36 classic quotes about human nature and sophistication

1. Participate in banquets and eat with friends. Don’t be picky and complain about the food. Don’t refuse to use chopsticks because you don’t like it. Even if you don’t drink, drink tea instead of wine. 2. Don’t bargain too much with hawkers and coolies, and be honest when talking to working people.

Be respectful; 3. When distant guests come to visit, you should try your best to host banquets; when guests come, you should prepare gifts, and when receiving gifts, you should return gifts; when visiting distant places, local friends should first understand local preferences and taboos; 4. Frequently find friends, partners and colleagues (

Even children) deserve recognition. Note that even the boss needs to be recognized by you, but the praise for the boss should be done in private as much as possible, while for ordinary friends and colleagues, praise should be made publicly.

5. An invitation is required to attend other people's activities. If you cannot attend, you should notify the host in advance. If you are late, you must notify the host at the appropriate time. You must explain when you arrive. If you bring uninvited friends, you must notify the host in advance.

6. Don’t eat alone when there are good things to eat. Take the initiative to tell them the good news you know. Thinking of others when there are good things will make others feel that you regard them as a good friend.

7. When you are not fully sure, answer other people's invitations with the tone of "fight for" and "try your best." When you promise, you must fulfill it to the maximum extent.

A promise is something that is fulfilled 100% of the time.

If you have a record of failing to fulfill your promise to the same person three or more times, that person usually no longer takes your agreement seriously. This is called a credit problem.

8. It is not suitable to ask for gifts from others. When you receive a gift from others, you should express your gratitude regardless of whether you like it, because the gift giver will care about your reaction. It is not suitable to transfer a gift from one place to another, especially if you keep the original gift.

It would be very impolite to use the author's symbols and traces.

9. Those who are raising children should learn to take care of themselves and help with housework as early as possible. Workers should take the initiative to help with inconspicuous chores in the office; 10. Those who are raising children or juniors should not compete with respected parents and elders when walking together, but should give up their way and give up their seats.

Tea is served, and everyone is invited to join the banquet. 11. When asking questions or asking for advice from teachers or others, you should stand up and pay your respects first; 12. Don’t say anything wrong to others behind their backs, or to people you don’t like.

If you are good, you should raise strict opinions with the person concerned in person. If you are positive, you can say it behind your back. If you are kind to the leader, you should say it privately. 13. You need to be self-disciplined in speaking. Do not say proud words to frustrated people, and do not be arrogant.

Hold high your own status, your children’s family’s property, don’t say depressing words when meeting the elderly, speak more encouraging words, don’t criticize others harshly if you don’t have suggestions, and don’t say or do hateful things when you break up with others; 14. Be welcomed by others and be taught by others.

When receiving help from someone, you should send a thank you message, send an email, or find a special opportunity to express your gratitude. Elderly people should not refuse gifts; 15. Do not pick your teeth, yawn, stretch, spit, or scratch your head in public, do not smoke without asking, and do not get drunk.

See other guests; 16. Do not have visitors or receive visitors when you are eating, sleeping or in disheveled clothes, and you should treat guests with courtesy; 17. When receiving guests, you should first extend your hands to hold hands with the distinguished guests, and help guide you to sit down, while the other host will

You should wait for the host to arrange a seat; 18. For friends, you should call, email or write greetings when you have nothing to do, instead of only looking for someone when you have something to worry about; 19. When you first meet, you should ask for the first name of the person.

, if someone asks for your surname or your surname, please reply that your surname is x, or that you can call me xx.

20. Do as the Romans do when you are in the country, bow to others, bow to others, greet others and shake hands, so that people feel integrated and close; 21. The address should be familiar, and the visiting company can be called "We xx"

company" instead of "your xx company"; "our colleagues here" instead of "your employees"; "the xx business our company is doing now" rather than "the xx business your company is doing"; 22

. When questioning others, you should have more evidence than just talk; although it is reasonable, the wording should be gentle, the attitude should be sincere, and there should be words of advice; before commenting on others, you should reflect on whether you can do it; 23. Know good news and good news

The truth should be shared with others as much as possible, and the benefits should be shared with others; special thanks should be given to people for their encouragement, support and help. 24. Even if we are not talking to big people, we should talk to them with an attitude of asking for advice rather than an arrogant attitude, because people should not be judged by their appearance.

, many practical mentors and helpful friends often come from humble life and work.

25. When taking the initiative to order food during a meal, it is not appropriate to ask the host and guest of honor to order food, because that is not what distinguished people usually do. However, please pay attention to asking their preferences, rather than just ordering what you like.

But this requires studying the menu regularly and accumulating experience in ordering.

When serving the table, you must respect the host's arrangement and do not rush to the table first.