Why is there a saying that the more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes it?

It should be said that this statement has some truth. But this son-in-law must be a real son-in-law. In other words, I have married my daughter and have a relatively stable family.

Those mother-in-law who find fault with their son-in-law before marriage are as meek as an old sheep after marriage. Sometimes you have to admit that marriage is a huge obstacle.

The first one: the difference of social status between men and women. In traditional society, men are superior to women, although it is not obvious now. But obviously, men still occupy more social resources and have stronger physical strength and energy than women. But in all families and clans, male members or relatives and people occupy a position of relative trust.

Second: distance produces beauty. The son-in-law is someone else's child, but because of his daughter, he has become his own child. The child brings his own dry food and also bears the responsibility of raising his daughter or sharing her daughter. Moreover, because of traditional reasons after marriage, the son-in-law will not live with her parents-in-law, which saves a lot of friction in life. Such a lucky boy brings his own blessings. Why can't he like it more and more? On the other hand, if the son-in-law lives in her parents' home all the year round, I'm afraid he won't like it so much. The so-called far is near, and the plague.

Third: this is a natural attraction and dependence on gender. Although no one will say. If the daughter is the lover of her father in his last life, the son-in-law can satisfy her mother-in-law's fantasy in her next life. And women are more of a spiritual dependence. Men in intimate families except husbands will become the focus of the family as long as they have the advantages of normal people or some bright spots.

Fourth: Young people bring the future and vitality to the family. A family or a family, flowing downwards from the emotional water, or flowing downwards from the prime of life, is the best model. I feel happy when I think about it, and even happier when I see it. Which one is not?

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