Is it really irreversible to be born in a family and do harm to people?

Being born in a family will really bring unimaginable harm to people, because these injuries are brought from childhood. For some young children, these things will form a deep-rooted influence in their minds. Even if they grow up, this influence will become smaller and smaller, but it will never disappear completely.

For example, the Phoenix man uploaded on the Internet now has a feeling of extreme inferiority and pride, because his family has always instilled this idea in him when he was a child. You are the hope of our family, and you have to live a good life in the big city through your own struggle. And this kind of thinking has given them an influence, that is, providence, a very powerful person, so they will have very high demands on their other half.

It is precisely because of this idea that they will become extremely selfish. They feel that nothing is as important as themselves and their families. Once there is any conflict with their partner, they will choose to give up their partner at the first time and choose to put the interests of themselves and their families first.

Therefore, the influence of family background on a person is lifelong, and this influence may gradually fade with the growth of age. If the people he meets guide him, the influence will not be too great, but once one day he encounters a scene of deja vu, these impressions will reappear in his mind and bring them endless harm.