Whose fault is depression after marriage? Must see before marriage.

Whose fault is depression after marriage? Must see before marriage.

Depression is not a person's business, everyone around you will be infected by it, which will make you feel bored, but it will not disappear. Some studies have pointed out that female depression is mostly related to family relationships, especially intimate relationships; However, men's depression is often related to work, which may be the result of traditional culture in which men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside.

Many husbands are happy to give their depressed wives to experts, as if they have nothing to do with themselves. They don't know that they are the good "specific medicine". Of course, it is not easy to face a sad face, no enthusiasm, and ups and downs. Many wives with depression have husbands who look more like patients than they do.

Husband and wife are tai chi pictures of yin and yang. What happened to one person, how could the other party be spared?

1, the third generation conflict

This is a typical source of depression. Girls in the new era want men to focus on their own world, but most men can't live without their original families. The so-called dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually for this man.

Interestingly, sometimes the characters of the previous generation no longer exist, but the contradiction between husband and wife continues. Men think women are unreasonable, but women can never forgive men for not taking their side in front of others (especially in front of men's mothers).

Many lasting intimate conflicts can be traced back to the problems dealt with by the previous generation. It happened that in this tense moment, many men think it is necessary to remain neutral! The man is very upset and doesn't understand why no one understands his pains. He doesn't know that love is unfair, and his wife thinks she is extremely spoiled, otherwise she can't stop.

2. The discord between husband and wife

In fact, whether dealing with the problems of the previous generation or the next generation, it reflects how harmonious the husband and wife are.

John, a famous scholar of marriage studies, believes that there will inevitably be quarrels between husband and wife. As long as one thing is unpleasant, six things are needed to offset the negative effects. The problem is that sometimes some small contradictions will be harmful over time if they are not solved in time. Many couples who have been married for many years often ask them about the beginning and end of their contradictions, which often begin with Pangu.

Contradictions during the honeymoon are often like acupuncture, stabbing at the dead point of marriage.

Giving birth to a child is also a dangerous period. Many wives complain that their families only care about the arrival of their babies, but ignore their mothers' needs. A mother said that when she needed someone to spoil her and love her, her husband said that she was too tired, afraid that she would be upset and send herself and everyone away.

Interestingly, these seemingly amorous husbands are not men who don't care about their families, but they are not careful enough to offend their wives. In fact, they don't really know, but men are afraid that women will find him unlucky, and when they see their wives angry, most of them run away.

Depression is also a third party in the relationship between husband and wife, which is powerful and separated between husband and wife, making them unable to get close. How to drive away this powerful enemy? One of the keys is to turn the other half who makes us sick into a good medicine for pain. When your partner has symptoms of depression, please stand up bravely and be a man.