Etiquette stories of Chinese civilization

It's snowing at Chengmen

Cheng, a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, was a famous Neo-Confucianism in the Song Dynasty. Cheng's theory was inherited and developed by Zhu, which is called "Cheng-Zhu School". Shi Yang and Zuo You, who are studying Chengcheng, have great respect. You Yang, two people, originally studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies.

The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy. According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and met an old gentleman who closed his eyes and took a nap. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to keep silent and ignored them. Yang Heyou dared not disturb Mr. Wang's rest, but stood in awe and said nothing until he opened his eyes.

After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yicai woke up like Luo, met Yang Heyou, and pretended to be surprised and said, "Ah! Ah! Sages have been calling here for a long time! " It means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and I don't know when it began to snow. There is more than a foot of snow outside the door.

Lenin gave way.

On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and told the girl to go upstairs, and then he went downstairs.

Step 3 visit

Zhang Lin is an official of the Municipal Foreign Affairs Office. On one occasion, the leader asked him to be responsible for contacting a delegation from a certain country to visit this city. In order to show respect for each other, Zhang Lin decided to visit each other at their hotel. In order to avoid being in a hurry, he made an appointment with the other party by phone and told him the length of his stay.

Later, he decorated his appearance and appearance, and prepared some postcards of the city as gifts. At this time, Zhang Lin arrived as scheduled. After entering the door, he greeted each other and shook hands with each other as a gift. Then he made a brief self-introduction and handed in business cards and gifts in both hands. After a brief greeting, he came straight to the point, made clear his purpose, discussed it in detail and shook hands and left.

4. The mouse suffered.

Once upon a time, there was a little mouse who always thought he was great and was rude to others. Once he went to school, a snail came up and blocked his way. The little mouse said fiercely, "Go away, little guy!" " "The mouse said, and kicked the snail far away.

Once, a little mouse went to the river to drink water. He felt that a small fish in the river was blocking his way, so he picked up a stone and threw it over. The little fish was attacked, startled, and hurriedly dodged. The little mouse smiled and said, "Do you know what I can do?" . One night, a little mouse saw a little pig lying on the side of the road on his way home.

He swaggered, "Who gave you so much courage to stand in my way?" He said, and kicked it. Bang, the little mouse just kicked the pig's foot. The pig was fine, but the little mouse cried "alas, alas". It turned out that his foot was swollen in a big bag.

The pig stood up and said to the mouse, "You are arrogant and rude to others, and you don't know how to respect people. You suffered today! " Only by respecting others can we gain their respect. The little mouse looked at the injured foot and lowered its head in shame.

5. Kong Rong lets pears.

Kong Rong (153—208), a native of Lu (now Qufu, Shandong), was a famous writer in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and one of the seven sons of Jian 'an. His literary creation was highly praised by Wei Wendi Cao Pi. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very clever when he was young, but also a typical example of paying attention to brotherhood, mutual help and friendship. When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother.

Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let the big one be eaten by my brother! "