Explore 5 1- Qian, a noble family.

Legendary family, magical family style, Qian family, a thousand-year-old noble family, modern enlightenment-four virtues of new women, set a good example for children.

The ancients regarded women's morality, women's words, women's appearance and women's morality as four norms that women must abide by, referred to as "four virtues".

"Female Virtue" says: Rational moral cultivation occupies the core position in the "four virtues";

"Women's words" refers to: rational expression ability and knowledge level, which can reflect a person's rational ability through words;

"Women's appearance" is about women's appearance, especially in traditional society, which requires women to dress neatly, behave dignified and conform to the rules of etiquette everywhere;

"Women's work" refers to the way women manage their families.

Understand the traditional "four virtues" and traditional women through Sun Shi, the mother of Qian Jibo, a master of Chinese studies. How does she manage the family at home?

My mother is the daughter of the Sun family in Wuxi, and she is called the bureaucratic disciple of the ruler.

At that time, Qian was just a small landlord, and there was a gap between the two families. After she got married, she was a little frustrated at first, but she soon got used to it.

She doesn't have the charm of a good girl. Sun Shi takes good care of her parents-in-law, and her family likes her very much. I had already started working before dawn. Besides hard work, frugality and friendliness are also Sun Shi's ways of managing his family.

She knows that the life of the Qian family is not as good as that of her old grandson, so after marrying the Qian family, the life becomes simple and practical. In her bedroom, all the beds are neatly arranged, the children's clothes are clean, and there is no extravagance and waste during the Chinese New Year holidays, which is very satisfying.

After being married to Qianjia for more than ten years, Qianjia's life has gradually improved. Although Sun Shi is diligent, she is not stingy. For decades, whenever any of her relatives is in trouble, she will try her best to help and win the praise of relatives and friends.

One day, her fourth brother asked her: Second sister, your family life is not rich either. Why spend so much money to take care of others?

Sun Shi said, Brother, isn't that what I do for the children? We should set a good example for children and cultivate their good deeds.

Set an example for children. This is Qian Jibo's mother, Qian Zhongshu's grandmother Sun Shi, and her virtue.

Modern "female virtue" is to set a good example for children, and good conduct is the best education.