How to express love to your loved ones

How to express love to your loved ones

How to express love with the person you love? If life is a five-flavor bottle, then family is the sweetest bottle. If life is a picture, then family is the most beautiful one. Have you ever expressed your love for your loved ones? Are there many things you have never said? Let's learn how to express your love to the person you love.

How to express love to relatives 1 Not long ago, a good friend's father was hospitalized with terminal cancer, and he was informed by the hospital that he was dying, so he arranged for his family and old friends to visit him, but he didn't let his father know his situation. His friend's father wants to know why so many friends come to see him. Although my friend's father has been ill for some time, the family also knows that it is only a matter of time before his father leaves. But I still don't give up in my heart. Among them, my friend's mother is the most sad. They have been married for almost fifty years. She didn't know how to face it, and even endured the pain and kept telling her that he would be fine.

As a result, my friend's mother was psychologically painful, and a lot of love and disappointment could not be expressed. My friend's father endured physical pain and struggled in the hospital bed. Children and their families are suffering from mental stress, physical fatigue and economic burden, rushing between hospitals, families and work. Friends around me want to care but can't help.

This has a lot to do with the traditional concept of China people, that is, "I can't open my heart to love you". The words "I love you" seem to be difficult for orientals to say, which may be due to traditional reasons or because they have never had these language habits with their parents since childhood. However, because of this incident, I don't know how many people are still blaming themselves and being annoyed after their relatives and friends have left. Why don't they tell each other "I love you" in time

There are two characteristics in a person's life.

The first is inevitability. One day, we will all face death. On that day, we all hope to look back on our life with a heart without regrets. However, a person deeply knows that when facing death, we will cherish every minute of people, things and things around us. A grateful heart makes life full of color and rich in connotation.

The second is uncertainty. Life is not in our hands. When we face death, no one has a definite answer. Looking forward to our life without regrets, we should express our gratitude and love to the people around us in time. Expressing your concern for your loved ones properly and correctly can not only make the other person feel your dedication, but also deepen the feelings of both sides, making our life seem to be a journey full of blessings and joy. As Mother Teresa said, everyone who comes to you will leave with a smile, confidence or love. Let love always be on our lips and change the original oriental traditional character. Not only for our relatives, but also for our friends and neighboring classmates, we need to express our concern and love to them in time.

Everyone has imperfect shortcomings, but also has advantages. Therefore, timely and appropriately expressing gratitude to family members and encouraging them to express their love for their families orally or in other forms will form a good interaction.

Different people express and accept love in the same way, just as people of different nationalities use different languages. Only by understanding the needs of family members and expressing their love in a way acceptable to the other party can we create a close relationship between family members. First of all, we should learn what expressions are helpful to our relationship, and then understand that everyone has their own unique expressions, or verbal expressions, or mutual service, or physical contact and hug. Some people like words of praise and affirmation, some people like others to give them gifts, and some people like to help others, such as mothers helping their children prepare lunch. She thinks this is her love, but the child may like his mother to hug him, so he feels love. In any case, we can learn different expressions, observe everyone's different expressions, and express our inner care and love according to everyone's characteristics.

Next, I will introduce several ways to express my love for the elderly. These love languages are the five basic languages of love: affirmative words, companionship moments, thanks, service actions and physical contact. The basic languages of these five kinds of love are as follows:

1. Positive words: for example, "Thank you! You help me make-""The soup is really delicious tonight ".

2. Accompanying moments: for example, "Give your family enough time and attention" and "What do your family do together".

3. thank you: for example, "mom! Thank you for everything ","Dad! I love you very much.

4. Action of service: It takes some time and imagination to arrange service … to meet each other's needs and surprise and move the elderly.

5. Physical contact: Physical contact is very important for people's growth, and it is also an indispensable element to maintain emotions, because proper physical contact can establish relationships, and improper methods will destroy relationships. Adult children or younger generations can express their care for the elderly by holding hands, hugging, massaging and carrying their backs.

If the elderly at home are sick in bed or have difficulty in moving, you can sit or lie beside your parents, hold their hands, talk to them about your childhood, thank them for taking care of you when you were a child, understand their efforts and hardships for this family, how important they are to you, and express to them how much you love them, or your current life and achievements. These are the best love languages. If you are not used to talking, it is also good to sit by the bed with them, help them to stroke their hair, shake hands and do some simple body massage.

Another good way is to listen and listen to them. We just need to respond appropriately. Or do your own thing around them, such as reading newspapers, watching TV, doing odd jobs and so on. It is important to let them know that you are by his side and that you are with him, so that the old people can feel more at ease and more at ease. It is also more comfortable to face aging and death. Although family members are reluctant to give up, they can let go psychologically because you know that they will always be in your heart and love will always exist.

How to express love with relatives? I think I am 2 1 year old, 2 1 year old. How much care have I given you? How much comfort? I dare not think about this number! Long night, this is my mood! Whenever I think of you in the dead of night, I forget your sadness at dawn! I know it, but it's worthless. Sometimes feeling young is just a hypocritical excuse. When people are always ignorant, they will find a stupid excuse to make up for their mistakes. Why should we consider it? You can lie to your parents, you can't lie to yourself, you can't lie to yourself, you can't lie to my own conscience! My past mistakes always make me lost, and when I can wake up becomes a new excuse. Wrong, still going on! Not being reminded is another excuse! Wrong, still going on! ..... There is too much helplessness in life, but that's because we have been coming. Losing myself, my life seems happy, but in fact it is sad!

Today, 20XX years ago, when my mother was in tears, it was really unspeakable pain, acute pain. Think about what it's like to be with mom and dad. Since the year I returned to school, everything at home has changed, becoming strange and indifferent.

Actually, I should have known. Why is dad so grumpy and irritable these two years that we can't have a happy meal together during the Spring Festival? Because only when I went back to school did he become anxious, irritable, maybe too stressed, and at the same time, his mother, grandmother and sister were also wronged ... it can be said that it was all because of me. I know that no amount of words can make up for your injustice, but I still want to say "I'm sorry" to you and thank you for your company.

I wonder if my parents will be happier if I don't go back to school and continue to make money to help them reduce their pressure. I wonder if they will be happier if I have money. I'm thinking, maybe, I'm really selfish, because I want to study, and I want to study, which makes my parents so miserable. Before, I felt that my study didn't bring them pressure and didn't need them to do anything. Because I am studying, my parents get up early and get greedy, and my hair is white, but I still have to worry about me. Because they can't help me, they worry about me every day. They will worry about whether I am warm or not, whether I am full or not, and whether I am doing well, but they don't care about their own lives ... They have worked hard for a year, and they are thinking about where to pay back the money they owe others. ...

I'm thinking, I'm really unfilial ... Because of my selfishness, my parents have suffered so much, suffered so much injustice, and shed so much fatigue ...

Mom and dad, grandma and sister, you have worked hard. You must take good care of yourself. I won't let you down, I will know how to be a man, make money hard, let you live a carefree life and have a happy family.