What's the difference between the way men and women think?

In the process of getting along, lovers will always quarrel over some trivial matters. Most of these quarrels are because they don't understand each other's behavior. Two people have different views on the same thing. Women may care more about men's attitude on this matter, while men think it is more important to solve problems.

This is the expression of the difference between men and women's thinking modes. In addition to this situation, there are four typical manifestations of the differences between men and women.

First of all, women pay more attention to the process and men pay more attention to the result when they treat the same thing.

When thinking about a thing, a man's habit is the result of paying attention to the development of things. If they need to take action, they often adopt the "problem solving model" to face the focus of the problem and solve the current problem immediately. In the process of thinking, women will pay more attention to the development of things, remember everything from the beginning, and finally sum up the results and reasons of things.

Secondly, men are more rational and women are more emotional, because they think differently about events.

Men are more willing to analyze, reason and judge the whole event with logical thinking and abstract rational thinking, so as to draw a conclusion. Because women's logical thinking ability is relatively weak, they are unwilling to spend time thinking and analyzing, so women are more inclined to perceptual choice and more inclined to perceptual behavior.

In real life, this difference is manifested as follows: novels that burn the brain by reasoning are more popular with men, while men are used to rational events under this logical thinking, while women tend to novels in romantic cities. Love and hate are part of sensibility.

In addition, in the face of controversial events, women treat people and men do things.

In the face of events, women will substitute emotions into people because of their feelings, while men think that when things happen, they should analyze the reasons instead of blaming one person.

My girlfriend quarreled with her best friend, and she came to you to complain and cried and told you that her best friend was not good. After you ask the reason of the matter clearly, analyze it to your girlfriend one by one. First of all, you quarreled about a dress today just because she didn't think it was suitable for you. Second, you have been friends for so long. Don't you know what kind of person she is? Besides, it's not good for you to quarrel over such a trivial matter and hurt your feelings.

Finally, the way of looking at things is different, the woman has more divergent thinking, and the man is used to summing up.

Different ways of thinking lead men to think that women always complicate simple problems, and women also think that men think complex things too simply. This is mainly because men have more logical advantages, they will adopt a "focused" way of thinking to look at things, and they are used to linking one thing with another in order, so as to establish a complete overview.

Women are different. Women have more divergent thinking than men. Coupled with women's delicate observation, they can find the details of the incident and piece them together with details, which leads women to pay more attention to the ins and outs of the incident rather than the specific content of the incident.

After a lot of research and investigation, Pisces, an Australian body language and behavior expert, believes that the difference between men and women's brains determines the difference between men and women's behavioral ability, lifestyle and sexual communication. There is no question of who is good or bad, just different. Because the brains of men and women work in different ways, many tragedies have happened between men and women because of misunderstanding. They made an interesting explanation in the book Adam's Brain, Eve's Brain. If we know our different ways of thinking, we will never say "sorry" to each other because of our misunderstanding.

Therefore, it is not difficult for a woman to say "I love you". The thinking structure of a woman's brain makes her world full of feelings, emotions, communication and language. Women know by feeling whether they are in the attachment stage or in love, while men are not completely sure what love is, and may not know the difference between desire, infatuation and love. All he knows is that he can't give up that girl ... maybe this is his imaginary love. This relationship lasted for several years before the man realized whether he was in love or not. And women know whether love exists, so most relationships end with women. Many men are afraid of commitment, but when a man finally crosses that line and says "love" to her, he even wants to tell everyone everywhere.

To sum up, men and women have completely different ideas. In the communication with the opposite sex, it may often happen that the other person feels lost because he can't guess his mind completely.