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The premise that men are superior to women.

That day, my husband yelled at me because my husband borrowed money: Why do you always listen to you? ! I said with a smile, because I was right! Besides, what's strange about listening to me? Your father listens to your mother, and your brother listens to your sister-in-law. Why don't you come to our house? Are you better than other men in the family, or am I weaker than them? My husband doesn't talk to me anymore. Hum, love to ignore.

Actually, no wonder my husband. My mother-in-law, like many people in China, has integrated the idea that men are superior to women into her blood and even her genes. In their minds, there are not two kinds of gender, but three kinds: men, women who have given birth to sons and women. In their view, men are noble and can be masters of their own affairs, and women who have given birth to sons can also have the same right to speak, while women can only obey. All the women in the husband's family belong to the second sex, except me. Mother-in-law's thoughts have a subtle influence on her husband. When we disagree and it is related to his face, her husband thinks that women must obey men! They all ignore the cultural roots that men are superior to women-there are more men than women, and men are stronger than women.

As a woman, I don't dislike that men are superior to women at all, which means I can hide behind men, which means I can pay less-what's wrong with men supporting me when the sky falls? ! Women, physically speaking, are weak. What is a good thing to struggle in the stormy waves of life? Even if there is more face, so what? But life is not for me to be such a little woman. I want to fight side by side with my husband, and even often I have to take the lead: earning money like him, doing more housework and educating my children are basically all for me! At this point, why should we abide by the principle that men are superior to women? Why do you have to listen to men if you don't agree? The only thing I have to follow is truth, family interests, not gender.