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Famous Stories of Civilized Manners

Society has always been advocating civilization and politeness, however, there are still many uncivilized people and phenomena today. From ancient times to the present there are also some very civilized people, so we will read together ta their stories, and as a reminder of their own to be a civilized person!

A. Zengzi avoided the seat

? Zeng Zi avoiding the seat? From the Classic of Filial Piety, a very famous story. Zeng Zi was a disciple of Confucius, and once he sat beside Confucius, who asked him: ? The sage kings of the past had supreme virtues and subtle theories that they used to teach the people of the world, so that people could live in harmony and there was no dissatisfaction between the king and his subjects, do you know what they were? Hearing this, Zeng Zi understood that his teacher Confucius was trying to instruct him in the most profound truths, so he immediately got up from the mat on which he was sitting, walked outside of it, and respectfully replied: ? I am not clever enough, where can I know, but please teach me these truths from my teacher.?

Here, ? avoiding the seat? is a very polite behavior. When Zeng Zi heard that his teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and walked outside the mat to ask the teacher for advice, in order to show his respect to the teacher. The story of Zeng Zi's understanding of politeness was recited by later generations and many people learned from him.

Second, Chengmen Lixue

Yang Shi (1053~1135) was a very talented scholar during the Northern Song Dynasty, and was a native of Jiangle, South Jianzhou (now part of Fujian). After he was awarded a bachelor's degree, he gave up being an official and continued his studies.

Cheng Hao (1032~1085), Cheng Yi (1033~1107) brothers were then very prestigious great scholars, philosophers, pedagogies, Luoyang people, the same is the founder of the Northern Song Dynasty science. Their doctrines were inherited by Zhu Xi of the Southern Song Dynasty, and were known as the Cheng-Zhu school. Yang admired the two Cheng's learning, defected to the Luoyang Cheng Hao's door, to study under the master, 4 years after the death of Cheng Hao, and continue to pay tribute to Cheng Yi as a teacher. At this time, he was already 40 years old, but still honors the teacher as before, study hard.

One day, the snow, cold, Yang encountered difficult problems, they braved the bitter . Cold wind, about classmates you editing (1053 ~ 1123 years) together to the teacher's home to seek advice. When he came to the teacher's home, see the teacher is sitting on the chair asleep, he could not bear to disturb, afraid of affecting the teacher rest, so quietly wait outside the door. When the teacher woke up with a start, the snow was already a foot deep under their feet, and their bodies were covered with snow. The teacher invited Yang Shi and the other two into the house and lectured for them. Later, ? Cheng Men Li Xue? became a popular example of respect for teachers.

Three, Kong Rong let the pear

Kong Rong has five older brothers and a little brother.

One day, the family ate pears. A plate of pears in front of everyone, the older brother let the younger brother take first. Guess what kind of pear Kong Rong took? He didn't pick the good ones, didn't pick the big ones, just took the smallest one. Dad saw, heart is very happy: do not look at this child is only four years old, but also really understand. Then he deliberately asked Kong Rong: "I have so many pears, but I let you take the smallest one. So many pears, and let you take first, why don't you take the big one, only take the smallest one? Kong Rong replied: "I am young, I should take the smallest pear. I am young, I should take the smallest; the big one is left for my brother to eat. His father asked him again: "You have a younger brother. You also have a younger brother miles, brother is not even smaller than you?

Kong Rong said:?

Kong Rong said: "I'm older than my brother, I'm the older brother, I should leave the big one for my brother to eat.

You see, Kong Rong spoke very well. His father listened and laughed: ? Good boy, good boy, what a good boy.?

Kong Rong was four years old and knew to let the pear. He was a good boy, but he was not a good boy. Everyone praised him.

Fourth, the Prime Minister apologized

Hawke was inaugurated as Prime Minister of Australia, once in a shopping mall with an old man on the issue of superannuation disputes. In a moment of impulse, Hawke scolded the old man: ? The old man took him to court. The old man took him to court. Hawke held a press conference and publicly apologized to the old man for his uncivilized language. He said: ? I was very annoyed that day, but that doesn't excuse me from using that kind of language. If I did hurt him, I am willing to apologize to the gentleman for it, and I sincerely beg your indulgence for my incivility.?

Fifth, Lenin gave way

Once, Lenin went downstairs, in the narrow aisle of the staircase, and ran into a woman worker carrying a basin of water up the stairs. The woman looked at Lenin, and was about to give way to Lenin, ready to go back on his own. Lenin stopped her and said: ? There's no need for that, you're halfway up the stairs carrying something, and I'm empty-handed now, so please go through first!"? He put? Please? word loudly and kindly. Then he pressed himself against the wall and let the workwoman go up the stairs before he went down. Lenin was undoubtedly a great man, but he was not impolite because of the nobility of his position, which showed his great qualities even more.

VI.? The first is that the man was a great man, and he was a great man, and he was a great man. Abraham Lincoln

Once, U.S. President Abraham Lincoln and his son Robert drove down the street, encountered a column of troops in the street through. Lincoln casually asked a passerby: ? What is this? Lincoln was going to ask which state's regiment it was, but didn't make it clear. The man thought he didn't recognize the army and replied rudely: ? It's the Union army, you're a big fucking idiot.? Lincoln, faced with a rebuke from a common passerby, simply said ? Thank you? , without anger.

Seven, the origin of the aggrieved award

Shanghai bus 22 bus conductor Ke Liping, once won a very special award aggrieved award ? One day, a young man to buy a ticket, deliberately spit a mouthful of spit in a Wu Jiao bills, and threw on the floor of the carriage. The other passengers, while accusing the young man, quietly watched Ke Liping. She bent down to pick up the bill, wiped off the spit with a napkin, and then politely handed the ticket to the young man. Ke Liping's behavior was praised by the passengers, the young man was ashamed and apologized to Ke Liping. Afterwards, colleagues reported the incident to the fleet, the fleet leader then to Ke Liping special award? Aggrieved Award?

Eight, respect for respect

In the North and South Dynasties period of Qi, there is a person called Lu Xiaohui, he is talented, knowledgeable, and more respectful and gracious. He had worked as a chief historian under several kings, and could be considered a high and mighty man, yet he never thought highly of himself, and the officials who came to see him, no matter how big or small they were, he treated them with courtesy and didn't pose as a driver at all. If the guests leave, he will even get up and personally send each other to the door.

One of his staff saw this scene and was hard to understand, so he said to him: ? Lu Changshi official in a high position, no matter to whom, even to the common people are polite and courteous, this is really degrading, more nothing can be gained, why would Changshi be so troublesome? Lu Xiaohui listened to the unimpressed relaxed smile, said: ? If you want to take it first, you must first be with it. I want all people to respect me, then I must respect all people.?

Lu Xiaohui has practiced this guideline all his life, so he has gained the respect and support of very many people, and his political achievements have far exceeded those of others.

Nine, the model of civilized manners

Mr. Sun Yat-sen is the forerunner of the Chinese bourgeois revolution, and a model of civilized manners. He believes that: spitting, long fingernails, do not brush your teeth and other habits, are a violation of civilized manners, is not compatible with the civilized tradition of our Chinese people. He advocated? Sincerity and loyalty outside the shape? and pay attention to? The smallness of every move? The civilization.

Tenth, respect for teachers

A spring rainy day, the cartoon? The first is to make a new one, and the second one is to make a new one. The author of the cartoon, Zhang Le Ping, held an umbrella in one hand and carried a cake in the other to visit his elementary school teacher Lu Yinsheng, whom he hadn't seen for more than 50 years. Lu Yinsheng had given Zhang Leping a topic and instructed him to draw political satire, which was the beginning of Zhang's cartoon study. Although it has been more than 50 years since then, Zhang Leping still remembers it very well. 80-year-old Mr. Lu sized up Zhang Leping and asked: "Who are you? Who are you? Who are you looking for? Zhang Le Ping said: "I am Zhang Ping. I am Zhang Ping, now called Zhang Le Ping. Mr. Lu was very excited: ? It's rare that you still think of me after all these decades, it's really not easy! Mr. Lu was very excited: "It's not easy for you to still think of me after all these decades, it's really not easy! My first cartoon is you taught me to draw, I have never forgotten you!