What happens when you fight on the winter solstice

Winter solstice quarrels can greatly affect the relationship.

The winter solstice is an important festival in the Chinese lunar calendar and a traditional festival of the Chinese nation. On this day, people usually get together, ****enjoy food and feel the warmth of family. However, if an argument occurs on this special day of the winter solstice, it may have a negative impact on the relationship between the two parties.

The winter solstice is a traditional family reunion day. People put down their work on this day and return home to spend the holiday with their families***. If quarrels occur on such a day, it may destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the family and affect the relationship between family members.

Secondly, the winter solstice is a day of good luck. People eat dumplings, soup dumplings and other delicacies on this day to symbolize reunion and beauty. If an argument occurs on such a day, it may bring unpleasant emotions to both parties and affect each other's mood.

Therefore, we should try to maintain a harmonious and pleasant atmosphere on this special day of the winter solstice and avoid quarrels. Both sides can communicate to improve mutual understanding and resolve conflicts. At the same time, we should learn to be tolerant and understanding, and respect each other's opinions and feelings. Only in this way can the two sides of the deeper feelings, **** degree of a warm and beautiful winter solstice festival.

Quarrel notes:

1, keep calm and rational: in the process of quarrelling, the most important thing is to keep calm and rational. It is easy to say hurtful words when you are emotional, which may intensify the conflict and cause irreparable consequences. Therefore, even if the other party's words are heated, try to control your emotions and communicate in a smooth tone to avoid escalating the conflict.

2. Respect each other's point of view: Despite the differences between the two sides, you still need to respect each other's point of view and feelings during the quarrel. Try to understand each other's positions and reasons, do not easily deny or ridicule each other's ideas. Through listening and understanding, it is possible to find **** the same point or a compromise program to resolve the dispute.

3, avoid personal attacks: the argument should focus on the issue itself, rather than personal attacks on the other party. Avoid the use of insulting language or reveal people's shortcomings, which will only hurt each other's self-esteem and further intensify the conflict. To clearly express their own dissatisfaction and demands, but pay attention to the wording, to maintain the attitude of the matter.