How to treat the traditional blind date in China?

How can I put it? I know a lot about blind date, because in this small town where I live, many people get married through blind date. At first, I couldn't accept it. I think this is very old-fashioned, but gradually, I can understand. Take myself for example, I have never met someone I like, and as I get older, my family begins to push me hard. I was forced to go on a blind date. But to be honest, I don't like blind date at all. It always feels weird. When two strangers met, the atmosphere became extremely awkward for that purpose. Most importantly, because there is no emotional foundation, we often measure each other's economic strength and so on. I think this is really bad, but I also feel quite helpless. Because my life circle is too small, I know each other very well. If there was development, it would have developed long ago, but people outside the circle didn't know it. Because of this, the chances of meeting someone you like naturally decrease. Therefore, from this perspective, blind date is an opportunity to meet more people and have more choices. But I found that blind date is actually a very difficult thing, and it takes some twists and turns to meet a suitable person. Moreover, some twists and turns are needed. After all, there is no emotional foundation. In fact, as you said, blind date means that parents can live happily for their children. As children, I can't bear to see them sad. For their sake, I think, sometimes we have to make appropriate compromises. Blind date is a helpless choice. I'd rather say it myself if possible. ......