Why is it that the more honest people are, the more likely they are to suffer "dark losses"?

Because honest people are more kind, other people bully him, he will not fight back, so some of the heart of the wrong people, they caught this weakness of the honest people, they change the home of the bully them, you're not enough to come in the dark, always let a person can not be defended.

My character is more introverted and honest, and it is easy to eat dark losses in life. I have a friend beside me, his character is more brutal and unreasonable, love like to pick the soft persimmon pinch, always take me as a target practice, but on the surface and I get close, do not know thought we have a good relationship, however, behind the scenes to do some of the things.

One time we went shopping together, I took the money is not much, but he found no restraint, a variety of brand-name bags is to buy to the soft, however, such as pay when he told me he forgot to bring money, I was thinking that since it is a friend of the one, to help him once there is no harm.

It will be nearly half a month's salary all to him to pay, I would have thought that the relationship with civilization, he will return to me, however, things in the past half a year, he still did not return to me.

And everyone will say, those bags are my initiative to give him, he did not want at first, said I was begging for non-stop stuffed him. I know the truth after he began to get tired of, I helped him to pay the money after he did not return the money, but also in turn complained about me, saying that the bag is my gift, this is a cheap still sell good.

From then on, I will never easily give others to spend money, in fact, kindness is a good quality, but the good people are always taken advantage of, too much kindness is also a kind of weakness, so that the bad people have a chance to take advantage of.

We can maintain a kind attitude towards our friends and family, but your kindness must bring its own light, in the case of preserving their own interests, and then consider helping others.