Family Style, Family Training and Family Education of Chinese Traditional Virtues

The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children stand out. Recently, with the popularity of the word "family style", I can't help seeing photos of my grandparents educating me.

When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: "Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates at school (Bozhou proverb means quarreling or fighting). If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I will go to your teacher. " ! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me a "political lesson" when I'm free, tells some classic stories, and teaches me to be frank when things go wrong, to get along well with teachers and classmates at school, and not to always have conflicts with others. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates.

Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experiences in military service, and warns me: "Few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. You must learn to bear hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do great things! " Grandpa also taught me: "Only by suffering can you become a master." Only after experiencing an unbearable environment can we cultivate real talents and excel in our future work and life. Perhaps this is the "heaven's great responsibility, people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies and skins ...".

Now, I have entered junior high school and become a junior high school student. I have developed a good habit of being helpful, hard-working and simple. Come to think of it carefully, these are closely related to our family style. Grandma still gives me a "political lesson" before going to school every time, and grandpa still tells me the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation from time to time before and after meals, such as thrift and hard work. I'm happy to listen to them, because that's a good family style in our family.

I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Nowadays, some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and "positive energy" has been passed down. If we add a good family style to the construction, the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's life will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!