"Several reasons why Dink insists on not having children"

Among China's "DINKs", the generation born after the 1980s occupies most of the country. The spoiled generation will extend their stubbornness from the inside out, and they are quite likely to extend it into old age.

We have to admit that in the next 10 years, those born in the 1980s will be the main force in society, with a special status and sense of superiority.

With the increasingly non-mainstream view of love, those born in the 1980s are much calmer than their predecessors when it comes to issues such as the continuation of incense. You cannot refute "career first" in one round.

The forward-thinking men and women born in the 1980s like the romantic world of two people and do not want another life to disturb them.

No matter how much pressure there is at home, they still go their own way.

"My belly grows on me, so what does it matter to you whether I have children or not?" Here, the author shares the top ten reasons why a "DINK girl" born in the 1980s insisted on not having children.

If you don't hear it, weigh it first.

First, I have a childish heart.

How can I have children?

It is said that those born in the 1980s are a spoiled generation.

Whether you like it or not, those born in the 1980s really suffered a little and grew up in a honeypot.

At home, parents pamper you; at school, boyfriend and girlfriend love each other.

They have not yet fully adapted to the role of adults, cannot immediately assume family responsibilities, and have not even gotten rid of the constraints of childhood and long for the care of others.

In this state, it is really a sin to dare to have a child.

Second, the preservation of love does not require a third party.

In the eyes of girls born in the 1980s, it is perfect.

Love only belongs to two people, and this concept has also developed into modern "romantic" marriage.

They long for romance, like candlelight dinners and rose and diamond rings, and don't like to be disturbed by a third party.

If you had a candlelight dinner with your husband with a baby in your arms, would you still be in a romantic mood?

Third, I don’t want to be bound by children.

I longed to live my own life and have my own time outside of work.

Shopping, doing yoga, watching movies, and dancing with my best friends.

If you have children, all this will be a thing of the past and you will never belong to yourself again.

Fourth, the process of pregnancy is painful.

They say that a woman is complete when she becomes a mother, but ten months of hard work is not enough for everyone.

Happiness lasts a lifetime, but pain is also unforgettable.

When the knife cuts across your abdomen, you feel like you are experiencing death.

Fifth, in order not to lose shape.

Girls born in the 1980s love beauty to an astonishing degree, and every one of them aspires to become a "fashionista".

With a perfect body, I envy those Obasans who are mothers.

Although you can lose weight after giving birth, it is still difficult to regain your pre-pregnancy body shape.

Nature is the most beautiful.

For the sake of natural beauty, it is worth not having children.

6. Work pressure is high and it is difficult to take care of family and career.

Today, college graduates are no longer a sought-after commodity.

Finding a job is difficult, but finding a good job with sincerity is even harder.

Even if you start your own business, it is not easy to achieve success.

The "DINK girls" born in the 1980s faced such great work pressure and were unwilling to be housewives, so they resolutely chose career as their priority.

7. Children’s education has a long way to go.

For those born in the 1980s who have witnessed parents sending their children to school, they obviously know the difficulties involved.

Especially now, education starts at an early age.

Which one is free of charge, the best kindergarten, the best primary school, the best middle school, the best university?

Can those born in the 1980s who have never suffered much take on this responsibility for the time being?

If the child's future is really delayed because of inability to do anything, lifelong regret can really crush people.