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The rules of eating

Eating rules of upbringing

Eating rules of upbringing, China is a state of etiquette, some of the old ancestors passed down the rules of eating upbringing can not be forgotten and can not be lost, so do you know what are the rules of eating upbringing? The following share the rules of dining upbringing, take a look.

The elders do not go to the table, the younger generation does not fall

"Discipleship rules" said: "or diet, or sit and walk. The elders first, the youngest after."

Chinese dietary rules, pay attention to the order of elders and young people, to elders to respect sincere respect.

To let the elders first seated, facing the door of the seat for the honor, the others in accordance with the size of the generation, the age of the seat next to each other in turn.

Waiting for all the people, food, and then move chopsticks, clip the food when the younger generation should also be polite to the older people first chopsticks, do not eat their own, and can not be bored to leave the table.

Neither shaking legs, nor shrugging shoulders

Sitting with a sitting face, eating should also have a eating face.

Eating is a person's character, don't sit down and then shake your legs and shrug your shoulders.

Not to mention the old saying, "Trees shake the leaves, people shake the blessing of thin, shaking legs and shrugging shoulders mold three generations."

The general public will be disgusted to see this, not to mention shaking their legs and shrugging their shoulders while eating.

Therefore, eating sitting posture must be upright, elegant demeanor, take into account the feelings of others, in order to give themselves points, for their own Nafu.

Hand to hold the bowl to mouth on the food

As the saying goes: "hand not hold the bowl poor a life".

When eating, one hand holds the bowl and the other hand holds the chopsticks, which is a rule left by our ancestors.

The hand to hold the bowl, not only to eat up convenient, but also to the food of the treasure and the respect of the people at the table.

And, what to eat, what to take to the mouth to eat, to mouth on the food, can not put the mouth up to eat.

Otherwise, in the eyes of others not only eat ugly, but also very greedy inside.

Do not clip the river dish, do not knock the plate bowl

No rules are not round, clip food is the same.

Clip the food in front of you, not across the center of the dish, to clip the other side of the dish.

This is the most basic courtesy of eating, if the plate full of扒拉乱翻乱夹, that is not educated.

The knocking plate, the old saying that this is to criticize the cook to do is not good, knocking the bowl, the old saying called "beggars want rice".

So, knocking plates and bowls are not allowed, because it is unruly and unintelligent, and will only make people laugh.

Chopsticks do not stand inserted, the wine does not reverse

There is a custom in folklore, the death of someone in the family, will be placed in front of the spirit of a bowl of "upside down rice", the rice will be cross-plugged with a pair of chopsticks, to show that the deceased's tribute.

So the rice bowl inserted chopsticks is a very taboo thing, the old man at home will be very mindful of, after all, unlucky.

The reason why wine is not poured backward is because tea and wine are only poured backward during traditional ancestor worship.

It would be quite rude to pour this way for a guest, and the other person would be very uncomfortable.

Say "add rice", not "ask for rice"

As the saying goes, "The size of the speech is the size of the person."

This is a very important part of the story.

The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

The same is true at the dinner table, where others have finished their meals and want to give each other more rice, so you can't just ask, "Do you want more rice?"

We can say, "Do you want more rice?"

Because "ask for rice" sounds like you're calling someone a beggar, saying "add rice" is less ambiguous and more respectful.

Ju Feng Jun said:

China is a state of etiquette, the rules passed down from the ancestors, can not be forgotten, can not be lost.

Just like the various rules of eating, seemingly minor details, in fact, contains a profound human experience.

Eating rules, is the cultivation, but also the family style.

During the New Year, it is more important to know the rules, abide by the rules, and be courteous!

Before eating, we can't sit down in advance, we have to wait for the elders to sit down before we can sit down, and the sitting position has its own rules and regulations, there are the upper position, the lower position, and the two sides of the position, the upper position is the position of the elders sitting, we try to do the two sides of the position.

When you eat, you can't pick up the bowl and walk around to eat, you have to sit on the table to eat, hold the bowl with your left hand, hold the chopsticks on your right hand, if you are left-handed, you have to eat with your mouth close to the bowl, and you are not allowed to drop the rice on the ground or on the table.

Do not talk loudly, do not talk to each other, as little as possible. After eating, do not force the chopsticks and bowls to the table a throw, to gently put the chopsticks and bowls neatly on the table.

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1, wash your hands before meals, wash your hands do not feel free to fling your hands, the water will be flung to others, it is very impolite.

2, to wait for the elders to sit down first, the elders can sit down, the elders first move chopsticks, the elders can move chopsticks.

3, sitting, sitting, don't move, don't like the ass like teeth, keep shaking, annoying people.

4, others to help pour water, do not look dry, to use the hand to help, to show politeness.

5, to others, handing water, handing rice, be sure to hand in both hands.

6, if you are not hungry, try to eat in small bites, do not gobble, gulp and stuff food into the mouth.

7, when eating, can not pick dishes, clip which is which, clip to their own do not like to eat, can not put back to the plate, clip up, either eat, or put in their own bowls, can not like to eat the dishes to their own side of the pull.

8, to other people to clip the food, to use public chopsticks, can not use their own chopsticks to eat.

9, when eating, do not move too much, so as not to affect the people next to you.

10, eat without barfing, drink soup without making a lot of noise.

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