Traditional marriage is good or bad 200 words.

I feel that when two people get married, they are a family, androgynous. Only when two parts of individuals develop healthily can this androgyny be healthy and long-lasting.

Most of my emotional confidants are female friends. In their eyes, their men tortured themselves and profaned marriage. They want to leave this family, this man, but they are so sad in their hearts. Maybe a woman is born with a knife in her mouth and a heart in her heart. Even a woman is afraid that she can't live without this man, that she will be looked down upon by relatives and friends after divorce, and that people who are afraid of being down and out will spit on her.

First, a man who looks down on himself will always be someone else's man.

Since marriage is one and husband and wife are one, if a woman looks down on her own man, she actually looks down on herself. No matter how good someone else's man is, he is also the one who sleeps with him, no matter how bad his man is. This fact cannot be changed.

Since it is an unchangeable fact, I want to say that such a woman has a brain problem. It is absolutely impossible to live a happy married life.

Even look down on your own man, how can others look up to him? If others look down on your man, how can your man stand in this society and give you a better life if he can't stand?

Second, look down on in-laws and make irresponsible remarks all day.

The breakdown of many marriages is often not due to the breakdown of husband and wife's feelings, but may also be due to the contradiction between the woman and her in-laws. Even if a man loves another woman, if this woman is mean to her biological parents and gets angry in the middle, she can bear it. However, she has been seeing her parents for a long time, and when she is old, she is much more sad, and the man can bear it.

Some women speak ill of their in-laws in front of outsiders all day. They think they are awesome and enjoyable, but not all outsiders agree. In fact, after all, people still think that men are incompetent and can't even manage their wives, and they talk about it all day.

Third, crying in front of outsiders all day, telling men that they are incompetent in disguise.

The living must understand that they live for themselves. Since you live for yourself, you should understand that all setbacks and hardships in life must be borne by yourself. The world won't help you forever, and not everyone will pity you.

Men don't talk about it. Some women will talk to everyone whenever they encounter some difficulties and want to seek comfort and help. This cowardly performance has actually shown a cowardly man in front of outsiders, and this man is his husband.

If people don't say it, they will definitely think, is your man so bad? I can't even support my wife

In fact, not all women are miserable, but some women like to pretend to be poor. They think it's very low-key, but it's just an invisible show, which makes many people feel uncomfortable.

Men and women are all the same. If women make others feel uncomfortable, then men will not be too good in others' hearts, and the prestige of the whole family will be disturbed.

The above is purely my personal opinion.