Short stories about manners!

Small stories about etiquette!

- Filial Piety Moves Heaven

Shun, the legendary ancient emperor, one of the five emperors, surnamed Yao, first name Chonghua, numbered Yu Clan, known as Yu Shun in history. According to legend, his father, goze, and his stepmother and half-brother, xiang, tried to kill him many times: when he was asked to repair the roof of a barn, he set fire to it from underneath the barn, and escaped by jumping down with two hats in his hands; and when he was asked to dig a well, goze and xiang went down to fill in the well, and Shun escaped by digging a tunnel. Afterward, Shun did not feel any resentment, but remained obedient to his father and compassionate to his brother. His filial piety touched the Heavenly Emperor. When Shun plowed in Li Mountain, elephants plowed the land for him and birds hoe the grass for him. Emperor Yao heard that Shun was very filial and had the ability to handle political affairs, and married his two daughters, E Huang and N Ying, to him; after years of observation and testing, he chose Shun to be his successor. After Shun ascended the throne of heaven, he visited his father, still respectful, and made Xiang a vassal.

- Taste the medicine

Liu Heng, Emperor Wen of Han Dynasty, was the third son of Emperor Gaozu of Han Dynasty, born to Empress Dowager Bo. He became emperor in the eighth year of the reign of Empress Dowager Bo (180 BC). He was known for his filial piety and never neglected to serve his mother. When his mother was sick for three years, he often did not see her and did not take care of her clothes; he tasted the medicines she took before letting her take them. He reigned for 24 years, emphasizing the rule of virtue, rituals, attention to the development of agriculture, so that the Western Han society is stable, prosperous, economic recovery and development, he and Han Jing Chengmen Lixue's allusion

"Chengmen Lixue" this story, said the Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shih and You Yu Yu to the Hao Cheng Yi to pay homage to the teacher to ask for advice.

The two Chengs were from Yichuan, Luoyang, and were both famous Confucian scholars in the Song Dynasty. Two Cheng doctrine, later for Zhu Xi inheritance and development, the world called "Cheng Zhu school". Yang Shi and You Yu, who studied with Cheng, were very respectful. Yang You two, the original Cheng Hao as a teacher, Cheng Hao died, they are already forty years old, and has passed the entrance examination, but they still have to go to Cheng Yi to continue to study. The story takes place on the day they first went to Songyang Academy to pay their respects to Cheng Yi.

According to legend, one day, Yang Shi, you editing, came to Songyang Academy to see Cheng Yi, met the old man closed eyes, sitting fake sleep. Cheng Yi knew that there are two guests came, he wanted to not say nothing, ignore. Yang, swim two people are afraid of disturbing Mr. rest, had to respectfully, solemnly stay standing, without saying a word waiting for him to open his eyes. So wait for a good half day, Cheng Yi only as Luo first woke up, see Yang, tour, pretending to be a shock, said: "Ah! Ah! Sage early in this call!" Meaning that you two are still here not gone ah. That day was a very cold winter day, I do not know when, began to snow. The snow outside the door was more than a foot deep.

This story is called "Cheng Men Li Xue". In the Song Dynasty, it was widely circulated among the readers, and later described the respect for teachers, sincerely seeking advice, people often cite this allusion and the idiom of the emperor's reign is known as "the reign of Wenjing".

Etiquette story: Thousands of miles to send goose feather

The story of "Thousands of miles to send goose feather" happened in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, the leader of a minority group in Yunnan Province, in order to show his support for the Tang Dynasty, sent an envoy, Maeng Bogao, to contribute swans to Emperor Taizong.

While passing by the Shinyang River, the kind-hearted Maeng Bo Gao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan spread its wings and flew high into the air. Maung Bo Goh reached out to catch it, but only pulled a few goose feathers. Maung Pao Ko was so anxious that he cried. The attendants advised him, "It's no use crying when the goose has already flown away. Maung Bo Gao thought, can only be so.

When he arrived at Chang'an, Maung Bo Gao paid a visit to Emperor Tang Taizong and offered him a gift. Tang Taizong see is an exquisite satin bag, then people open, a look is a few goose feathers and a small poem. The poem said: "The swan tribute to the Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. The swan lost its treasure in the Shinyang River, and fell to the ground crying and bawling. I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help, but I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help at all. The gift is light, and the goose is sent for thousands of miles." Tang Taizong was puzzled, Maine Bogao then told the original story. Tang Taizong repeatedly said: "rare and precious! Rarely can be valuable! Thousands of miles to send goose feather, the gift is light and heavy!"

This story embodies the valuable virtue of honesty in gift-giving. Today, people use "goose feather sent from a thousand miles" to describe a gift that is thin, but the sentiment is very strong.

2 short stories about etiquette

Kong Rong (153-208), a native of the state of Lu (now Qufu, Shandong), was a famous literary scholar at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, one of the Seven Sons of Jian'an, whose literary creations were highly respected by Cao Pi, the Emperor of Wei. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very smart when he was young, but also a typical person who emphasized on the rites of brothers and mutual help and love.

When Kong Rong was four years old, he used to eat pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always take a smallest pear. Once, his father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one and not the big one?" Kong Rong said: "I am the younger brother, the youngest, should eat the smallest, the big or let my brother eat it!"

Kong Rong's understanding of sibling courtesy, mutual help and solidarity at a young age surprised the whole family. From then on, the story of Kong Rong letting his brother have a pear has been passed down for thousands of years, and has become a model of unity and love.

The story of "sending goose feather for a thousand miles" happened in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, the leader of a minority group in Yunnan Province, in order to show his support for the Tang Dynasty, sent an envoy, Maeng Bogao, to contribute swans to Emperor Taizong.

While passing by the Shinyang River, the kind-hearted Maeng Bo Gao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan spread its wings and flew high into the air. Maung Bo Goh reached out to catch it, but only pulled a few goose feathers. Maung Pao Ko was so anxious that he cried. The attendants advised him, "It's no use crying when the goose has already flown away. Maung Bo Gao thought, can only be so.

When he arrived at Chang'an, Maung Bo Gao paid a visit to Emperor Tang Taizong and offered him a gift. Tang Taizong see is an exquisite satin bag, then people open, a look is a few goose feathers and a small poem. The poem said: "The swan tribute to the Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. The swan lost its treasure in the Shinyang River, and fell to the ground crying and bawling. I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help, but I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help at all. The gift is light, and the goose is sent for thousands of miles." Tang Taizong was puzzled, Maine Bogao then told the original story. Tang Taizong repeatedly said: "rare and precious! Rarely can be valuable! Thousands of miles to send goose feather, the gift is light and heavy!"

This story embodies the valuable virtue of honesty in gift-giving. Today, people use "goose feather sent in a thousand miles" as a metaphor to describe a gift that is thin, but has a very strong sentiment.

Ancient etiquette stories (to be brief)

Ancient etiquette stories: Lian Lin Jiaohua

Lin Xiangru was a minister of the State of Zhao during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and he was very insightful and talented. He defended the dignity of the state of Zhao in the diplomatic battles of "Returning the jade annulus to Zhao" and "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean"? Lian Po was so displeased that he said to others: "I, Lian Po, am invincible, invincible, and have made great achievements for the state of Zhao. Lin Xiangru is just talking with a mouth, what's the big deal, instead, he climbed up to my head. Be sure to insult him a little." When Lin Xiangru heard about this, he tried not to meet with Lian Po, and every time he went out, he avoided Lian Po, and sometimes he even pretended to be sick and didn't go to court. Once Lin Xiangru went out and saw Lian Po's carriage coming from afar, he quickly told the driver to go around the small road.

Lin Xiangru's men felt aggrieved by this humble concession, and asked for his resignation. Lin Xiangru insisted on staying and patiently explained to them, "Which do you think is the greatest, General Lian or the King of Qin?" They all said, "Of course, General Lian is not as good as the King of Qin." Lin Xiangru said, "That's right, every general in the world is afraid of the King of Qin, but for the sake of the State of Zhao, I dared to reprimand him at the court of Qin, so how could I be afraid of General Lian instead? I understand your feelings, but have you ever thought that the reason why the mighty Qin doesn't dare to attack Zhao is because Zhao has two people, General Lian and me? If the two tigers fight, they will both lose. I have always given way to General Lian regardless of personal grudges, but it is in the interest of the country." After listening to these words, everyone got angry, and they stopped the idea of resigning and returning to their hometowns, but they respected Lin Xiangru even more.

Later, some people told Lian Po about Lin Xiangru's words, and Lian Po was so touched and ashamed that he felt sorry for his own narrow-mindedness, and resolved to apologize to Lin Xiangru in person. One day, he took off his war robe, bareback carrying thorns, came to Lin Xiangru's mansion, "flopped" kneeling on the ground, old tears, sobbing uncontrollably to Lin Xiangru, said: "I'm a mean and coarse man, shallow knowledge, short temperament, I did not expect you to be so tolerant of me, I really do not have the face to see you, please you! I really have no face to see you, so please beat me with all your strength! I am really ashamed to see you, so please beat me as hard as you can, even if it means beating me to death, I am willing to do so." Seeing this, Lin Xiangru hurriedly picked up Lian Po, and they hugged each other tightly. From then on, they eliminated the gap between them, strengthened their unity, and worked together to defend the state of Zhao, and the powerful Qin dared not easily invade the state of Zhao.

The story of etiquette: Chengmen Lixue

Yang Shi (1053-1135) was a very talented scholar in the Northern Song Dynasty, and a native of Jiangle, South Jianzhou (now in Fujian). After he was awarded a bachelor's degree, he gave up being an official and continued his studies.

The brothers Cheng Hao (1032-1085) and Cheng Yi (1033-1107), both of whom were prestigious scholars, philosophers, and pedagogues at the time, were from Luoyang, and were the founders of the Northern Song Dynasty's science. Their doctrine was inherited by Zhu Xi of the Southern Song Dynasty, and was known as the Cheng Zhu School.

Yang admired the two Cheng's learning, defected to Luoyang Cheng Hao's door, to study, 4 years after Cheng Hao's death, and continue to worship Cheng Yi as a teacher. At this time he was already 40 years old, still respect the teacher as before, study hard. One day, when it was snowy and cold, Yang encountered a difficult problem, so he braved the cold wind and asked his classmate You Yu (1053-1123) to go to his teacher's house to ask for advice. When he arrived at the teacher's house, he saw that the teacher was sitting on a chair and fell asleep, he could not bear to disturb the teacher for fear of affecting the teacher's rest, so he quietly stood outside the door and waited. When the teacher woke up with a start, the snow was already a foot deep under their feet, and their bodies were covered with snow. The teacher was too busy to invite Yang Shi and other two people into the house, for them to lecture.

Later, the story of "Cheng Men Li Xue" became a popular example of respect for teachers.

Celebrity Etiquette Story:Zhang Liang Worships His Teacher

Zhang Liang (? -186 years ago), was a military advisor to Liu Bang, the Gaozu of Western Han Dynasty, whose ancestors were Korean. After the destruction of Korea by Qin, Zhang Liang was determined to avenge Korea. Once, he was hunted down and took refuge in Xiapi after an assassination attempt on Qin Shi Huang.

Zhang Liang had nothing to do in Xiapi. One day, he went to the Xiapi Bridge to take a walk, and came across an old man, wearing a coarse cloth and short clothes, walked next to Zhang Liang and deliberately dropped his shoes under the bridge. Then he turned back to Zhang Liang and said, "My son! Go down to the bridge and pick up the shoe for me!" Zhang Liang was stunned and wanted to hit him, but seeing that he was an old man, he held back his anger and went under the bridge to pick up his shoe. The old man even ordered again, "Put the shoes on me!" Zhang Liang thought that since he had already picked up the shoes for him, he might as well put them on, so he knelt down and put them on him. The old man stretched his feet out and let Zhang Liang put them on him, then walked away with a smile on his face. Zhang Liang watched him with amazed eyes. When the old man had gone a long way, he turned back and said to Zhang Liang, "You are a boy who can be trained to be a great man, so come here to meet me at first light in the morning five days from now!" Zhang Liang knelt down and said, "Yes." At dawn on the fifth day, Zhang Liang arrived at the Xiapi Bridge. Unexpectedly, the old man was already waiting there, and when he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why are you late for a date with an old man? Meet again on the fifth morning in the future!" After saying that, he left. On the fifth morning, as soon as the rooster crowed, Zhang Liang rushed there, but the old man was waiting there again, and when he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why did you fall behind me again? Come back earlier after five days!" Then he left again. On the fifth day, Zhang Liang rushed to the bridge before midnight, waited for a long time, and the old man also came, and he said happily, "This is good." Then he took out a book and pointed to it, saying, "Study this book carefully, and you can be the emperor's teacher! In ten years, the situation of the world will change, and you will make your fortune. In the next thirteen years, you will see me at the bottom of Gucheng Mountain in Jibei County-there is a yellow stone there that is me." The old man finished speaking and left.

In the morning at dawn, Zhang Liang took out the book and looked at it, and it turned out to be The Art of War of Taigong (the book of war of Jiang Taigong, who aided King Wu of Zhou in conquering the Zhou Empire)! Zhang Liang treasured it so much that he often read it familiarly and studied and researched it over and over again.

Ten years later, Chen Sheng and others rose up against Qin, and Zhang Liang gathered more than 100 people to respond. When Liu Bang, the Duke of Pei, led a few thousand men and captured some places in the west of Xiapi, Zhang Liang submitted to him and became his subordinate. From then on, Zhang Liang often offered his advice to the Duke of Pei according to "The Art of War of Taigong", and Pei recognized it as very good and often adopted his strategies, and later became Liu Bang's military advisor in planning and strategizing to win the battle of the thousand miles. After Liu Bang became the emperor, he was appointed as the Marquis of Liu.

Zhang Liang never forgot the old man who gave him "The Art of War", and 13 years later, when he followed Liu Bang through Jibei, he really saw a yellow stone under the Gucheng Mountain, and retrieved it, called it "Huangshi Gong", and enshrined it as a treasure to be worshipped on a regular basis. After Zhang Liang's death, his family buried the yellow stone with him.

Think about it: this is a moving legend, Zhang Liang worship teacher, the third time to see the teacher, if it is you, you will go the third time? Why?

Etiquette story: Thousands of miles to send goose feather

The story of "Thousands of miles to send goose feather" happened in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, the leader of a minority group in Yunnan Province, in order to show his support for the Tang Dynasty, sent an envoy, Maeng Bogao, to contribute swans to Emperor Taizong.

While passing by the Shinyang River, the kind-hearted Maeng Bo Gao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan spread its wings and flew high into the air. Maung Bo Goh reached out to catch it, but only pulled a few goose feathers. Maung Pao Ko was so anxious that he cried. The attendants advised him, "It's no use crying when the goose has already flown away. Maung Bo Gao thought, can only be so.

When he arrived at Chang'an, Maung Bo Gao paid a visit to Emperor Tang Taizong and offered him a gift. Tang Taizong see is an exquisite satin bag, then people open, a look is a few goose feathers and a small poem. The poem said: "The swan tribute to the Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. The swan lost its treasure in the Shinyang River, and fell to the ground crying and bawling. I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help, but I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help at all. The gift is light, and the goose is sent for thousands of miles." Tang Taizong was puzzled, Maine Bogao then told the original story. Tang Taizong repeatedly said: "rare and precious! Rarely can be valuable! Thousands of miles to send goose feather, the gift is light and heavy!"

This story embodies the valuable virtue of honesty in gift-giving. Today, people use "goose feather sent from a thousand miles away" as a metaphor to describe a gift that is thin, but the sentiment is exceptionally strong.

Etiquette story: Yang Xiang choked the tiger to save his relatives

Yang Xiang choked the tiger to save his relatives is a traditional Chinese etiquette story.

Yang Xiang was a fourteen-year-old girl. One day, she followed her father, Yang Feng, to the field to harvest the crops. When they were halfway there, a big tiger suddenly jumped out and bit Yang Xiang's father and ran back. At that time, Yang Xiang was unarmed, but she was not afraid of the danger, only thinking of her father who was dragged away by the tiger, and putting her own life and death at risk. She ran up to the tiger and grabbed it by the neck and pinched it to death. At first, the tiger tried to fight back, but Yang Xiang refused to let go, and the tiger gradually lost its energy, grinded its teeth, and finally died. Yang Xiang's father finally got out of danger and was saved from the tiger's harm.

The later writes in praise of Yang Xiang: "Yang Xiang was fourteen years old. When Yang Xiang was 14 years old, he went with his father to the field to get corn, and his father was dragged away by a tiger. When Yang Xiang was unarmed, he only knew that he had a father, but not a body. He went forward and held the tiger by the neck, and the tiger died with its teeth grinding, and his father was saved from harm.

The collection of small stories about etiquette in life!

When I first entered the university, then young and vigorous, talking legs are always shaking again, and hands inserted in the pockets of pants, rarely pay attention to etiquette, once with the homeroom teacher, the homeroom teacher was very impatient, said the trouble you talk to others to pay attention to your movements, which is disrespectful to others, then I realized that their own rudeness, this thing is not too classic, but it allows me to know how to respect others from the Details respect for others, FYI

Write your own short story about etiquette

Foreign Ministry spokesman Liu Jianchao answered a reporter's question when asked, was asked, in the U.S. President George W. Bush's visit to Iraq, was a reporter threw shoes. How did he personally understand this sentiment? Wise as he is, he replied, "This incident also reminds me to observe who is going to raise his hand to ask a question here while at the same time keeping an eye on who is untying his shoelaces."

Indians have different uses for their right and left hands, which can be embarrassing for the other person if not understood.

Westerners have some privacy can not ask

Ancient Chinese such as Chengmen Lixue Yan Zhaowang begged Shi Zhang Liang to the old man on the bridge to wear shoes Kong Rong let the pear and so on can be written.

Recommended for you Kim Jong-kun talk about etiquette, which is a lot of modern etiquette stories.

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Chengmen Lixue allusion

"Chengmen Lixue" this story, said the Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Yu Yu to Cheng Hao Cheng Yi to pay homage to the teacher to seek advice.

The two Chengs were from Yichuan, Luoyang, and were both famous Confucian scholars in the Song Dynasty. Two Cheng doctrine, later for Zhu Xi inheritance and development, the world called "Cheng Zhu school". Yang Shi and You Yu, who studied with Cheng, were very respectful. Yang You two, the original Cheng Hao as a teacher, Cheng Hao died, they are already forty years old, and has passed the entrance examination, but they still have to go to Cheng Yi to continue to study. The story takes place on the day they first went to Songyang Academy to pay their respects to Cheng Yi.

According to legend, one day, Yang Shi, you editing, came to Songyang Academy to see Cheng Yi, met the old man closed eyes, sitting fake sleep. Cheng Yi knew that there are two guests came, he wanted to not say nothing, ignore. Yang, swim two people are afraid of disturbing Mr. rest, had to respectfully, solemnly stay standing, without saying a word waiting for him to open his eyes. So wait for a good half day, Cheng Yi only as Luo first woke up, see Yang, tour, pretending to be a shock, said: "Ah! Ah! Sage early in this call!" Meaning that you two are still here not gone ah. That day was a very cold day in winter, I do not know when, began to snow. The snow outside the door was more than a foot deep.

This story is called "Cheng Men Li Xue". It was widely spread among the scholars of the Song Dynasty, and was often quoted to describe the respect for teachers and the sincerity in seeking advice

1. Honest and courteous--Yan Zhaowang's quest for wisdom

After Meng Changjun was removed from the post of prime minister, the king of Qi Min, together with Chu and Wei, destroyed the state of Song, which made him even more arrogant. He wanted to annex all the states and become the king himself. This made the lords of all the kingdoms dissatisfied with him; especially Yan, the northern state of Qi, which was bullied by Qi and wanted to take revenge.

Yan was originally a big country. Later, it was passed to King Kuai of Yan (pronounced kuài), who listened to the ideas of bad people, and even followed the legendary Yao and Shun's way of giving up the throne to Zi Zhi, the minister of the state of Xiangguo. The generals of Yan and Prince Ping attacked Zi Zhi, and great chaos broke out in Yan. In the name of pacifying Yan's internal turmoil, Qi invaded Yan and Yan was almost destroyed. Later, the army and people of Yan made Prince Ping the king of the country and rose up to drive out the Qi army.

Prince Ping took the throne as King Zhao of Yan. He was determined to make Yan strong, and was looking for someone to rule the country, but he could not find anyone suitable. Someone reminded him that Guo Kui (郭隗), an old minister, was very insightful, so he might as well go to him for a discussion.

King Zhao of Yan personally visited Guo Kui, and said to him, "Qi invaded us while our country was in turmoil, and I can't forget this shame. But now Yan is too weak to take revenge. If there is a wise man to help me avenge this shame, I would rather serve him. Can you recommend such a person?"

Guo Kui stroked his beard, pondered for a while and said, "I can't say anything about recommending a ready-made talent, so allow me to tell a story first." Then he told a story:

In ancient times, there was a king who loved a thousand-mile horse the most. He sent his men to search everywhere, and after three years of searching he could not find one. One of his ministers inquired about a valuable horse somewhere far away, and told the king that if he gave him a thousand taels of gold, he would be able to buy the horse back. The king was very happy, so he sent his minister to buy the horse with a thousand taels of gold. But when the minister arrived, the horse was already sick and died. The minister thought it would be hard to go back with empty hands, so he took out half of the gold he brought and bought the horse's bones back.

The king was furious and said, "I want you to buy a live horse, who asked you to spend money to buy the useless horse bone back?" The courtier said unhurriedly, "People have heard that you are willing to spend money to buy a dead horse, and they are still afraid that no one will send up a live horse?"

The king was skeptical and stopped blaming the minister. When this message spread, everyone thought that the king really loved and cherished the thousand-mile horse. Within a year, several thousands of horses were sent from all directions.

Guo Kui finished the story and said, "The great king must solicit wise men, so he might as well try me as a horse bone."

King Zhao of Yan was so inspired by this story that when he returned, he immediately sent someone to build a very fine house for Guo Kui to live in, and he also worshiped Guo Kui as his teacher. The most famous of them was a man from Zhao State, who had been invited by the king of Yan to meet with him. The most famous one was Le Yi from Zhao. King Zhao of Yan made Le Yi a minister, and asked him to organize the state government and train the soldiers, and the state of Yan became stronger day by day.

At this time, King Zhao of Yan saw that King Min of Qi was arrogant and unpopular, so he said to Le Yi: "Now that the King of Qi has no justice, it's the right time for us to get rid of the shame, and I'm going to mobilize all the people in the country to go and fight Qi, what do you think?"

Le Yi said, "Qi is a vast country with a lot of people, I am afraid it is not possible to rely on one country to fight. If you want to attack Qi, you must join forces with other countries."

So King Zhao of Yan sent Le Yi to Zhao to get in touch with King Huiwen of Zhao, and also sent people to contact Han and Wei, and also asked Zhao to contact Qin. These countries are not used to the dominance of Qi, and are willing to send troops with Yan.

In 284 BC, King Zhao of Yan made Le Yi his general, and led the troops of the five kingdoms to kill Qi.

When King Min of Qi heard that the allied forces of the five kingdoms were coming, he panicked, and gathered all the troops to resist the allied forces, and fought a battle on the west side of Jishui River. The king of Qi fled back to Linzi because Le Yi was good at commanding the army of the five kingdoms, and the army of the five kingdoms had a strong morale and defeated the army of Qi.

The generals of Zhao, Han, Qin, and Wei won the battle, and each of them captured a few cities in Qi, and did not want to fight any more. Only Le Yi refused to give up, and he personally led the Yan army and drove straight into the country, all the way down to Linzi, the capital of Qi. King Min of Qi had to go out and was finally killed in Ju City.

King Zhao of Yan thought that Le Yi had made a great achievement, and personally went to the Ji waterfront to labor the army, and rewarded him for his achievements, and appointed Le Yi as the king of Chang .

This is the first time I've read a story about hospitality and etiquette!

A Thousand Miles to Send a Goose Feather

The story of "A Thousand Miles to Send a Goose Feather" happened in the Tang Dynasty.

The story of "A Thousand Miles to Send a Goose Feather" happened in the Tang Dynasty.

While passing by the Shinyang River, the kind-hearted Maung Bo Gao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan spread its wings and flew high into the air. Maung Bo Goh reached out to catch it, but only pulled a few goose feathers. Maung Pao Ko was so anxious that he cried. The attendants advised him, "It's no use crying when the goose has already flown away. Maung Bo Gao thought, can only be so.

When he arrived at Chang'an, Maung Bo Gao paid a visit to Emperor Tang Taizong and offered him a gift. Tang Taizong see is an exquisite satin bag, then people open, a look is a few goose feathers and a small poem. The poem said: "The swan tribute to the Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. The swan lost its treasure in the Shinyang River, and fell to the ground crying and bawling. I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help, but I am sorry to say that I have not been able to give you any help at all. The gift is light, and the goose is sent for thousands of miles." Tang Taizong was puzzled, Maine Bogao then told the original story. Tang Taizong repeatedly said: "rare and precious! It's precious! Thousands of miles to send goose

wool, gift is light, love is heavy!"

This story embodies the valuable virtue of honesty in gift-giving.

Today, people use the phrase "sending goose feathers for a thousand miles" to describe a gift that is thin, but has a very strong sentiment.

Who can help me think of a short story about etiquette?

Ancient etiquette story: Lian Lin Jiahui

Lin Xiangru was a minister of the State of Zhao during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and he was very insightful and talented. He defended the dignity of the state of Zhao in the diplomatic battles of "Returning the jade annulus to Zhao" and "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean by "What do you mean"? Lian Po was so displeased that he said to others: "I, Lian Po, am invincible, invincible, and have made great achievements for the state of Zhao. Lin Xiangru is just talking with a mouth, what's the big deal, instead, he climbed up to my head. Be sure to insult him a little." When Lin Xiangru heard about this, he tried not to meet with Lian Po, and every time he went out, he avoided Lian Po, and sometimes he even pretended to be sick and didn't go to court. Once Lin Xiangru went out and saw Lian Po's carriage coming from afar, he quickly told the driver to go around the small road.

Lin Xiangru's men felt aggrieved by this humble concession, and asked for his resignation. Lin Xiangru insisted on staying and patiently explained to them, "Which do you think is the greatest, General Lian or the King of Qin?" They all said, "Of course, General Lian is not as good as the King of Qin." Lin Xiangru said, "That's right, every general in the world is afraid of the King of Qin, but for the sake of the State of Zhao, I dared to reprimand him at the court of Qin, so how could I be afraid of General Lian instead? I understand your feelings, but have you ever thought that the reason why the mighty Qin doesn't dare to attack Zhao is because Zhao has two people, General Lian and me? If the two tigers fight, they will both lose. I have always given way to General Lian regardless of personal grudges, but it is in the interest of the country." After listening to these words, everyone got angry, and they stopped the idea of resigning and returning to their hometowns, but they respected Lin Xiangru even more.

Later, some people told Lian Po about Lin Xiangru's words, and Lian Po was so touched and ashamed that he felt sorry for his own narrow-mindedness, and resolved to apologize to Lin Xiangru in person. One day, he took off his war robe, bareback carrying thorns, came to Lin Xiangru's mansion, "flopped" kneeling on the ground, old tears, sobbing uncontrollably to Lin Xiangru, said: "I'm a mean and coarse man, shallow knowledge, short temperament, I did not expect you to be so tolerant of me, I really do not have the face to see you, please you! I really have no face to see you, so please beat me with all your strength! I am really ashamed to see you, so please beat me as hard as you can, even if it means beating me to death, I am willing to do so." Seeing this, Lin Xiangru hurriedly picked up Lian Po, and they hugged each other tightly. From then on, they eliminated the barriers between them, strengthened their unity, and worked together to defend the state of Zhao, so that the mighty Qin dared not easily invade the state of Zhao.

A short story of etiquette

China is a world-famous state of etiquette. Civilized etiquette is the moral norms that human beings require people to *** with to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of the society, and it is the reflection of the moral morals and living habits of a country, so citizens should consciously abide by the civilized etiquette.

Speaking of civilized etiquette, let me think of such a thing: a summer holiday, Xiaoming is walking in the street, saw a grandmother with a broken sack is picking up bottles in the trash. He couldn't help feeling: "It's so hot, but this old granny still has to pick up bottles in the smelly garbage can, it's really pitiful, why don't I go and help her to relieve her burden. However, the weather is so hot, I might as well go home early to cool off, why ask for trouble. Xiao Ming was very conflicted and did not know what to do. At this time, he remembered a sentence that his father often taught him: Helping people is a virtue, when others are in trouble you help them, then when you are in trouble others will surely help you! Dad is right, I can't just focus on my personal interests. I should help this old granny! So, Xiaoming took action, he picked up a lot of bottles by the roadside, next to the garbage cans, although many people cast a strange look at him while he was picking them up, and even more people discussed him, saying that he was so small to come out to pick up bottles, so poor. Some people even scolded his parents for letting a small child pick up bottles alone on the street. But Xiao Ming didn't care at all, he felt that he had done the right thing and didn't have to care what others said. After picking up bottles, he gave his hard-earned bottles to the old grandmother. The grandmother said, "Thank you, young man, there are not many young people like you who are willing to help an old woman like me, if everyone is like you, our country will be very strong. If everyone was like you, our country would be very strong. Xiao Ming shyly scratched the back of his head and said: "This is what I should do, isn't it normal for Chinese people to help Chinese people? And it's just a small thing. Well, granny, goodbye"

On the way, Xiao Ming was extra relaxed, probably because he had just done a good deed, which is perhaps the infectious power of civilized etiquette.

"People without manners can't stand, things without manners can't be, the country without manners is not peaceful" this is the true meaning of life.

Ask for a short story about business drinking etiquette

If you are the host, you should first take the lead to raise your glass, say some words, if you are a guest, you should wait for the host to toast and then toast, when the whole scene together to raise their glasses, the cup is lifted to the parallel with the mouth, generally do not have to touch the glass, when 2 people each other when the toast, it is necessary to touch the next, touching the glass remember - - their own cup should be lower than the other side of the mouth, the mouth of the cup should be lower than the other side. -Our own cup should be lower than the other side of the cup, to show respect!

The words can not be more than a toast, you can briefly indicate the state of mind, such as: today is very happy, we can get together, let's have a drink, I first dry as a toast.

When others toast you, you should stand up and look at each other squarely, and when others say blessings or mentality, you should also say blessings to each other at the same time.

Wine can not drink more, but also can not not drink, should first understand their own degree is where, for example, know that they drink to 3 cups of drunkenness, then only drink to 2 ? cups, or drunkenness is very troublesome!

Note: Drinking, one is to have fun, the second is to ease the atmosphere when doing business. The two are interchangeable, and it is useful to be drunk or not when necessary, depending on how twisted your path is later on.

Formal banquet etiquette:

In the formal banquet, the waiter opened the bottle of wine, the first to be on a little bit handed to the host to taste. The host should first drink a small mouthful of careful evaluation, and then taste a mouthful, feel that the wine on the full requirements, and then signal to the waiter, you can give the guests poured wine, pouring wine in the order of: the first guest of honor, followed by other guests, pouring wine, wine cups should be placed on the dining table, the bottle do not touch the mouth of the cup.

People who drink wine before drinking. Should be polite to taste the wine, you can first appreciate the color of the wine, smell the aroma of the wine. Then gently suck - mouth, slowly taste. Do not show their own volume, raise the cup without looking at it, and then drink it, so that the wine down the corner of the mouth downstream. You do not need to show off your elegance by raising your glass with your little finger in the air. It is not advisable to drink and smoke at the same time. In view of the fact that it is easy to lose one's tongue and be rude after drinking, the amount of alcohol consumed at a foreign event should be limited to less than half of one's usual amount, and one should not get carried away by seeing the other party's hospitality or good food and wine. Educated drinkers drink is not to let others hear the sound of their own battle team swallowing, pouring only eighty percent full.

The waiter to pour wine, you do not have to pick up the glass, but do not forget to thank the waiter. If it is the master personally poured wine, you must pick up the glass to thank or even get up and stand or nodded to thank. You can also use the "kowtow," which is a gesture of thanks by tapping the table a few times with your right thumb, forefinger, and middle finger pinched together, fingertips pointed downward. The host himself poured the wine,

To note: all sides, equal treatment; pouring the right amount of wine, white wine and beer can be poured, other wines do not have to pour full. In formal occasions, in addition to the host and waiter, other guests generally do not pour wine to others.