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If we spread the traditional filial piety culture
What I have seen and heard recently is shocking. It is urgent to promote the filial piety culture, so we will focus on the filial piety culture in China from today.
When I got home last night, my 87-year-old mother-in-law was as happy as a child. She took out this delicious food for a while and that delicious food for a while, fearing that we would be too busy to go home the next day.
Mother-in-law talks to herself while holding delicious food. It's hard to live alone. In fact, we go home most of the time and sometimes work overtime until 23 o'clock in the evening, so we live in the company for fear of affecting her rest. In fact, parents are old and want to have children with them. Seeing that my elderly mother-in-law is busy "inviting" us home on time every day, I feel uncomfortable all day.
"I am old, I am young, I am young, I am young, I am young." This sentence comes from Meng Ziliang. We also have an old day!
Also, I heard from a friend the day before yesterday that her son, a sophomore, went home to lose his temper and scold her because of the pressure of study. She also said that her son's classmate hit her mother ... shocking, shocking.
It is also reported that the 84-year-old man slept outside his daughter's house for four days and three nights, regardless of his six children during the Spring Festival.
It is also reported that this unfilial son was sentenced to eight years in prison for poisoning and murdering his father many times.
What's more, international students studying in Japan stabbed their mothers at the airport because of tuition fees.
According to China Youth Daily, the National People's Congress Census Group conducted a survey on rural old-age care, and the results showed that:
? 5% of the elderly have no three meals;
? 45.3% of the elderly are separated from their children;
? 53% children are not sensitive to their parents;
? 67% of the elderly are sick and can't afford medicine;
? 93% of the elderly can't add a new dress a year;
? The number of abnormal deaths of the elderly in a county in Shanghai is as high as 135, of which 55% committed suicide because the support problem could not be implemented.
When I was a child, I didn't know my parents' kindness. When I knew it, I was already in middle age. When parents are here, there is still a place to go in life. When parents are gone, there is only the way home in life. Half-life, half-life It is not rich to have a car in front of the door. It is blessed to have parents at home. Parents are living buddhas. Doing good deeds and filial piety is true.
In our life, the people who owe the most are our parents.
When I was a child, I didn't understand my parents' kindness. I got it. When I was middle-aged. Parents gave us life, took care of us all our lives and gave us everything. I have done countless things for us. I would rather suffer myself than let us suffer. I give us the best and love us the most.
In this world, no one except parents will love and take care of us without reservation.
They don't ask for anything in return. They work hard. They never care about what they get. They just want us to be healthy and happy.
We can't repay our parents' kindness to us. We can't repay our parents for their love. They educate us to be honest, they care for our healthy growth, take care of us carefully, and take care of us carefully, lest we have no grievances at all.
When I was young, I didn't know my parents' kindness, so I would blame them for their strictness. I'll understand when I grow up. Their good intentions, for us to take the right path, for us to be good people, for our strict education. The love of parents is deeper than the sea, and the love of parents is heavier than the mountains. All our lives, we grew up under the protection of our parents, always thinking that there is still plenty of time and it is never too late to be filial to our parents. But I forgot that my parents will get old. Maybe I can't wait for our filial piety. Maybe I will miss our company. So, don't wait, treat your parents well while they are still alive. What they want is not money, but that you can go home often. Even talking to them, or just having a meal. Life is grace, raising is grace, and the kindness of parents is still unclear. When I was a child, I didn't know my parents' kindness. When I knew it, I was already in middle age. In the future life, please cherish every day with your parents, be filial in time, spend more time with you, and don't leave irreparable regrets for yourself!
Do you understand your parents now?
"The tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise it but not stay" is an old saying, which means that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop; Children want to support their parents, but their parents have left. It is a metaphor that the passage of time does not end with one's own wishes, so as to warn children to be filial in time, to take good care of their parents when they are alive, and not to regret after their parents die.
Be filial when you live.
It is better to raise a little before death than to offer a rich sacrifice after death.
Time waits for no one, and parents grow old day by day. Only by cherishing the present and mourning in time is the truth.
The practical significance of carrying forward filial piety;
First, the core of filial piety culture is to respect the elderly and provide for the elderly.
As a fine tradition generally recognized by the Chinese nation, it emphasizes respecting the elderly and loving the young, and requires the younger generation to respect the elderly, and the children to honor their parents, love, care and support the elderly, so that the elderly can enjoy family happiness. This spirit has universal social significance in the past, present and future.
Second, we should carry forward the spirit of respecting, caring for and supporting the elderly.
The goal of filial piety education is to promote the concept of respecting the elderly from the family to the society. Through the combination of social education and social education, we can effectively create a social fashion of respecting the elderly, encourage people to "respect the elderly and love the young", push the moral sentiment of respecting the elderly and loving the young to others, respect, care and care for all the elderly and children in the world, and promote family harmony and social progress.
Thirdly, promoting filial piety culture is the basic element of family harmony, social stability and national unity.
At present, China is in the transition period from tradition to modernization. With the pace of reform and opening up, the contradiction between the old moral norms and the socialist market economy is increasingly colliding and running in. It is the moral choice of everyone in China to remold and rebuild the modern moral and cultural system with China characteristics and the ethical spirit that embodies the spirit of the times. The spirit of attaching importance to roots and joining WTO in traditional filial piety culture plays a cohesive role in strengthening the unity of all ethnic groups in China and Qi Xin's concerted efforts in socialist modernization.
Fourthly, promoting filial piety has far-reaching social significance and practical guiding significance.
At present, the elderly population in China has exceeded 65.438+0.3 billion, accounting for more than 654.38+0.654 38+0% of the total population. In particular, China's elderly population has a large base and a rapid momentum, which ushered in an aging population under the condition of "getting old before getting rich". According to relevant data, by 2025, the elderly population in China will reach 280 million, accounting for about 20% of the total population, and the elderly population over 80 will also reach 25 million.
Fifth, the way of providing for the aged in China is mainly family support, which is a traditional model formed for thousands of years. More than 70% of the elderly population in China still live in rural areas, and most of the elderly still have low living security ability. Most of them have to rely on the help of their families to spend their old age. They need not only material help, life care, but also spiritual comfort.
Filial piety education in Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism;
Confucianism puts filial piety first: The Book of Filial Piety and Disciples' Rules.
Buddhists regard filial piety as the first blessing and infinite longevity sutra-three blessings of clean industry.
The Buddha said that it was difficult for parents to report the scriptures, while the Tibetan Bodhisattva originally wished to do so.
Taoism puts filial piety first.
Emperor Wen Chang advised filial piety on New Year's Day and Lv Zu advised filial piety.
Mother's article
Someone will help you with your new schoolbag.
Someone gave you an umbrella in the rain.
Someone (he) will wrap your favorite (that) three fresh stuffing.
Someone will wipe away your wronged tears.
Ah, this man is a mother
Ah, this person is mother.
This man gave me life.
Give me a home.
No matter how far you go.
Whatever you're doing.
I can't live without my mother at any time.
You live in a foreign country and someone cares about you.
When you came home, someone was making hot tea.
You are lying in a hospital bed, and someone is crying.
When you smile, someone blooms happily.
Ah, no matter how rich you are.
The connotation of filial piety:
Filial piety: The essence of China's traditional filial piety is to advocate "respect" and "love" for parents. Without respect and love, filial piety will not be weak.
Support: The material basis of traditional filial piety in China is to provide material support for adoptive parents, that is, to support parents and "support from birth", which is the minimum program of filial piety.
Treatment: the elderly are weak and prone to illness. Therefore, the traditional filial piety in China regards "treating diseases" as an important content. Taking care of illness means that the elderly parents are ill, so we should make timely diagnosis and treatment, take good care of them and give more care to their parents in life and spirit.
Stand up: The Book of Filial Piety says, "When you live on the street, you will be famous all over the world and your filial piety will be exhausted." In other words, children should "make a career" and achieve something. Parents will feel happy, proud and proud when their children achieve success in their careers. So doing nothing all day and living a mediocre life is also unfilial to parents.
Advice: When parents are unfair, not only don't be disobedient, but also advise parents to correct their own injustice, so as to avoid parents falling into injustice.
A happy ending: arranging a funeral.
The realm of filial piety:
Filial piety: support your parents with things, support your parents with your heart, and let your parents have nothing to worry about.
Filial piety: make parents happy through obedience and care for them.
Filial piety: support and honor your loved ones, do good deeds and help the world, and let your parents shine.
Xiaohui: dial relatives with virtue, do things with virtue, and make parents achieve life.
The realm of filial piety:
It's warm in winter, warm in summer and calm in the morning.
Sue when you go out, but face it.
Although things are small, don't be overjoyed.
Although things are small, don't hide them.
Do what you like, do what you hate, and do what you want.
Physical injury worries parents, while moral injury shames parents.
Dear, why is it so hard to be filial to me and hate my filial piety?
Pro-advice makes me more comfortable, my color is softer and my voice is softer.
If you dare not remonstrate, you can cry and scold.
The story of China's twenty-four filial piety is still fresh in my mind.
Carry forward the culture of filial piety, connect the preceding with the following, and let's do the new 24 filial piety together;
1. Call your parents regularly and don't hang up.
2. Know your parents' age
When traveling, you must report your safety to your parents in time.
Know your parents' birthdays and send you your best wishes on their birthdays.
5. Have patience to listen to mom's nagging and understand dad's silence.
6. Understand the unchangeable frugal and even stingy habits of parents.
7. Go home to visit your parents during the holidays.
8. When eating, take the initiative to serve meals and vegetables to your parents.
9. Stimulate parents' interest in life
10, try to listen to your parents about things at home.
1 1. Respect the lifestyle that parents like.
12, walking with parents
13. Let your parents know that you are always proud of them.
14, care about parents' health like children.
15, I have the opportunity to sit next to my parents and listen to their stories or tell them stories.
16, don't blame your parents for cooking.
17, don't lose your temper with your parents
18, often praise parents.
19, buy small gifts for parents from time to time.
20. Occasionally coquetry in front of parents
2 1. You can communicate with your parents more about study and work.
When you disagree with your parents, never conflict with them.
23. Take the initiative to do housework when you have time, such as trying to wash clothes by yourself, trying to help parents wash clothes, and learning to buy food and cook on your own initiative.
24. Don't lie to your parents. Take the initiative to apologize to your parents if you make a mistake.
Finally, I wish all the parents in the world good health and a happy mood!
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