The traditional concept has always been that "a strict teacher produces a good disciple" and "a loving mother and a strict father". Does strict mean strictness?

Since ancient times, China has had a saying that strict teachers produce good disciples and loving mothers and strict fathers. This is also a traditional concept recognized by many Chinese people. They believe that only by being strict with their children and students can their children achieve greater success in the future. A remarkable achievement. This concept does have very profound scientific truth. However, in practice, many teachers and parents mistake strictness for severity. The editor believes that strictness and severity are not the same, and strictness does not mean severity.

Strictness means having high requirements for children, requiring them to achieve good academic performance, achieve excellent performance in their daily school life, and through learning, they can enter a good university in the future. Go to school and be able to find a good job when you look for a job when you grow up. Strictness refers to the unsmiling attitude of parents or teachers towards children, which can have a good deterrent effect on children, especially for some naughty children.

However, the editor believes that parents or teachers should try not to be too strict in their attitude towards their children. They can put forward some stricter requirements for their children, but they must pay attention to their own attitudes. Especially when children grow to a certain stage, some rebellious psychology will inevitably appear. At this time, if the attitude of the child's parents or parents is too strict, this kind of psychology will be more serious, and the child will be less likely to obey his or her parents. Teacher's request.

Because many children are confused when growing up and do not set goals for themselves, teachers or parents as guides can set strict goal requirements for their children to guide them. develop in this direction. If the child encounters some difficulties or problems in the process of achieving the goal, parents can also provide corresponding help to the child to help the child overcome these difficulties. Only in this way can the purpose of strict teachers producing high-achieving disciples be achieved and parents hope that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. Phoenix's wish.