How to cultivate children's correct values

Cultivating children's correct values in life is crucial for them to become adults and serve the society and the country. The state, society, school and family all have a responsibility to cultivate children's correct values in life. Parents, in particular, have a particularly important responsibility to set an example by themselves, to educate them in effective ways and means, and to communicate with them in depth to guide them to establish a correct view of right and wrong, to strengthen their ideological and moral cultivation, and to adhere to their moral integrity, so as to correct their life's path.

One, parents should take the lead, strengthen their own cultivation

"Iron is still hard". It is hard to imagine that parents with distorted values and low moral standards can educate a child with a correct outlook on life and noble sentiments. Therefore, to cultivate children to form a correct outlook on life, parents must first have a correct outlook on life themselves.

Everyone has his or her own view of the world and of life, and not everyone's view of life is correct. Parents also need to strengthen their own cultivation, so that their own outlook on life is perfected day by day. A correct outlook on life has rich connotations, mainly including advocating service to the people, selfless dedication, being kind to others, helping others, solidarity, love and mutual assistance, the spirit of collectivism, the spirit of patriotism, love of country, a sense of responsibility, and the courage to take responsibility. Parents should use the above connotations as standards to standardize their own thinking, and strive to be good parents in the spiritual world as well as in reality. Only in this way can we build a good image in the hearts of our children, generate positive energy for the cultivation of the values of life, make a correct example of how to live in the world, so that our children will be infected by the subtle correctness of their parents; only in this way can we be qualified to talk about the construction of the worldview and life view with our children; and only in this way can we have the ability to guide our children in the right direction.

Second, parents should take the responsibility to try to teach their children

If the parents' own worldview and values of life are very correct, they are also a noble person, but if they do not educate their children, the children may not be able to have the same correct values of life as their parents. In real life, there are many socially recognized great people, good people, their children not only did not inherit the greatness, but on the contrary, they went to the opposite side, made a big mistake or even a big crime. These facts have proved that to be a good person and not to educate one's children does not necessarily guarantee that the children will also be good. Similarly, if parents have the right values in life and if they do not educate their children, the children may not necessarily have the same right values in life as their parents. Therefore, parents must attach great importance to the education and guidance of their children. Parents should first of all realize that although schools are specialized in educating children, mainly teaching them professional knowledge, and are also responsible for guiding them to cultivate correct life values and good moral character, parents are the first responsible for the formation and development of their children's outlook on life. Parents must be highly responsible attitude, take up the responsibility of guidance and education. Parents should do a good job of guiding their children's education. One is to give the child the meaning of life. Tell the child that human life is very short, to cherish. Tell children why live, why study, explain the dialectical relationship between contribution and demand, will live to benefit mankind in favor of society in favor of the country, work to seek a high standard, life to take a low demand, only to make a contribution to society will be recognized and respected, to study for the rise of the nation and the country, to integrate the future of the individual into the future of the motherland in the future of the fate of the consideration of the direction of their own development, to do the country and society, and so on. We need to instill in our children the idea of being useful to our country and society. In particular, we should tell our children: the meaning of life does not lie in what position, what position, how much wealth, but in how much work for the community for mankind, how much talent to contribute; ordinary positions can also create glorious greatness; the ability to have a big or small, but as long as they work hard, no matter how much they achieve, they can have a clear conscience. Secondly, we should help children to establish a correct concept of right and wrong. Teach children the concepts of right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, truth and falsehood, and choose subjects from historical allusions, daily life, social phenomena, newspapers and books, film and television networks at any time, explaining which are correct, neutral, positive and upward, and which are wrong, negative, ugly and spiteful, and gradually help children have the ability to judge right and wrong. Thirdly, we should teach children the truth about how to behave correctly in the world. The excellent character of the Chinese nation and the world's recognized excellent human nature to the children to promote, encourage children to advocate and gradually develop good and abandon evil, more good deeds, unity and friendship, mutual respect and mutual assistance, hard work and courage, the courage to forge ahead and other positive spiritual qualities. Fourth, the combination of real life to the children's indoctrination. From the ancient "loyalty to the country", "Kong Rong let the pear", "cheap people do not know contempt of food", "give up their lives for righteousness" and other stories Tap into the nutrients and savor the traditional Chinese virtues with your children. With Liu Hulan, Huang Jiguang, Lei Feng, Yang Qian Xuesen and other heroes of heroic deeds, inspire children in the sense of the initiative to learn heroes into action. With the social popularity of Guo Meimei, room sister event, the most beautiful teacher Zhang Lili and other hot events as the subject matter, *** with the analysis of the truth, goodness and beauty of which, in the process of attacking the ugly together, praising the beautiful so that the child to get the soul washing and inner sublimation.

Three, parents should strengthen the study, improve education methods

Parents in the process of education and training of children, often encountered especially want to educate the child, they also pay a lot of effort, but the educational effect is often not too ideal. Sometimes there are children but accept little or no acceptance or even against the situation. It is necessary for parents to understand that parents and children, after all, is not a generation, thinking and acting on the objective existence of the generation gap, we must continue to learn, to take efficient communication methods, so that the child to accept the lesson convinced, to accept the education is willing to listen to, listen to, consume to melt, and effectively achieve twice the result with half the effort of the educational effect. First of all, parents need to understand the child's life growth characteristics of the law, especially to understand the child from children to teenagers in this period of time for the performance of the rebellious mentality of the various factors affecting the factors and ways to channel, and then according to the specific circumstances of the assiduous teaching; to learn more from the books, newspapers, magazines and magazines, the network of related articles, a better grasp of education and training of children approach to more exchange of experience with other children's parents to learn from each other, learn from their good experience and good practices. We should exchange experiences with other parents, learn from each other, and learn from their good experiences and good practices. Secondly, parents in a sense to lower the identity, to treat children as equals, not only as parents of children, but also as children's teachers, friends, and even willing to do children's students in some of the children's areas of expertise. Only in this way can better open the child's heart, faster and better into the child's heart, to obtain the child's trust, and promote the child in accordance with the parents to provide the correct path forward. Secondly, it is necessary to use a variety of ways to cultivate and educate the child. You can talk to your children more, you can study and discuss the material with your children, you can discuss the content of reading newspapers and watching TV together, you can take advantage of the activities carried out by the state to strengthen the children's education, such as the concept of honor and shame, socialist moral education, you can go out and travel together in the process of contact with the community to exchange views and opinions on what they have seen and heard.

Through a variety of ways and means, the child is more likely to accept the correct values of life guidance, so as to enhance the effect of high education and training.