In Ode to Joy, fan Mei Sheng has been supporting her brother. As a younger sister, does she have an obligation to help her younger brother?

As a sister, I have no obligation to help my brother. Everyone has his own life and wants to live better and better with his own hands. I can't miss the opportunity to help my brother make my life better. Besides, I think such a brother is a vampire. He doesn't know how to make progress and make money hard. He can only rely on his sister's help to make his life better. In my opinion, such a man is really a loser.

In Ode to Joy, Fan's brother and sister-in-law don't work, but always rely on her sister to support them. Even the house was bought by Fan, and she paid the mortgage herself. My brother's family is not grateful yet. She also said that her sister was incapable of giving them a better life. In my opinion, people who live on others are all children who don't grow up. They think that others should help them, and they are even less grateful, let alone grateful. They only see blind money and have no feelings for their loved ones.

In fact, in real life, many families have the same model, thinking that girls should pay for their families. Girls should start giving all kinds of help to their parents and brothers after work. Only in this way can these girls have the value of existence in the family and win a little pity from their parents.

This family-born model is terrible and deformed, which can distort people's values and world outlook. It also caused the girls who grew up in this kind of family to be indifferent to the family and insecure about marriage and love, because they were in a weak position since childhood. Deeply influenced their three views.