Why do some people hate or even loathe their native language? What kind of psychology?

One's own hometown dialect should be the manifestation of hometown characteristics on oneself and the influence of hometown culture on oneself. For most people, when they hear or speak their hometown dialect, it is a kind of affectionate and cozy feeling, as if they are back to their hometown.

The hometown language is as innate as one's blood type, and even if one doesn't speak it for many years, one never forgets all of it. No matter when, when you want to say it, you can always say it fluently.

Someone who hates and loathes his or her native language should have some reason or character or psychological influence.

In the workplace, there are often some introverted or low self-esteem, afraid of others know that they come from a poor, underdeveloped place, not willing to speak their hometown language, for fear of exposing their own origin, affecting their own image in the unit, but also for fear that other people know about their own hometown, some people look down on them.

Sometimes when you speak in your hometown, you try to avoid your coworkers, and even when you are on the phone, you have to distance yourself from your coworkers or lower your voice so that you can't be heard.

Sometimes, if someone learns to speak a word from his hometown, it will cause him to be annoyed, thinking that others are making fun of him for coming from a small place.

Because of his introversion or low self-esteem, these features of his hometown become the shadow of his heart, and when they appear in his surroundings, they will cause involuntary resentment.

In the workplace, there are regional factions in a unit, although there is no obvious dispute, but there is always some or no assignment.

In order not to let others know their hometown, not willing to let colleagues to their own natural classification for a faction, to maintain peace and quiet with each other, or not willing to speak their hometown language and colleagues painted on the label.

Sometimes the leaders in the unit and their own hometown, or from the same place. But if you don't want to talk about your hometown, you're afraid that your colleagues will know that you have a hometown relationship with the leader, and you're afraid to let others know that you have such a relationship, and that you're going to bring trouble to the leader or yourself in your own future career.

Some young people who have just entered the society are reluctant to speak their hometown language because they think they are highly educated and should be a generation with rich knowledge and advanced thinking.

Some young people also want to integrate into society as soon as possible, to adapt to the working environment of the unit, and generally do not want to use the hometown language to communicate, and do not want to just enter the unit to leave a small place from the people, the impression of conservatism.

In fact, the hometown language, or dialect, is one of the cultural characteristics of a place, 8,000 miles away from the beginning of the countryside, the first time to hear the sound of the countryside to comfort the guest face ( Ming Dynasty Guo Zhiqi), no matter what the reason, a period of time may hate, and even disgusted to talk about or hear, but to a certain age, as long as the first time to hear the hometown, there is a kind of unspeakable The language is a very important part of the world's culture.

Language is a tool for communication.

People should learn at least two languages in their lives: their native language and Mandarin.

People from different parts of the world are used to communicating with each other in their native language, which is friendly and natural, and easy to express their meaning and emotions. If one of them speaks a foreign language, it will look a little sour and awkward.

Hometown language, for thousands of years, is a local language passed down from the ancestors, is a part of the traditional culture, which contains a wealth of unique culture and customs, can not be lost.

It doesn't matter how far away you are from home, at home or abroad, you can find your way back to your hometown by using your hometown accent.

If you remember your native language, you will know where your ancestors came from, where your roots are, and where your hometown is!

Personally, I think it's more of an inferiority complex than anything else, and I think it's a shame to be laughed at.

Mandarin and dialects, dialects and dialects are not good or bad. You should know that Mandarin is also produced from the dialect, each dialect is like a flower in the bush, with it to make our language more colorful. But some people still consciously or unconsciously hate their hometown dialect, I think in addition to the cognitive bias, specifically expressed in a person, there may also be one or more of the following psychological reasons.

Utilitarianism. With the popularization of Putonghua and more and more people frequent long-distance interactions, Putonghua has become a universal mass language communication tools, play the role of other languages can not be replaced. In contrast, the hometown dialects are dwarfed by the local language. This role of the dialect is small, the status of the corresponding reduced, some people therefore despise it; some people even think that the hometown language is useless, hate it.

Herd mentality. This makes people dislike their own dialect consciously or unconsciously.

Inferiority complex. This kind of inferiority complex, regardless of the face of the Mandarin-speaking, or speak other dialects, feel that their own hometown dialect is not as good as other people's language.

Projection mentality. This kind of person hates some people or some things in their hometown for some reason, so they hate even the dialect they love to speak.

In conclusion, I would like to say that it is important to learn Mandarin, but we can't lose our wonderful and beautiful hometown dialect!

Hate and loathe are the same.

I think it only makes sense to teach children Mandarin.

It's been 70 years since the founding of the country, and if you add in the Republic of China, it's been nearly a century since we promoted Mandarin in China. The reason why we still have dialects is because the population was less mobile in the past.

In modern times, people are moving around, bringing children with them, not, bring out your children a mouthful of dialect, that is the object of ridicule and discrimination.

It's time to force the promotion of homophony. It's time to force the promotion of language homophony. Language homophony is conducive to national cohesion, conducive to national communication, and more conducive to the development of science and technology in our country.

A city couple gave birth to a child, the countryside of the mother-in-law to see the child, unwilling to go to the city of the mother-in-law used a trick, scared daughter-in-law rushed to send her mother-in-law back to the countryside. What was the trick? Teaching the child to speak the village dialect! [cover face]

It's not the hometown dialect that's actually annoying, it's the hometown people.