Why did ancient women bring their own pillows when they went out for a date?

In ancient times, women needed to bring their own pillows when they went out to face their lovers. Ancient women were actually very conservative, and China attached great importance to traditional ideas. In ancient times, unmarried women generally paid attention to "staying at home, staying at home, and going out is very difficult, let alone trysting with other men." Ancient women attached great importance to their chastity. Some people say that pillows are a symbol of love.

But when you think about it, in ancient times, women were very traditional. How could it be done in one step before? This is almost impossible. Generally speaking, pillows are women's personal belongings, but they are also personal belongings. After all, they have women's hair fragrance, which will inevitably be given to men as a token of women's commitment. But let's think about it. At that time, the pillow was so big that it was not obvious to tell others that I was going on a date. Since this is a private meeting, the more hidden, the better.

In fact, in ancient times, private parties really brought pillows, because most women would bring Yuanyang pillows at that time, which was a very popular practice at that time, mainly to take advantage of artistic treatment and plot. In ancient times, you should bring a pillow when you get married, and ordinary pillows will be taken to your husband's house as a dowry.

In ancient times, pillows meant being together for a long time, so it seems common to bring pillows to private parties, but it is actually unusual. Now this scene will also appear in many plays. Carrying a pillow is also a way of euphemistically expressing love, which looks very subtle. This is the conservatism of ancient women, accompanied by many beautiful love stories.