Etiquette is an ability

Etiquette is an ability

Etiquette is an ability. China is known as the state of etiquette, from ancient times to the present, has always paid attention to etiquette, etiquette is a kind of progress of human civilization, is no number between people get along with each other. The etiquette used on different occasions is different. The following share etiquette is a kind of ability.

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Business etiquette

The month before the Spring Festival, before the store service etiquette training course, heard a few trainees chatting, one of the men said: I am most afraid of listening to etiquette lessons. I slowly walked over to listen, asked why ah, he was embarrassed to smile and said: is that too many rules, after learning also can not be used.

I asked him if he had listened to etiquette courses before.

He said yes, the company's internal trainer said, anyway, also think it makes sense, is to do so, but a go back to forget.

Yes, simply explain what is etiquette, the importance of etiquette, etiquette of a few ideas.

So, let's make up a few phrases to help memorize it. What's in it for me?

This is the difference between acquiring knowledge in the usual sense and acquiring competence in the usual sense, from knowing knowledge to applying it as a competence. Theoretically, people define this process as 21 days, and it takes 21 days to change a habit (or less, or more, depending on the person), and 90 days of repetition to make it a stable habit.

There are two issues involved in that student's answer:

1. There are too many rules, and it's too hard to do them - in fact, it's because of accumulated habits that are hard to change, lol, plus the fact that our country's tragic Cultural Revolution catastrophe has led to us becoming the most famous nation in the world in recent times. One of the world's most famous uncivilized nation, many people were side-eyed because he simply did not know what is the correct behavior, most people, already living in such an environment thought that this is the right, this is natural, but will be on the really right, resistance and even fear, this is really a great sadness.

2, after learning can not be used - how to ensure that the knowledge learned can be truly transformed into their own ability? Who will guarantee it? Many people just listen to the training in accordance with the initial to do will not be natural, so simply give up, and the company has no monitoring mechanism to ensure that its behavioral changes. In this way, the internal cause of resistance coupled with the external cause of laxity, resulting in the phenomenon of poor training and thus no improvement in the phenomenon and results.

3. Previously, the internal lecturer has spoken - just the theory of the explanation, and no exercises and later follow-up to consolidate the effect and no system as a supervisory guarantee, so it can not meet the expectations.

By and large, the 21 days of changing from one habit to another will go through three stages:

One, forced, deliberate, awkward and unnatural

Two, semi-deliberate, natural, and in need of constant reminder

Three, unintentional, natural, and completely integrated into their own lives

In the first

In the link from the first to the third, if the internal cause is that they do not have strong self-control, they need external factors to help, that is, we said the company to develop the appropriate system and assessment to ensure that the effect of training to achieve.

So, in China now, etiquette is actually a kind of ability to remind others after constant self-reminding. This ability can be naturally formed in the family environment from childhood to adulthood, or it can be acquired through learning and practicing.

Once this ability is formed, etiquette affects your life and the lives and work of others from the inside out, and for the better!

Etiquette is a kind of ability2

(a) Traditional

Etiquette is an integral part of the traditional culture of a country or nation. In our country, modern etiquette is centered on traditional culture, and constantly absorbs the excellent culture of other nations, and gradually develops and improves in the long-term practice of social life. It is rooted in the fertile soil of traditional culture, and thus has a deep tradition. "State of Manners" thousands of years of civilization, the Chinese nation to repair the rituals, reverence for rituals, the traditional virtues of rituals, y integrated into the modern etiquette, constraints and norms of modern human behavior. Etiquette is the people in the long-term life and interaction in the habits, norms fixed and inherited, has a broad social and cultural basis, etiquette of this tradition is y rooted. In social life, etiquette is people's agreed norms of behavior, most of them do not form the text, no need to deliberately spread, it is in people's mutual interaction in the dissemination, inheritance, along the habit, the accumulation of. In this process, the traditional etiquette of those cumbersome, conservative content has been abandoned, only those who embodied the spiritual civilization of mankind and social progress, on behalf of the essence of the traditional culture of the Chinese people and the mainstream of the etiquette, to be handed down from generation to generation, and is constantly improved and developed.

(2)***Same Sex

Etiquette is formed on the basis of human ***same life. On the basis of the formation of the same society, is the same society, all members of the regulation of mutual relations of the norms of behavior. Etiquette with the social production, living environment and changes in the form of life and constantly enrich and perfect, and gradually become the social classes *** with the code of conduct. The content of etiquette is mostly based on the agreed folk customs and specific culture, which centrally reflects the cultural psychology and living habits of a certain range of people **** the same, and thus carries obvious **** the same characteristics. Etiquette is applied to people's social interaction, its scope and guidelines must be widely recognized, in order to be in a considerable range of **** the same compliance, which also determines the etiquette of **** the same characteristics. Due to the expanding scope of communication, the original due to geographical and cultural exchange restrictions caused by the differences in the norms of etiquette is gradually broken, many forms of etiquette is more and more people accept and recognize the etiquette of the **** the same characteristics will become increasingly obvious.

(3) Difference

Etiquette as a kind of conventional behavioral norms, the use of its time, place and environmental constraints, the same etiquette will be due to the time, place or object of the change and different. This is the characteristic of the difference of etiquette. The difference of etiquette is first manifested in the national differences, different national etiquette is colorful, each with its own characteristics. Customs and etiquette of all nationalities are condensed with the people of the region of the `cultural complex, people strictly follow, painstakingly maintained, it is difficult to change. For example, the same meeting ceremony, different ethnic groups have different forms of expression. The difference of etiquette is also manifested in personality differences, each person due to their status, character, qualifications and other factors, in the use of the same etiquette will show different forms and characteristics. For example, when attending the same reception, men and women should have different styles of performance. The difference of etiquette is also manifested in its era of variability, which is constantly developing, enriching and perfecting with the progress of society. Etiquette always reflects the requirements of the times and the spirit of the times, and thus will produce differences with the development of the times. Countries around the world attach great importance to liturgical reform, the trend of modern liturgical development is to make liturgical activities more civilized, concise and practical.

(4) Self-discipline

Etiquette is the social life of the agreed habits and rules, etiquette has a wide range of norms of people's behavior binding, but this binding is not mandatory. Etiquette is not as majestic as the law, and not as solemn as morality, the implementation of etiquette without the need for others to urge and supervise, someone offended by the norms of etiquette, will not be sanctioned by the law. Therefore, the implementation of etiquette, mainly relying on people to consciously use etiquette norms to restrain their own behavior, which is the etiquette of self-discipline. This characteristic of etiquette requires people to set up an inner moral conviction and behavioral cultivation norms in the process of implementing etiquette, constantly improve the ability of self-restraint and self-restraint, and consciously abide by the etiquette norms in interpersonal communication. The self-discipline of etiquette does not mean that etiquette can be offended at will, do not pay attention to the etiquette of the people in social life will be everywhere, loneliness, embarrassment, disillusionment is always difficult to get rid of, and consciously pay attention to the etiquette of human interaction will be smooth sailing, respected everywhere.

(E) hierarchical

The hierarchical nature of etiquette is manifested in the different status of different status, the status of the people of different protocol treatment. In social life, people tend to use the distinction between young and old, men and women to regulate the degree of respect for each person. In official contacts, to determine the official protocol order, to determine the official protocol order is mainly based on the official position or social status of the high and low. This order of protocol with some kind of mandatory, different people therefore get different protocol treatment, but this does not mean that inferiority or superiority, but the normal order of modern social interaction performance, reflecting the social status of public officials at all levels and role norms. The hierarchical nature of etiquette in social interaction is also manifested in two-way reciprocity, that is, in different regions and different organizations, the two sides of the interaction, the two sides of the personnel in the status of public office and social status should be similar, the nature of the business should be similar, as a way to show respect for each other. Both sides of the interaction should also be a kind of respect for each other, emotional interaction process, in the etiquette to have come and gone, mutual reciprocity. This is the work needs and etiquette requirements of the combination of unity.