What does Chinese socializing look like?

Since ancient times, China has been a society of people.

Some people say that all people are snobbish, but some people show it, while others are very secretive.

Socio-economic development to today, "profit" can be money, can be status, can be beauty, power, talent ...... only need to be people competing for, can be turned into "profit! The "profit" can be money, status, beauty, power, and talent. These people who pursue "profit" are snobs. Snobbery itself is nothing wrong, and will not cause any damage to people.

But in reality, some people will be due to other people's wealth, status to determine their own attitudes - rich and powerful, on the flattery; nothing, on the arrogant. Learning to socialize is an important discipline, not to mention a technical task. No matter how smart they are, how capable they are, how well-equipped they are, if they don't know exactly how to handle things and get along, the end result is usually failure.

Whether it's in government, the workplace, or just plain old life, there's no escaping human interaction when there are people around.

Births, weddings and funerals, promotions and raises, there are always people feasting and drinking and socializing in our normal lives just like the usual New Year's celebrations, relatives and friends visiting each other, old classmates meeting up at company dinners, and many more places to meet up and drink and socialize.

In addition, there are social gatherings everywhere; drinking tables, card tables, recreational and entertainment clubs. Friends, rivals, and strangers are booing, saying cheeky things, and always ready to socialize.

On daily business trips, overseas receptions, business banquets and trade negotiations, good operators usually get better promotions and gracious access to their own personal interests.

Whether it's official receptions, meetings and conferences, layers of gatekeepers, welcome and farewell receptions, and successive meals, if properly planned, interrelationships at all levels will be cordial and contacts will be smoother. In front of the media, which is a matter of personal image and honor, one should be more tactful and methodical, courteous and well-researched.

People often say, IQ should not be too high, you can learn something; ability should not be too strong, do a good job on the line, but interpersonal skills can not be too bad. Those who can get along, their big difficulties will be solved; those who can't get along, there will be small problems for you to worry about.

Interpersonal communication in China is characterized by a unique culture and art, and the key words are relationships, eating, face and social circle. Everything revolves around the Chinese people, 80% of things are decided by the people, if you don't understand the style of the Chinese people, you will fall. The best place for Chinese people to get things done is at dinner, after a drink, everything is said and done.

Chinese people love face, face represents personality and dignity, sometimes face is even higher than everything, so you have to find ways to keep face and improve it

In China, work is based on a network of relationships, and the social circle is a network of relationships. Chinese people spend their lives delving into the social circle, searching for it, creating it, and jumping over it. The Chinese way of getting along is profoundly academic, subtle and complex, related to human nature, psychological state, culture and art, traditional meanings, customs, perspectives and social precepts, etc. It must be carefully scrutinized and constantly updated. It must be carefully scrutinized, constantly accumulated and regularly trained.

As the saying goes, "A meal is a matter of the past, and the loss of an inch of lip know." Eating this matter, two people into a bureau, three people have become a jianghu. A small table, is a true reflection of the world.

Wise people, will be in the socialization of other people's character high and low - close to the gentleman, the future development trend of their own will be more and more smooth; wrongly look at the treacherous villain, will one day be treacherous villain's trap, all around the heel.

As the saying goes, "Learn to socialize well, half a life without worry." The interaction between people is inevitable, even if you do not need to work for others to earn money, even if you hate to socialize, you have to socialize

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