How can we be strict with our own behavior and speech?

China since ancient times is the "State of Manners", civilized, polite, and goodwill towards others is a traditional virtue of our country, Confucius said "the use of etiquette, and for the most valuable", and cautioned that "the gift of words, heavier than jade; injuries to the words, better than a sword. Words are better than swords". It is the main duty of every teacher to cultivate a civilized and polite next generation and to let the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation flourish. A teacher, only with a good mindset, positive, civilized in words and deeds, then when he encounters conflicts and frustrations, he can effectively self-regulate. In a sense, what kind of teacher will have what kind of students, students learn is the teacher's exemplary image. Of course, this may seem a bit harsh for teachers, but if you are engaged in this aspect of the work of teachers, you have to do, otherwise, how to be a role model for students? It is hard to imagine that a teacher who is not very competent in all aspects of his or her work, or who often abuses vocabulary, or who hurts people, can teach an engaging class, or teach in a way that is acceptable to the students. Teachers' strengths or behavioral habits can sometimes influence students for a certain period of time or even for a lifetime, so the exemplary role played by teachers is also an important prerequisite for teachers to complete the work of education and teaching. Teachers should establish a good image of teachers, the role of the role of example to educate people, attract people, and sensitize people, do not let their students grow up to be "you".

Language is the expression of thoughts and feelings of the tool, polite language like a gentle rain, can moisturize people's lungs. Teachers need to teach students to use polite language, but also require students to be consistent, really respect others from the heart. Such as saying "I'm sorry" should be a sincere apology, rather than as a shield to shirk their responsibilities. Another example is to ask for help with a sincere attitude: "Please help me, okay?" And can not say: "Hey, you come to me ......" and as a model for elementary school students of teachers, should pay more attention to the beauty of their language, not only always bear in mind that "the teacher is a mirror in the hearts of students ", but also to use their own words and teach to influence students, the requirements and expectations of students and their own words and deeds organically united, and constantly improve their own moral cultivation, to set an example, to be a teacher of high moral character, worthy of the students of the people's teachers.