How can I get along with my aunt?

1. When there is a difference of opinion between aunts and sisters-in-law, we should understand each other and learn to restrain ourselves. If you are not happy with yourself, you can't hurt others, and you can't whine behind their backs or point the finger at them. Instead, you have to explain yourself by presenting facts and reasoning.

2. In terms of family finances, a sister-in-law should not rely on her parents' favor and keep her own salary in her own small treasury, but should hand it over to her parents as she should. Don't compete with your sister-in-law for clothing and food; your sister-in-law should be equally concerned about your sister-in-law and support her studies and work; and whoever is in financial difficulties should selflessly give assistance.

3. In the event of a conflict between the sister-in-law and the mother, the sister-in-law should stand in the middle, not taking sides, let alone speaking for either side. Should take a neutral attitude, respectively, to do a good job of both sides of the ideological work, the sister-in-law will not be divided, but also to deepen their understanding of each other, so that the relationship between each other more intimate.

4. Sister-in-law should care about her sister-in-law as much as her own sister, especially when she falls in love and gets married, she should help to give her ideas and act as a counselor. When the sister-in-law is busy at work and needs to work overtime, the sister-in-law should help the sister-in-law with the housework and pick up the children.

5. In front of the mother, the sister-in-law should talk about her sister-in-law's merits and strengths, not to make a fuss, and try to promote harmonious relations between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.