Waiting for the bus, the boy played a kung fu fist on the bus platform: if you have confidence, you will have a stage.

What are the necessary qualities for an excellent child? Different parents may give slightly different answers, but it is certain that there is a quality that all parents should recognize, and that is "self-confidence".

How will a confident child behave in his daily life?

Let's watch a little video. The protagonist of this little video is a primary school student. While waiting for the bus, he confidently played Kung Fu boxing, and the whole process was smooth and elegant. We can all feel the child's full confidence through the screen.

Netizens have commented: It's amazing! I give full marks for this martial arts!

This makes people curious, how is this self-confidence cultivated? What should parents do about cultivating their children's self-confidence?

About the cultivation of self-confidence, it should be sooner rather than later.

How early can this be? It is no exaggeration to say that training can start from infancy.

In daily life, with meticulous care, parents let their children gradually establish a positive attitude of "I can do it, I can do it" from infancy, and then feel that they are capable.

This is the beginning of the sprout of self-confidence.

It is said that cultivating children's self-confidence can be achieved through praise or praise.

Here, I want to ask parents. Do you know how to praise children?

Some parents may find this question funny. Who can boast that their children are so simple?

I regret to tell you that there are really many parents who don't praise their children.

"You are so smart."

"You did the right thing."

"You are the best."

This is not the right way to praise children.

These general compliments fail to praise ideas, but they can still be effective once or twice. Over time, they will make children lose the freshness of being praised, let alone cultivate self-confidence.

As the saying goes, "good steel should be used on the blade", so should the correct opening method.

Correct praise should be praised to specific places to give children a sense of identity.

For example, children try to build blocks, fail several times, and finally succeed.

Although this compliment is wordy, it can be called a standard answer.

Analyzing this sentence, we find that it is a process of praising children's efforts through factual description, so that children can know the specific reasons for their praise and point out the direction for their next work.

This will give children real psychological affirmation and appreciation.

The appreciation of others will make children feel that their existence is very important and meaningful, so the sense of pleasure and self-affirmation that comes with it will naturally enhance their self-confidence.

If you want to get twice the result with half the effort, clever and beautiful praise is essential.

"I feel very shallow on paper and don't know how to do it."

Want to establish children's self-confidence, but also through practice to test.

Therefore, parents should remember the word "release" and let their children do it.

Many parents subconsciously think that "children are still young", so they will do things for their children one by one without giving them the opportunity to do it themselves.

In fact, parents' proper letting go is a sign of trust in their children. When children accomplish something by themselves, they will have a sense of accomplishment, feel affirmed by their parents, and feel confident.

When a child begins to develop self-awareness, he often likes to do something beyond his ability.

At this time, out of distress, parents often think that their children are too young to do it, so they stop them from doing it or try to do it for them, but in fact this is a reflection of parents' distrust of their children.

In the process of children's growth, what we should abandon most is the distrust of parents. What we should do is to give the child full trust and let him stand firm slowly in stumbling.

For example:

Because of the accumulation of sand, if you want to exercise and improve your child's abilities in all aspects, you must let your child start from small things, learn from failures, and gain ability and self-confidence.

Piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, dancing, singing, all kinds of artistic talents are divided. When your children stand on the stage, or create their own stage like the children in the video, the light they emit is called confidence.

It is this self-confidence that can make children shine in the crowd!

If your child is timid, introverted and taciturn, please ask parents to find reasons from themselves.

Because parents are children's initial teachers, children's initial ways of dealing with people are all learned from their parents.

If parents have problems with their educational methods, they will often ridicule and attack their children in a simple and rude way. Over time, children will naturally feel nervous and lose confidence.

Therefore, for the sake of children, please be patient, make good use of the positive energy of language, enhance mutual trust and cultivate children's self-confidence from an early age.

Have you given your child confidence? Is your child confident?

# Mother and Baby Alliance #