What's a lady like?

A lady who smiles without showing her teeth walks gracefully.

In all kinds of views on women's topics, "independence, equality, wisdom and exquisiteness" seems to be the aesthetic ideal of all kinds of people. The well-known phrase "My Fair Lady, Gentleman is Good at My Fair Lady" in The Book of Songs just shows that the virtue of a lady is an important content in China traditional culture. Especially when "barbarism and sexual freedom" is used as a new label for women by some people, the temperament and grace of a lady are even more precious. The meaning of a lady's temperament and demeanor is absolutely different from the traditional ethical terms in China. It is the unique feminine charm of women in appearance, speech, manners, thinking and behavior habits under the new historical conditions. ...

A lady should be an emotional woman like Daiyu. In front of the beloved man, he retains the softest and most untouchable pain in his heart, a kind and affectionate heart, and all women's longing for love.

They are sometimes emotional and sometimes shy; Sometimes gentle as water, sometimes innocent and lovely; Sometimes funny, but also exudes the pure atmosphere of a girl.

Of course, I will be sad because of loneliness, and I will cry because I am moved. It is more important to know what is enough, when it will appear, and how to show your beauty.

Show/have good judgment

This is the best expression of gentleness of a lady. Gentle ladies are generally tolerant of people. They are very humble and considerate of others. They like to think of others in everything and never embarrass others.

sympathize with

This is a concentrated expression of a lady's gentleness in dealing with people. For the weak, vulnerable groups, the elderly, children and patients, women should show their due sympathy and try their best to help them.

bear hardships and stand hard work

This is the traditional virtue of oriental women. Especially in family life.

Kindness and honesty

Have a good wish for people and things, and like to care and help others. Pay more attention to your family, especially your children.

Enthusiastic and meticulous

What excites people is not how amazing a lady has done, but more often, it is the careful care and consideration of this lady at the right time and place that can make people feel excited. When we went out together, she got her hands dirty after eating, so she prepared a tissue and handed it to her. The button of the skirt fell off, and she happened to be wearing a needle and thread. She has been careful ... Although it is a trivial matter, it fully reflects the gentleness and charm of a lady in the details.

Soft personality

Never fly into a rage or fly into a rage when something goes wrong. Softness with rigidity is the highest state of a lady. In this state, even tempered steel can be turned into soft fingers by her.

Not weak

Modern women are gentle but never weak. Tenderness is a virtue, a manifestation of inner strength and fullness, while weakness is a shortcoming that needs to be overcome. The two cannot be confused.

In short, gentleness can be reflected in all aspects, and it can also be reflected in all aspects of a lady's life. As a lady, we should cultivate our gentleness through learning, knowing ourselves, knowing the society and personal experience. Gentleness, for a lady, is the best feature in her life and work, which not only helps her to live independently in society, but also makes her charming.

Interviewee: tjg _ only- Scholar Level 3 8-24 19:50

Beautiful and smart

The charm of a lady comes from the appearance and connotation of a beautiful woman. After the baptism of love and the edification of family, they have formed their own unique style, and they care about the expression of beauty and elegance between gestures. With their hands, they tied their colorful lives into a small flower that never withered, elegantly pinned to their chests, and a wisp of fragrance was refreshing.

Perfect ladies know extraordinary temperament, and the calmness and dignity in a smile are unique to them. They are gentle and obedient in front of their husbands, loyal and virtuous in front of their in-laws, and have a strong maternal love in front of their only children ... Ladies show an invisible charm everywhere and capture people's hearts invisibly.

The beauty of a perfect lady contains deep charm, not just appearance and posture. Their young and still hearts slowly refine tranquility in the hustle and bustle of urban flow, and their extraordinary temperament has its own extraordinary tempering. Just like the Mona Lisa written by Leonardo da Vinci, the brow is naturally quiet and elegant. At the same time, they are also full of vitality in a static state, as quiet as a virgin and as moving as a jade rabbit.

The perfect lady should consider all aspects of life, hold up half the sky in the workplace and be a gentle wife at home. They interpret the perfect charm of women with their inner life experience.

The perfect lady has rich connotations. They are not only an elegant painting, but also an intriguing and tireless book. They read Thunderstorm with an indifferent attitude and saw all kinds of colors. They face the indifference of the world and the warmth of human feelings with rational thoughts. They endured the vicissitudes of life with strong will.

Maybe they will experience misfortune, but they will still face life with a smile until they live with their heads down in front of her calmness.

Perfect ladies, indifferent and gently controlling the rhythm of life, charm attached to their spirit, colorless, tasteless, unpredictable.

Perhaps it is a kind of "qi"-feminine; Perhaps it is a kind of "feeling"-synaesthesia of feminine temperament. It can be hidden or leaked. The beauty of a woman can only be achieved by hiding and showing it.

Qingdiao clothing

Not sexy, but emotional. I don't pursue taste and style, but I am fascinated by the charm of women.

They also wear glass silk stockings, but in their view, black fishnet stockings is too sexy and ostentatious; They prefer to choose flesh-colored or lotus-colored stockings, which can make her leg repair more attractive and the amorous feelings on her legs more implicit and convergent.

Charming perfume

They don't use expensive perfume, let alone too strong and exciting fragrance. They want to exist in a mild fragrance, which is charming enough to attract others' attention and make people feel different.

Charming figure

This is the masterpiece of the creator, the magical butterfly shadow. However, it is not the sexy of artificial breasts, hips and bee waist, but the magic of slender figure and "bone feeling".

The body language of a lady does not imply debauchery, but just grasps the charm of a woman properly. Even if you don't move or shake, you are still full of spring scenery and read like a romantic poem.

A Little Bit of Heaven

Angel's smile is bright, naive and brilliant. They laugh like the Mona Lisa. I won't laugh obscenity, and I won't laugh wildly. I will laugh a little reserved and tempting.

Magnetic sound

Full of magnetism, nice. But its sound is enough to make people daydream. Even if it is embarrassing, it doesn't make people feel coquettish; Moderate touching won't make people bored.

Natural form

Ladies believe that amorous feelings are innate and need talent to show them. Playing coquetry will only be a poor performance. Amorous feelings need to be revealed naturally. In the process of modulating customs, because in our nature, they will always be talented bartenders with good color and fragrance, and will not fail or be out of place.

Reflect self-cultivation

Ladies believe that self-cultivation and nature are two wings of a bird, and only by spreading their wings can they fly in a world full of amorous feelings. You can't do anything without nature, and you can't have nature without understanding. Half of understanding comes from self-cultivation, and getting it requires cultivating knowledge and personality. Really understand the essence of women's amorous feelings, make it well organized and properly collected. Release the beauty of a woman's life, don't be possessed, and don't degrade yourself to show off.

The perfect lady can play all kinds of roles. Every identity can correspond to the concentration of charm. When she becomes a lover, she can have a style stone; When she becomes a wife, she has the feelings of a wife; As a mother, her charm is more mature and more maternal; When she experienced too many vicissitudes, the charm became mellow, thick and full of texture. This is a four-season scenery with lady charm.

From the charm of a woman, we can see a kind of cultural accomplishment, which is pleasing to the eye; The root of a lady's charm will flourish only if it is deeply rooted in the fertile soil of culture; When charm becomes a natural temperament, this lady must appear mature. Gentleness is like a well. It is not clear at a glance, but it leaves people with endless imagination.

Considerate

People generally have a kind of psychology, and they have a sincere gratitude and love for those who are considerate of their words and deeds. A warm word, like a spring breeze, warms the hearts of others and reflects the kindness of women. If a lady gives full play to her considerate advantage, it will be easy for her to gain the favor of others.

Sincere and confident

Treat people sincerely and honestly, and don't lie or pretend to be forced. At the same time, you are full of confidence in yourself and full of youthful vitality, in order to win appreciation and affirmation.

quick response

Since it is not suitable to be angry and aggressive, exercise yourself to have the ability to think quickly and react quickly. Where can such a clever, witty and clever lady be unpopular?

Euphemism and hint

The subtle euphemism of a lady is often full of subtle hints, which sounds like an inexhaustible beauty.

ainsi solient-elles

Professional women don't have to be strong. At the right time, they will expose their weakness to their husbands, lovers or close friends, giving them a chance to show their masculinity. This is undoubtedly a strategy to give full play to women's true colors.

Elegant taste

A lady's words should be like clear springs in the mountains and white clouds in the air, elegant and pure, with lingering sound. Never use foul language, it's vulgar. It should not be short-lived and vulgar. What's wrong with being an intellectual woman and wrapping a beautiful coat for a boring life?

Ten taboos for girls

First, the clothes are untidy and sloppy.

Few girls are willing to associate with beggars. Boys may not be handsome, but they must be stylish!

Second, stingy.

A boy who often asks girls to pay the bill is doomed to be abandoned.

Third, too honest.

Kindness is right, but it is difficult to pick up girls. Almost all experts are liars. The so-called sweet words and vows of eternal love are only a small part of lying knowledge. Women don't like the result of being cheated, but they will be intoxicated in the process of cheating. As for how long this deception will last, it's up to you.

Fourth, ice.

Try to avoid silence. It's embarrassing for two people to have nothing to say. In fact, you can say some humorous words from time to time. You know, girls rarely take the initiative in this respect, but as long as you start talking, the relationship between two people will have a qualitative leap.

Five, eager to succeed

This is a common problem of many people. In order to attract each other and try to show your advantages, remember not to turn over all your cards. Just like playing a game, everything is thoroughly studied, and even you know where the next monster is. Is this game still attractive to you? So what is attractive is the process of continuous research and discovery.

Sixth, strive for strength and competitiveness.

When you know you can't do it, you must try to be brave. It is the stupidest behavior to expose your weaknesses on your own initiative. Women are good at comparison. By the time you compare yourself, there are other men around her.

Seven, pockets.

No matter what is too easy to get, it is often not cherished. If you listen to your command, you will always be her servant in her eyes, but you can't be her man.

Eight, personal pressure

Don't chase girls too hard. A little fly will get tired of following you all day, not to mention a person as big as you. How to make her look forward to meeting you is worth studying.

Nine, emotions are easy to express.

There is no need to be indifferent to emotions. People have emotions and secular desires, but you should learn to control your emotions and be calm when encountering things. This is the performance of a mature man. Girls are very particular about their sense of security, and generally don't need little boys who are at a loss when something happens.

10. A woman who seduced her brother? The fox preys farthest from home. This is Jianghu morality, so I won't say more.

(1) Chasing girls who are silent and arrogant.

At first glance, this seems to be tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like boys who are a little wild. If you are the kind of gentle boy, with long differences and little possibility, you'd better choose another beautiful woman. If people say, "That's cool!" Then you hope big! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not miss the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. Don't be discouraged at this time.

Be sure to persist, even if it is repeated. Watching movies, dancing, skating and going to her usual study room are all good strategies. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, Iloveyou will save it for the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive.

This kind of girl usually has to chase for a long time. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start. So as not to waste ... hehe. However, after catching up, she will generally be dead set, and you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest BF in the world! Ha ha.

(2) Girls who pursue romantic fantasies

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! This kind of girl seems to pursue spirit more than material, but in fact it is just the opposite. Romance needs money to build. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates, you can touch her heartstrings most by giving more gifts.

If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Besides the moon in the sky, there are other things on the ground (what? As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it without hesitation. Usually roses and snacks are more subtle ... in short, if you want to chase such girls, you must cultivate your mind-reading ability. Don't forget to bribe the roommates of the girls around you.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you must think more about your dress, and don't be rustic all day. After catching up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because in her eyes, you are no longer rustic. Haha)

If you want to play with her, you should also go to more romantic places, such as spring outing, dancing and watching love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl costs you a lot of money, it will also bring you a lot of wonderful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live happily.

(3) Chasing tender and considerate girls

This kind of girl is dedicated. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be easy to chase (also suitable for all kinds of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a heartfelt concern to appear in front of her when she needs help. (Reminder, you must observe more at ordinary times to find a good opportunity to start. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays.

At first, you can send something friendly, and when you feel you can express it (for example, she looks at you differently from others or seems a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send roses! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in the chat after self-study on weekdays. When the time is right, you will suddenly say something like "It feels good to be with you". If she doesn't hide, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid, don't force her, you can care silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, you will have a goal when she doesn't know you. You can pretend to meet her by chance through friends like her, and then deepen your impression through several "encounters" in the same study room, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and safe to catch up with. Actually, it depends on someone. Some people won't let her leave you in an emergency. If you can't, you should always write and call.

(4) Chasing lively and lovely girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. Moreover, in the new environment, boyfriends are often the first. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to take the initiative. If you like this kind of girl, if she likes you, it will be easy. Get in touch with her more, occasionally show your affection for her, and she will be close to your goal at the same time.

If she doesn't like you (worse, she likes another person), don't lose heart. As long as you still have a chance, you should fight for it (of course, you are just so-so to her, so you don't have to). You can first exist in the form of friendship with her and try to cultivate a hobby similar to her. In the meantime, your humor and openness are very important, so that she can still think of you on her way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she takes the initiative to you.

At this time, you can take obvious strategies to make her really become your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing others' love, you can give them a final blow before they talk to each other. At this time, opportunities are very important.

You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, take advantage of them (it doesn't seem very ... haha) and arrive first. Victory may well belong to you in the end! (Generally, girls won't have other ideas after catching up, haha. ) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after having BF, so you should tell "Please! She belongs to me! " The result should be optimistic.

(5) Chasing hysterical girls

The typical feature of this kind of girl is emotional exposure. She can cry whenever she wants, smile happily, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous. My old friend was surprised that this kind of girl was chased, but I heard that love is often blind. Oldfriend sees the emotional experience of friends around him and understands the meaning of this sentence better. Crazy girls are like wild horses. If you don't think you have enough ability to control them, you don't have to consider chasing them. Choose another one. If you feel good about yourself, you can have a try.

First of all, you should give her the impression that you are awesome (whether he is a T or an F, haha) and make her worship you. You'd better sum up your own specialty before chasing, and design the time of the exhibition so that she can look up to you unconsciously. After a good start, we can launch a full-scale attack. You don't have to be ashamed of your knees at all. Just go out with her a few times more (you can choose a friend who is not handsome or stronger than you, haha) and show her style more, and her heart will slowly move closer to you.