Why don’t women nowadays want to get married?

1. Marriage and childbirth have a huge impact on women’s workplace. Due to physiological peculiarities, the best age for women to get married and have children is actually the golden period of career advancement. When many companies hire female employees, they will ask when they plan to do so.

Getting married and having children, many women have to lie in order to keep their jobs, even if they want to get married and have children soon.

In real life, many working women must sacrifice certain promotion opportunities or work twice as hard to complete marriage and childbirth before the so-called "marriageable age" of 35. In contrast, men's careers are less likely to be affected.

But it almost doesn’t exist. A 35-year-old man may not necessarily be called a “leftover man”, but he is very likely to be called a “golden bachelor”.

2. Women are easily hurt in relationships. Most girls who have no sense of security are devoted to affection, but if they use too much affection, they are often easily hurt.

If the hurt is too deep, you will gradually no longer dare to accept new feelings easily.

For example, in the latest issue of "My Girl", Kan Qingzi is a typical example.

She spent her most precious youth growing up with a boy, but in the end she said, "I loved the sea, and I loved you too."

Kan Qingzi was filled with happiness before, but now he can clearly see haggard and decadence.

I think someone should be able to understand this feeling - I spent my whole youth on you, you were in my eyes and in my heart, and I had nothing but you, but in the end you told me that it was good to have loved me.

These women who are drowning in pain and unable to extricate themselves will often become a group of people who are afraid of marriage.

In their future lives, every time they encounter love, they will recall the pain they have suffered.

Of course, compared to being suspicious and worried day and night, it seems that choosing to be single is more free and easy.

So they don't want to get married, they only believe in themselves, and they just want to change their destiny through their own efforts.

3. Independent women in the new era cannot accept "macho chauvinism." In the latest issue of "My Girl," Kan Qingzi mentioned her failed emotional experience when chatting with her friends.

In a previous relationship, the boyfriend was a typical "male chauvinist" who could not tolerate the woman's career being more successful than his, and even hoped that the woman would give up her career and stay at home to raise her husband and children.

Kan Qingzi believes that this is not love. People who truly love each other should support each other and make progress together.

In an era of rapid development, we increasingly advocate equality and women’s rights.

Today's women are no longer the little girls who abided by the "three cardinal principles and five constant principles" in the feudal era, and they cannot bear to become housewives who give up their careers to stay at home to raise their husbands and children.

Why can't women have a career?

Women in modern society also have independent lovesickness and their own pursuit of life. If marriage means giving up their own lives, then they would rather give up marriage.