the son of Qi, was stopped by Guan Zhong on his way back to Qi from Juzhou. Guan Zhong hit Xiao Bai's hook belt with an arrow. Xiao Bai pretended to be shot, played along, continued to accelerate his return to Qi, and ascended the throne of the monarch. Guan Zhong and others lost the opportunity when they supported Gong Zijiu's return to Qi. Later, under Bao's persuasion, there was no resentment against Guan Zhong who shot himself. On the contrary, he regarded Guan Zhong as the prime minister. What kind of mind and tolerance this is.

Seven, the story of the headmaster's tolerance for students

Mcleod is a child who loves to "ask what's next" since he was a child. He often thinks, what is the inside of the human body? Where are the internal organs? In an inexplicable situation, one night, he secretly killed the headmaster's dog. He thinks that dogs are the best anatomical materials, and we can understand the internal organ structure of human beings by dissecting them. The headmaster soon found the murderer. Mcleod was scared. But he never imagined that the punishment of the principal would make him draw the dog's internal anatomy map and bone structure map clearly and meticulously. Mcleod was so excited that he repeatedly said to the headmaster, "No problem, I will definitely finish it according to your requirements." He painted two pictures carefully overnight ... Later, mcleod became a great anatomist.