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Matchmaker subtext

The subtext of the matchmaker is:

First, the matchmaker said that boys are mature and steady, and their lives are practical.

In fact, sometimes the matchmaker will be more abstract and pleasant to listen to. If a girl hears the matchmaker praise the boy for being mature and steady, she will say that the boy has a down-to-earth life and is very suitable for marriage. Don't believe these seemingly good words, as long as you know that the maturity of the media population means that you are old, while the stability means that you don't like to talk at ordinary times.

As for the sureness of life, it is not as simple as it seems. The steady life of the matchmaker means that the boy's job is very general, and he usually earns little, and his life is simple and dull. When meeting the word matchmaker, girls who like interesting life can directly describe the boys who live a down-to-earth life through the matchmaker.

Second, the matchmaker said he was a handsome boy and would live.

Many girls are superficial. When they hear the matchmaker say that they are handsome, they really believe it, and they will look forward to the true face of this boy. After all, there is no girl who doesn't like handsome guys, let alone those who can survive. However, if you are moved by the matchmaker's description, you will lose.

Because the handsome guy mentioned by the matchmaker is actually a tall boy, and in the eyes of the matchmaker, how tall the tall boy is, it is about 1.7 meters. Apart from being "tall", he may not be handsome, or he may be a greasy man with acne marks all over his face. And what is the life of the matchmaker like? Actually, a boy is digging and looking for it. He has saved too much in his life. In the eyes of the matchmaker, he will live.

Third, the matchmaker said he was a gentle boy.

Maybe many girls will think that she is a very gentle, highly educated and cultured person when they hear such a description. But in fact, the gentle boy in the media population is a nearsighted boy wearing a pair of glasses. Don't think about Marisol's plot. High myopia, myopia, can't even see your true appearance without glasses.

Before the blind date, the matchmaker's description should only be heard. If you really understand, you still have to understand it yourself. After all, everyone's views and descriptions are different, and you will have a real feeling if you experience it yourself.