Taking stock of the different views of marriage between Westerners and Chinese people

The Western view of marriage is very different from the Chinese view of marriage. Because they believe that marriage is purely a personal matter, no one can interfere; at the same time, marriage is not a moral issue. A person has the right to choose to live with the person he/she likes the most, and once he/she realizes that the existing marriage is a mistake, he/she has the right to make a second choice. If one of the spouses falls in love with a third person, neither of them is condemned. In their view: it is cruel to force two people who do not love each other to live together. The traditional Chinese view of marriage generally speaks of a hundred years of goodwill and certainty for life. The problem is, in real life, because of such and such problems, the family cracks and even deconstruction of a number of small problems can be mediated, big problems like the principle of the problem, it is difficult to say, hard to hold on to, in their own and others have not seen a good ...... The Western view of marriage is not the same, before and after the establishment of the family, always pay attention to a "love" word, there is "love" will be together, no "love" will be separated ......

In Western eyes, love is love, simple. And the Spanish middle class is very serious about marriage. The fact that China is so "open-minded" has surprised Jace. Jess believed that popular music should not only be melodious, but also healthy, and that it should promote the feelings of men and women that deserve to be promoted. If every bride can "think about another man for the last time" when "tomorrow she will be someone else's bride", which is unacceptable to the groom, how can such a marriage last long in the future. How can such a marriage last long in the future? How can the civilization of society be improved if such songs are widely popular and sung? If everyone's behavior is like that of "Rain of the Heart", how can families be harmonious? The family is a part of the society, and if the family is not harmonious, the society will degenerate. This is what a Spaniard thinks of Chinese pop songs. When Members continue to read on, can they first think of a question in their mind? If you are a man who is taking part in an important competition, and at this time, your wife gives birth to a baby, will you quit the competition and rush to accompany your wife to give birth to the baby? If you are a woman, do you think your husband should come back at this time? If you want to, please continue to read on with your own answer.

Not long ago, NBA fans all over the world were talking about one thing, the Rockets' number one player, Maddie, suddenly left the game in the middle of the Rockets' game against the Jazz, causing the Rockets to lose to the Jazz. What was the reason for Maddie leaving in the middle of the game? Originally, in the rocket against the jazz in the first half of the game is not over, Maddie an assistant called the rocket news director Nelsong, said wheat's fiancée Harris abdominal pain, was sent to the hospital to give birth to their son is about to be born. Nelsons relayed the news to trainer Jones, and by the time the first two quarters were over, Jones pulled Wheat to deliver the news. Anxious Maddie immediately changed out of his jersey and couldn't wait to get to the hospital, where more than an hour later, his son was born and the Rockets lost the game. Although Maddie knew that he was incredibly important to the team, and that his departure would likely cost the Rockets a victory, he still chose to leave without a second thought. The family will always come first, and at this time, the rocket situation is even more dangerous, but also can only take a back seat.

No one blamed Maddie, in the United States, accompanied his wife to give birth to a child is a matter of course. Rockets head coach Van Gundy also did not blame their number one player, "We lost not because he was not here, but because we were incompetent on offense, we are all professionals, so we have no excuse." In American society, the prevailing view will always be that family is more important than work, and when there is a serious conflict between work and family, it will be work that gives way. The NBA is familiar with a little friend also know, as long as the NBA team players because of the family happened major things, such as the birth of a child, a loved one is seriously ill or death and other reasons for leave, even if it is to play the finals, the team will be uniformly permitted to leave, no doubt about it.

But what is the situation in China? In China, since the ancient times, there is a great example of "three times and not enter", the mainstream thinking is to promote the country before the family, the public before the private sense, violators will be considered selfish, lack of noble moral character. In the sports world alone, not to mention the numerous examples of athletes still insisting on fighting on the field when their wives give birth, it is not uncommon for athletes to endure the grief of a loved one's death and insist on competing. Therefore, many Chinese rocket fans think that the team's situation is so critical, as the number one star Maddie should try to win, lead the team to finish the game, should not be a moment of love, do not know how to understand the big body. Now, I'll test your love and marriage concepts first, please think in your heart first, are you in favor of Wheat leaving? Or are you against Wheat leaving?